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07/30/13 Yay! More Updating! Are you looking at my profile because I looked at yours? I'm cool with that. Did I look at yours and not send you a message or something? Probably, yeah... That doesn't mean I'm not interested though. In fact, if I did look at your profile, I probably am interested, at least to some degree, and am now curious as to what kind of move you'll make and personality you have. If you do send me mail here, and haven't read through my profile here, I will know. Loosely translated, anything that comes in that is essentially just "Hi.", will be deleted and receive no reply whatsoever. Seriously, put SOMETHING of interest in there. Even just common niceties. I have a spouse, wife (trans mtf), we've been together for 18 years now and are legally married. Yes, that's right, I'm in a poly relationship. We're not in an open relationship though. What am I looking for then? Well... I would love to be able to sum that all up in a couple words, it would make things so much easier, wouldn't it? But that's not going to happen, so let's start with some simple things. Human is a definite plus. Male, yeah, that would be good. Trans/CD is fine too. In fact, more than fine, it's preferred. Someone younger than me please also. Good personality, sense of humour, respectful... You know what? Just send me a note or something, and we can go from there, yeah? Yes, over on the side it says "Crossdressing" under the "Lives For" section. NO! I don't mean ME! Nobody wants to see that! I would look like an old, pregnant, Russian woman. Not pleasant! I mean for those lovelies who might be interested in being the spoiled one I take in and care for as my pet. I really wish CM would add something about that somehow.

Soooo... What is there to know about me? Well, a lot of it is already outlined on the side. Go take a look. I'm quite happy to answer any questions you may have.

I'm mostly here for conversation and to meet awesome people, which I've done. So many wonderful people on CM. Don't be afraid to drop me a c-mail. Worst that will happen is I'll ignore it, no big loss really, I'm not that earth-shatteringly interesting or important.

If you do contact me, please don't start off with just saying that you want to be my slave/pet/etc. I don't even know you and you don't know me yet. That's just silly and sounds terribly desperate. That's like going up to someone in the store and saying "Hi, will you marry me?". You wouldn't do that, and would probably get escorted out by security if you did. Let's get to know eachother first, as friends, and then go from there. You know... like real life. :) I tend to be a rather 'fatherly' figure. I don't mind at all when people get in touch with me to chat, if they have questions, want some guidance, or just want to talk for a while. On that note, if I don't get back to your c-mail for a week or so, I may not be ignoring you. I tend to become kind of busy, randomly now, as I own my own catering company, help a friend out at his sushi restaurant and my wife and I sit on the board of directors for a non profit org as well as her going to college. That, on top of taking care of the normal (and at times abnormal) household things. I will always try to get back to people as soon as I can.

I am not a bad person, I think. I am fair, reasonable, have a decent amount of logical thinking skills. I'm educated and, although I can be a bit grumpy at times (blame stress and lack of sleep mostly), I tend to be rather friendly, and at times, even more than a tad on the goofy side. Loosely translated, I'm bat-shit bonkers.

4/11/2011 4:07:37 PM

Alright, so, I have a job which takes up a LOT of time.  That being said, if I don't reply right away, it's probably because I'm either at work or am so tired after work that I don't feel I can type a coherent response.  I will usually reply within a 7 day period though, normally sooner.  K?  :)

 

Now then, yeah, uh...  New journal... new journal...  Yes, I'm still looking for a pet, although I do have someone in mind whom I hope to hear back from and talk with.  Let's hope that goes well.  Uh...  wow, I don't really know right now.  Not a whole lot to say.  

 

I guess I'll be working on my website and updating it (finally) sometime in the near future, hopefully some today.

 

Don't worry, that shouldn't bring the radio stream down for long, if at all. *knocks wood*

 

Speaking of which, yes, the radio is back on the air, has been for a few weeks now.  I'm very glad for this.

 

I don't really have a lot else to talk about right now though, sooooo, be sure to tune in again, same bat time, same bat channel!

12/26/2010 6:45:00 PM

Well, Christmas is over, so, figure I would tell everyone that the christmas music is done with on my online station at www.BiggKattStudios.com .  Now I'm playing some great dance music from yesterday and today, so you can party out until the new year! :)

3/22/2010 2:58:16 PM
Yeah, that's right... I'm back!  I'm back, I've got some new toys, and a hankerin' for some spankerin'!

And y'all thought you'd finally gotten rid of me.  No such luck.  ;)

Loosely translated, I've missed you guys and gals. *HUG*
12/31/2009 10:12:23 PM
Happy new year to all you crazy future people in time zones ahead of mine!  For everyone, everywhere, I'm on the air live at BiggKattStudios.com playing some hot party music for you to listen to while ringing in the New Year!
11/22/2009 3:09:26 PM
Up and on the air, playing a long list of alternative christmas music tonight, at www.biggkattstudios.com

Come on over and check it out, give me a chat from the site too. :D
11/13/2009 5:55:39 PM
New radio info, as follows.  Well, a lot of new info actually.

Got my website up finally... took me long enough.  Still very much under construction, but it's there.  http://www.biggkattstudios.com  

Pretty simple, ne?  From there you can listen to my radio stream if I'm on the air.

If you go there and don't see a site, give me a little while, I'm still uploading it as we speak.  LOVE YOU GUYS AND GALS!  And especially the ones in between! ;)
11/5/2009 12:19:27 PM
So, I got a facebook finally.  Now let's see if I actually use it.

Radio info gone... see new journal!
7/4/2008 12:33:14 PM
I bet no one knew I wrote prose... Well, I do. I don't claim it to be the best in the world, but, here is one example. I'll probably toss another one in here sometime in the near future as well. Enjoy.
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Confessions Of A Master
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There is so much you don't know, so much you haven't seen. When you sit at my feet and I look down at you, see your adoring face smiling back up at me, my pet, I wonder. Do you have any idea the nights I cry because I miss you by my side? Do you know the ache I feel when I think of all the things I can't give you?
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A Master must keep up apperances, must seem strong and unshakable. But deep down, I have a heart, a soft one. If I didn't, I wouldn't be able to love you like I do. I wouldn't be able to see you as my angel in cuffs. I couldn't enjoy our time together, treasuring it more than the most glorious jewels in the world.
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My stoic appearance is betrayed by the tear of joy that sits in the corner of my eye as you look up at me, your face radiant with pride, calling me 'Sir'.
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I'm sure you know these things inside, for my pet, you are smart. You are intuitive. You know your Master well. As proud as you are to call me your Master, I can assure you, that although I don't show the tenderness, I don't say the words as often as my heart would like me to, I am just as proud and honoured that you would let me call you my pet.
7/3/2008 11:01:00 PM
Well, a journal entry now I suppose, would be in order.  Considering I've not yet gotten around to this particular part.  No matter whether someone is a Dom, there is always someone higher in the chain of command.  Life and work have been the cruel masters of mine for a long while now.

Things should be calming down though soon, I do hope.

I would love to meet and talk with others here, particularly new subs.  No, I am not actively seeking another pet.  It would be unfair to myself and said pet at this point in time, as I'd not have the time to devote to the relationship.

That being said, I am looking for friends, and intelligent conversation.  Just because you may be a sub, do not think you've nothing to offer as far as discussion.  When a Master begins to think he has nothing to learn from a sub, then that Master has no rights calling himself such.
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