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| DOMINA ELLE - FETISH ARTIST - DOMINATRIX WITH A WELL LUBRICATED IMAGINATION!
I have other profiles here from ages ago, that I no longer have access to. So here we go with yet another profile! LOL. I don't spend much time here, I'm usually on another bdsm networking site that I'm sure you can guess which one. Let's see what this site has to offer....
I operate a FUNgeon in the Denver region. I am a long time fetishist and kink aficionado! I am very much into a wide variety of PLAY modalities. I have developed an approach I refer to as 'kinky adult play therapy'. I am adult play facilitator. I specialize in couples and individuals. I have extensive experience with couples and I actively reach out to couples because I truly enjoy the dynamics involved. I have been facilitating sexy escapism as a bdsm professional for over 13 years though I've been exploring and acting out my 'kinks' since I was much younger, before I had the vocabulary to describe what it was.
I am a student of life. I don't take myself too serious but I take the journey of life very serious.
I am a proactive advocate for the decriminalization of sex work. When the sovereignty of sex workers is acknowledged and honored- this will go far across the board as far as everyone's sovereignty, in specific SEXUAL FREEDOM.
As far as I am concerned, bdsm and fetish is an art form, creative sexuality, living art. It is a therapeutic modality in its optimum. This is about LIBERATION from shame, self acceptance, and actualization. The 'acting out' process allows the participants a medium to process who they are creating themselves to be through self observation.
Not to mention- simply put- ITS FUN.
Honesty is an expression of LOVE and RESPECT.
I don't tolerate drama, gossip, games, any form of social bullshit. I don't have life to waste on it. If you can't be REAL, please move along. I am as real as it gets I assure you.
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My list is MY list of the best of the kinky - fetishistic - bdsm movies:
1. TOKYO DECADENCE (not so easy to find. Be sure to get a copy with subtitles NOT dubbed!!! You want to hear them talking in Japanese!)
2. Belle Du Jour (get the subtitled one not dubbed)
3. The story of O
4. 91/2 weeks
5. The secretary
6. CRASH
7. A dangerous method
8. The notorious Betty Paige
9. Barbarella (I like the part when Duran Duran tries to kill her by putting her in a fuck machine but she blows up the fuck machine being that she's BARBARELLA)
10. Ilsa She Wolf of the SS
More bdsm kinky of fetishistic movies:
Exit to Eden, Blue velvet, the image, preaching to the perverted, the pet, Salo or 120 days of sodom, SM-rechter, hounded, Hakkinbon bijin ranbu yori: semeru!, Maitresse, conspirators of pleasure, the piano teacher, sin city, the notorious Bettie Paige, 8mm, kinky boots
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Note to the 'ladies' (using this term loosely)....
If you are going to try to copy my words in your ads or profiles (thinking I have a winning strategy and that's your only motive) consider this:
I am NOT just talking. I walk my talk. I am GENUINE. I am sharing WHO I AM and WHAT I KNOW from many years experience (I EARNED MY BOOTS) and If you do not understand this work enough to already know instead of stealing from me- you do not get it. You are a fake and a con. If you can't WALK THE TALK you shouldn't be talking the talk!
I've had people plagiarize my words but they are not able to truly LIVE UP TO THEM. if you can actually live up to the words more power to you (because this would mean you provide quality experiences and are not pushing a lie) though I must ask why a person who 'gets it' wouldn't have developed their own perspectives enough to generate their own ORIGINAL concepts?!
COPY MY INTEGRITY and you will be on to something!!!! |
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My message to another fin dim:
Wow. Another cookie cutout gold digger disguising herself as a Domme? why YES!!! Is this the best you can do? Come on! I challenge you as a woman, as a woman calling herself a Dominant- to use your intellect to find more dignified means of earning a living. How about being a real dominatrix? This fin dim crap is not traditional domination and only erupted since the Internet. It is PATHETIC. there is NOTHING empowering about it. You are an Internet BEGGAR and there is nothing dominant about it. You and most other fin dims come off as whiny little bitches not empowered women. |
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Excerpt from a private message that I wanted to share (a comment I made to a Dom asking about exploring things from the other side which I think is awesome to do. Find someone who will respect you and who you can trust then GO FOR IT):
Are we exclusively defined as dominant OR submissive? Most of the subs I play with, are very dominant on a daily basis, and they need to let go of control to get a balance. It's therapeutic for them. When people allow me in their personal space I consider it an honor to be trusted in this way. It is power that should be wielded wisely and reverently. I wish more dommes/doms saw it this way, it won't lessen a persons 'dominance' and is a way to honor one another. I think we need more of this. I am not submissively inclined, but I have bottomed for other dominants now and then, because it helps me to be a better top. It adds dimension to what you do with your bottoms because for one, you experience what you do to others. Knowing what a flogging or a spanking feels like, absolutely makes a difference. The play doesn't have to involve the "yes mistress" aspect, for there to be a power exchange. I look at this stuff as a 'treatment'. I am activating my subjects body and mind in a scenario where they surrender to me. I am getting them out of their head. I am facilitating a therapeutic release of energy.
I think it should be an accepted standard in the community, that those people who want to dish it out- get some experience around what these activities feel like from the other side. How could it not be a benefit? I'd say it's ego that prevents some people from being able to do this, if not some other head trip. Otherwise WHY NOT?! The main thing is to experience whatever you are exploring from a healthy platform. Why limit ourselves otherwise? I operate a FUNgeon in Denver. I invite you to consider scheduling a session. My studio is prolifically equipped and I am one the most experienced femdoms in this part of the world. I play with many people who would not define themselves as submissive in addition to those that do. Some people don't do the labels. Some people are fetishists rather than sub or dom.
