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Respect is not earned,
it is lost.
I have been called an instigator, a brat, and a smart ass. All are very true. While I am a smart ass on the best of days, I try my best to not offend someone. If I can make you laugh...all the better. One of my favorite quotes Just because I found the loophole in your command, doesnt mean I should be punished -P
Im not a smartass because I want to get you mad. Im not a brat because I want you to punish me. Love or hate a brat, there is no question that Im creative and challenging...traits that I value. A brat is often misunderstood and frequently misrepresented but, I have the intelligence, creativity and tenacity to persevere. I am playful, mischievous, witty, funny. I will look for loopholes and exploit them. However, I do have limits. I would never dream of embarrassing my Dom in public, and I only act the way I do to make you smile, laugh and shake your head. I will keep keep you on your toes...owning a brat is not easy, I am not a doormat. But all it takes to bring me back into a line is a raised eyebrow, or a girl.......
Ive done the vanilla route, did it for years and it wasnt satisfying, and probably never will be again. On the surface, you wouldnt know what I do for fun on the weekends, its no ones business other than those I chose to share it with. I will respect your right to keep this part of your life hidden, as long as you respect my right to deal with it however I want to in mine.
I deliberately took out most of the sexual loves, likes and hate because I was getting email more focused on that than the rest of the profile. So, for the record I have a fondness for rope, bondage, flogging and whips, not into humiliationdegradation.
I am not particularly interested role play I want to get to know the person, not some facade. (stolen with permission, slightly edited)
If a relationship has to be kept secret, you shouldnt be in it.
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Call me a cynic, but if you're going to demand absolute and instant obedience before I've even met you, chances are I won't suit you. If you tell me my hard limits don't matter and I should bow down to your every whim, I will probably get a good giggle out of it and not respond. If all you're looking for is to get laid, lay it out at the onset, then you won't waste anyone's time.
I am not collared, owned, or under anyone's consideration. I've been told with my questioning attitude that I probably won't ever be. That may be the price I pay for being who I am. |
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~As we walk down the depths of our own insanity we look back to see the path we tread, not knowing the walls we leaned on, or the sticks we broke, but we look back and see how far we've gotten, the strides we took, the risks we made, the blood on our snow, the times we fell, but we know its been one hell of a ride and no one can take that away from us.~ |
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1. SMARTASS: Someone who is sarcastic, in a cutting yet witty manner. A person capable of making a remark that could be interpreted as a insult or a joke depending on the sensitivity of the listener and the specific situation. A smart ass is not necessarily a bad person just usually perceptive.
2. SMARTASS: A person who just has to make everything make sense. Speaking of which, smartass is a oxymoron because an ass is a stupid person so smartass means "smart stupid person". (Not exactly the opposite of dumbass because a dumbass really is an idiot but a smartass isnt necessarily a genius)
(These are NOT my definitions...I had to look it up...really, I didn't know what it meant!)
I am a smart ass. Unashamed, unrepentant, unabashed, and all sorts of other un words that I haven't looked up in the dictionary. I've been this way most of my life. It's how I am in my vanilla life, and how I am in the kinky world. I even know a number of people who have me listed as SMARTASS in their phone contacts. If you look up "smartass" in the dictionary (see above), my picture is probably somewhere near by. I do believe there's a reward for anyone who finds me and gives me the spanking I doubt I deserve.
Timing is everything. I sometimes can't resist making a snarky comment just because the opportunity has presented itself. I don't mean to throw you under the bus. It just happens...often, so I'm told. I don't get offended if you toss my words back at me, I even enjoy the battle of wits. Although, I guess you could say sometimes it's a battle of half wits depending on what the conversation is all about and how awake I am at the time.
I know I drive some people nuts. I'm sure you all think that I'll change if I ever get that beating I so richly don't deserve. If everyone who knew me had a book of my beatings owed, there wouldn't be enough room in the Library of Congress to hold them all. Fortunately, most of you forget that you ever had a book in the first place, so I'm fairly safe. |
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Spell-check is your friend...autocorrect is not! |
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Someone who's opinion I value made me rethink my "Married Persons" comment.
There are those that are married and their spouses actually approve of them going outside the relationship to fulfill their "kinky" needs. I have no issue with someone who has gone the one step beyond to make sure that everyone in the relationship is aware.
So, if you are married or are in a relationship, and your significant other is fully aware and willing to meet so everyone is aware of who is who...the preceding comment is not for you. |
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Borrowed with permission, precise and straight to the point:
MARRIED DOM'S STAY AWAY...PLEASE!!! If You are married and are looking for someone discreet and "on the side" without Your wife's knowledge I will not participate in the dishonoring of Your vows of marriage. I believe a Dominant's honor should fill His entire life. If You cannot Honor Your marriage You cannot honor and respect Your submissive. I believe the degree of Trust, Honor and Respect we in the lifestyle "profess" to have should be applied to every faction of one's life regardless of what lifestyle we have chosen. |
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Dearest Sirs..... I appreciate getting email, and for the most part I try to respond to them all. However, when I come across an email that just says "Hi" and there's a blank profile, I don't have a lot to go on with a response. If you have any suggestions, I would love to hear from a Dom perspective why those should be answered. |
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For fun, when I'm just looking to relax, I take some time and browse the photos here. Some I just scan over, if something strikes me, I go in and read the profile. Frustrating to see a great pic, and go in to find there isn't anything else. It's like getting a book with some chapters torn out.
There are those rare jewels that take the time to write a great profile that shows they are a genuine person, not just some kid out to get laid with rope in hand. When I read a great profile and journal, usually it's to the end, and I'll write saying I enjoyed the read. My thanks to those who take the time to share a bit of themselves.
May we all find what we're searching for. |
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