After a few years of working on defining my needs, I feel more confident in what I seek.? I desire an intelligent,?patient, loving, kind, creative?yet firm, experienced?Dom.? I know I require a little extra work; I'm strong willed, defiant (although I think that is because I haven't found the one I want to fully surrender to), and I'm a late bloomer into this experience.? I've had?a couple of on-line "Task Masters" which I enjoyed immensely; and two RT experiences.? I am currently playing with a Gentleman who makes great attempts to be what I need, however, his inexperience gives me entirely too much wiggle room.? Physically, he's a great Dominant, but I crave a stronger psychological journey, with the goal of easing into relinquishing more control.

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I'm open minded to new experiences but do not enjoy the extremes.? I'm seeking a man who is a bit older and of equal or greater stature than me.? I didn't think this would matter because I've always been attracted to the mind more than physical attributes, but after being with someone younger and someone shorter than me, I find that mentally I have a hard time letting go and feeling comfortable.

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Thank you for reading my profile, I look forward to expanding my network of "alternative" friends.