I see a lot of men and women who are dominant talk about wanting to abuse they're slaves. I hate that term so much. It's not right to abuse a slave or submissive. It's never okay to harm them or cause them permanent physical or mental harm. Submissives and slaves who ARE into degradation and humiliation, good for them. Those who want to be pushed that much further good for them. But to intentionally HARM someone for your enjoyment is fucked up and to like it is fucked up. Learn the difference and get some help. To hurt someone and enjoy being hurt is perfectly sane. There's a fine line between the two. I take many submissives and slaves under my wing and constantly caution them about people who want to harm them. Some people use the community to excuse bad behavior and endangering slaves. It gives us a bad name as a community. This community is a safe place for people to grow and explore needs and desires that aren't normally fulfilled in vanilla relationships. It's not a place to be harmed and feel afraid because some asshole has some sick and twisted fantasies. So to all the slaves and subs out there, remember the fine line and try to stay safe, and to everyone who disagrees with this post go fuck yourself. I give zero fucks about what you think. 

Ten ways to make 90% of Doms on here hate you:

1. Don't throw yourself at them when they message you.

2. Refuse to call them Sir or Master after a few messages

3. Have a personality/opinions

4. See yourself as more than a doormat

5. Act like a human being

6. Don't give out personal information

7. Know the difference between hurt and harm

8. Have standards

9. Treat yourself with respect

10. Don't respond kindly to the use of the word slut in the first message, demands of submission and long "what I'm going to do to you" messages.