It's all about learning and expanding anyway, so again- why limit yourself? |
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LOL, doubtful if you haven't read my profile to begin with, that you will read this, but I clearly state that I am not looking for a 24/7 long term relationship. My plate is very FULL. I am truly sorry that there aren't more quality dominants available (male or female or other). It can be tough finding quality people and experiences BUT DON'T GIVE UP and DO NOT SETTLE FOR LESS.
I won't reply to someone who says 'nice profile' but who clearly has not thoroughly read over it. SMILE. |
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I am NOT surprised that I am getting droves of messages thanking me for my post against 'fin dims' (fin doms) because people by and large find them to be as gross as I do. Thank goodness other sites are not as infected with these bottom feeding parasites!
I challenge you women to USE YOUR INTELLECT and figure out a more dignified way to earn a living than begging on the Internet expecting something FOR NOTHING. This form of gold digging- this CON JOB is the same old shit wrapped up as something new. It isn't domination, it is manipulating through deception and taking advantage of lonely people who need an outlet.
You aren't goddesses, you are BOTTOM FEEDING TROLLS. |
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No offense meant to anyone here- I DONT KNOW, MAYBE I DO WISH TO OFFEND A FEW PEOPLE...
As I'm looking around today for the first time in ages of not being on this site, I am blown away by the amount of young women calling themselves 'fin doms'. I understand that there are few jobs with living wages, I understand that everyone needs to survive, though I've gotta say, I think the lot of you, and the men who enable these schemers are pretty low brow if not downright pathetic. As I read their profiles describing themselves as goddesses, queens, etc., I just have to be embarrassed FOR THEM Since they obviously cannot fathom how truly ridiculous they are.
Some will argue that it is an 'art' or a 'fetish' but I'm calling BULLSHIT. In some instances YES- but otherwise quite debatable!
if an activity is liberating and healthy for all concerned, awesome, but the only liberation many of these fin dims are interested in, is liberating the person from their money. The general platform is that since the money pigs are willing pay then it's all ok..
I am a HUGE advocate for sovereignty however I wish humans would expect more from themselves and each other. We always have a choice regarding what we are supporting and contributing to the world, and if we give a shit about quality of life we should take responsibility for how we impact the world. If you ever wonder why the world is screwed up- it's likely because too many people aren't owning their actions and don't care how they impact the world.
Of course I realize that it's not the latest fad for people to think and act in terms of what's best for everyone rather than only being concerned for oneself.
Fin dom is by and large a scam, a con job, it's taking advantage of people.
What's the big deal?
No big deal, but it's JUST GROSS.
You see these 19, 22, 24 year old women, taking a selfie with their phone in the bathroom, so guetto, posting here saying how you need to empty out your wallet and your bank account. Really? Is that ALL? Is that all you've got? You wanna call yourself a QUEEN?! Let alone a GODDESS? If you were such a goddess, why are you here BEGGING on the Internet? Oh boy....You really see yourselves as a credit to EMPOWERED WOMEN all over the globe?! An EXAMPLE, a ROLE MODEL! LOLOLOL.
This is just a HUSTLE. There's no artistry other than it's just a CON ART.
What utter bullshit. The guys who support it deserve to have their wallets emptied to be so stupid. Don't waste your money on an Internet scam. If you MUST be parted from your money, wouldn't you get more out of serving a dominatrix face to face? Ya know, a real EXCHANGE of energy? Human beings CONNECTING and interacting?
In the least pick a 'fin dom' who is INTERESTING and puts effort into what she's doing. I wish these GIRLS wouldn't be enabled, but FOOLS abound!!!! Fools enabling fools. Yeah I am being a bitch I guess. OH WELL!!! LOL |
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A comment I just made in a private message I wanted to share:
I am both a bdsm professional, and I live the lifestyle regardless of my vocation. I've been kinky all of my sexually developing life. I do not limit my interactions to sessions requiring payment. I host events at my studio, which is a SAFE ZONE free of social politics (bullshit that hurts the community) I detest gossipers. My environment is a safe zone where people are urged to explore themselves in a tolerant respectful environment. I host first Friday art walk events (canceled until October) where I open my studio to the public from 8-midnight you must be 18, it is FREE. you can meet other like minded people, view art, performances, and even participate if you want.
I am too busy to form D/s relationships sadly, and I won't tell people I can be their mistress unless I know I can invest the time and energy. In other words, I don't accept service from people just to have people in my orbit, taking advantage of them to get free labor (I see this happen a lot with other dommes). |
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Just a few afternoon thoughts:
I am not interested in a 24/7 slave.
I don't want to be anyone's 'owner' other than owning MYSELF and in case you didn't notice, we don't live in a culture/planet which acknowledges us as being the highest authority of our own bodies minds and lives! Therefore, it is important that we get off of our asses and do something to take back our authority (did we ever have possession of it?).
PLAY is fun and healthy for us, but there is practical application in terms of HEALTHY.
I do not prescribe to sexism and I do not see through a gender lens. I do not see any gender as being superior. Acting out scenarios which involve role playing is one thing- REALLY thinking that a specific group of humans is inferior based on gender, age, melatonin count, sexual orientation, etc., is entirely another. I think some people are lost in their fantasies. I hope they find themselves!
I believe humans are obligated by the natural laws to be aware of how they impact the people and environment around them. This requires humans to TAKE OWNERSHIP of themselves and their behaviors.
The planet is at critical mass (you'd know this if you are paying the slightest attention) what are YOU doing? What is your contribution to the stream of life and consciousness on this planet? |
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| Age: 28 |
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Ukraine |
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