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| PLEASE BE PATIENT! HAVE BEEN OVERWHELMED! WE'RE SETTING UP A GROUP, @YAHOO, SO THAT WE CAN GET THINGS UNDER CONTROL. I AM DOING MY BEST TO CATCH UP WITH ALL THE INTEREST
Hi, I'm Brenda.
Will be adding member photos as I am able. I will be the last one, always.
It seems I must insert this, here at the start of this profile - the group and I are a unit. If you are not interested in our group, there is no sense in you being interested in me.
To clarify the ID, it means BigBeautifulPeople
This is a group ID and we are all eithe Big and Beautiful or attracted to those who are.
And, who are, of course, either dominant or submissive, Master, Mistress, slave, sissy, switch.
Well, you get it.
There are 19 of us. Ages from 46 to 72
Mostly in MA, NH and ME, but as far away as Delaware
This short statement is to let you know we exist
Once I've completed this, and you know more about us and our "rules", maybe you will want to get in touch. Maybe not. Our rules are meant to make sure we are ALL active and enjoying ourselves - safely. Having said that, we've tried to take the word NO out of our vocabularies - except when it comes to limits! - by making sure nobody is an inactive, or just curioius member.
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I'm starting with some VERY basic background information that will let you all know where we stand, as a group. How we view the lifestyle. A good way for you to begin figuring out if you will fit in. Believe me, we want you to fit in, but this sort of thing has to be a good fit, for everybody.
In our group are people with just about every taste, fetish or interest that you might imagine. This began with two BB couples who lived near Plymouth, six years ago. They found the same difficulties we all do is meeting good people, even though they were only looking for play relationships. And, it was just that much harder for them since they were stereotypical, vanilla or trim. People would get in touch, write, even meet once or twice and that would be it. Then they might hear from them, again, a year or two later. Or never. And, that would be if the person was real enough to really want to meet! Like I said, we all know hot that goes!
So, our "rules" grew out of how these four people had set up their own set of rules. And, they're pretty basic.
- Be healthy and clean and stay that way. No contact with outsiders, unless they were to
be part of the four - now more.
- All would meet with anybody new. Not to judge them but to get to know them. Everybody being very clear about their sexual roles and personal situations. This first meeting to be in a public and neutral place
- No fetish or kink could be rejected unless it involved going past somebody's safety limits
- Nobody could refuse another for vanilla sex
- No dominant could refuse the submission of any person, submissive or switch - even a curious person who was dominant
- No submissive could refuse the dominance of any person, dominant or switch - even a curious person who was submissive
We know this isn't for everybody. But, if you are the right person, I know that it works! You just have to be able to throw out a few of your old ideas, and accept new ones. Broaden your view to accept all friendship and pleasure, disregarding who it comes from, if you can. Get rid of ideas that limit what you might experience!
I will have to keep working on this! I know it. And, it is going to take time, so it's good we are all busy with the holidays! You're going to be expected to write to a number of our members. Not to wear you down, but because we can all come up with different questions - and answers! This is for you, as well as us. Then, one of us will be randomly chosen to meet with you - whether you are single or a couple. And, I really mean it when I say that all of this isn't to find a way to reject you, but to make sure you know us well enough so you never reject us!
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