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Updated October 3rd, 2022

If your profile is NOT filled out in full with at least 1 CLEAR FACE picture and 1 CLEAR BODY picture, it will be ignored.

This is only fair because I hour work in mines me it shows how serious and honest I am and I want the same in a potential (insure title hereManwifwife)

Let's be ADULTS!!! with as little drama and confusion as possible, thanks.

(I joined this site in Sept. of 08' and I feel like I am very direct, caring, dominant, and husband material) for reasons I have yet to understand, unfortunately, I am still searching and single.

What I seek is a partner a Man-wife. NOTE: I am not seeking anyone feminine in nature, I seek a masculine male who loves being a man but plays the role of beta to my Alpha

Hello to all who read this. My name is Roc My stats are as follows
African American
Six-Six in height and weigh about 180 to 190 pounds.
I wear glasses.
I have a mustache and goatee. (trying to keep a bald head for a while)
I have a slim but muscular build and looking to become more muscular into a full bodybuilding beast as time goes on.
I wear a size 13 to 14 shoe (think what you will about other size things, LMAO)


As far as what I seek is a partner is as follows:

I prefer my age or older a least 30 and over is ideal but not set in stone, But I desire an older male, The older the better but please have the maturity with it and low drama.

I want a man that is one-hundred percent male at all times and can understand how to play the wife or submissive role of a relationship.
We all have preferences and I can respect who and what a person is as a friend but as far as a lover or more I am just being honest in my desire and not meant to be rude.

I need someone creative and intelligent that can stimulate me in and out of the bedroom. This should be a given since I am NOT just looking for sex but something stable and long-term.

I am not picky when it comes to my sub-beta PARTNER, as long as you are REAL with yourself you can be real with me. Last but not least please have some domestic ways I.E. cooking, cleaning, knowing how to take care of a Dominate man, and or understanding etiquette on how to keep one.
Please be somewhat in shape and be willing to work out and want to live a healthy diet,
Thank you for reading

PS I am NOT straight-acting or appearing. I do not like this concept at all, you are who you are and should not hide behind a mask or lie to find or seek what you desire. (Saying all of this, I am one-hundred percent a masculine man and desire and require the same no matter what label you describe, identify, or accustom to.

I must add my profile is filled out in full detail and hopefully, yours is too
Drama is from not being HONEST in what you say and or do in (YOUR) life so Dont blame others for what you let happen. I have had the pleasure and opportunity to befriend and interact with like-minded individuals but none of them thus far have been serious enough to want to pursue anything offline. I am hoping to go slow possibly date in real-time and move on from there. I implore you to those that read this, I am only seeking long-term relationships either just solely friendship or an ae-on-one monogamous relationship. Not sure why it's so hard to date nowadays, sigh, and I mean date without sex first, get to know a guy find a common interest, and go from there. The sexual and S & M may or may not always be there and you need more to fall back on just in case. PPS: I am a DaddyDom, not a Sir, Master, or any other handle. Dad, Roc

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1/26/2022 9:33:09 PM

It’s no surprise that I have been on this site Collarme now called CollarSpace a long time since Two thousand and eight and I am becoming impatient.

I try to be as transparent as possible whenever the time arises.

I have been lied to way too much to do anything less than be honest and hopefully get the respect of honestly back.

I have been lied to most of my life about big and small things
As my birth mom would say I HATE LIES especially volunteer lies I felt that in my soul when she said that.

Willingness to communicate clearly is easier said than done

I have to say I put my all in everything I do and say and for many of these sites that I am on I feel like guys only see or want what they see or want and dont actually want the real deal just the fantasy of it all.

I would love to find a balance between the vanilla and the S/M world.

I feel like I am a very direct and transparent person but maybe I am not?

I am very tired of expending resources, time, and energy on frivolous endeavors. SIGH!!!


1/5/2022 10:49:37 PM

We are now in the land of 2022

 And even now after all of these years, at least on Collarme, whoops I meant to write Collarspace the thing that pisses people off the most is not what one would expect. 

I think we all had our share of quote, unquote BOT PROFILES or that one LMAO several fake Doms, Dommes, or anyone for that matter

The punctuation and grammar grid is irritating as hell at times. 

But of all of these and some, I have not pointed out. 

 The biggest ASSHAT of them all is trying to keep your profile CURRENT with new information, likes or dislikes, and even updated photos. 

 I dare any to disagree with me, especially reading some profiles lately how some have been locked out of their accounts still PENDING approval, LIKE WTF is really going on???

One of the main reasons even as a DaddyDom I am afraid to update my account, this is supposed to be a joke but I am serious as an old man busting a nut, a heart attack!!!

But I digress...


2/11/2018 1:43:17 PM
Will be updating my profile to what I seek currently and a lot has changed since my last update...

Stay tuned...

4/13/2013 7:15:06 AM

I know most Doms/Dommes don’t talk about there feeling much and it's ok…. But we all have them

 

Many don’t know how hard it is to be a Dom or Master; it's just as hard for us to find that right 'sub, pup/kitten, slave etc' as it is for a sub to find their Master

I am still looking…


Might make me sound weak, but I am lonely, its been about 3 years now since I've lost my last 'pup' and lost my real dog (Shakie-Marie - Belgian Malinois) last year September 11,2012 of all days…


Even though I am a Master/Handler, I have much love to give…


3/22/2013 1:57:53 PM

A REALITY CHECK

 

Is it that bad if the Dom/Domme says NO?

For most Dom or sub it’s a worse insult if the other party just completely ignores you better yet the biggest slap in the world today is (friend-ing you and without knowledge un-friends you)

 

Of course it's not the end of the world but seems like theirs no one genuine or they pretend to be something their not

So much bait to be hooked on, but double the heartbreak if pulled in by the wrong fisher-man/woman

 

It's important not to get attached too fast or too early in the reeling in of one catch;

This should be understood by the hunter and his/her prey.

 

Both parties should not over-dramatize the situation, because investing so much emotion drains and paralyzes your ability to deifier rational thinking.

In many cases the person sees danger and inadvertently falls victim anyway

Always remember that whether a man accepts or rejects you, it is (usually the first contact or image) in their head that they are responding to;

Since they can't possibly know who you are in REAL-TIME or any great measure until that time comes.

WE (fill in the blank) need to develop the confidence that comes by experiencing both rejection and acceptance.

 

It is important for you to acknowledge your self-worth as a human being, and not treat yourself as you are worthless (even if you play this part, in the beginning you need to establish you are worth the humiliation, by a Dom/Domme.)

 

Most Doms/Dommes will say that this is an enormous turn-off in any case (behind closed doors)

 

Why???

 

Because many Doms/Dommes like and want CONTROL;

Or a least feel they are in control, if you have or look like you can do for yourself that too for most Doms/Dommes is a turnoff (part of the Dom's/Domme's mating dance…)

 

To invest in time and effort is to find balance in self first than find a normal road to walk,

Then fine someone who values themselves in a way you can emulate but not idolize…

Beside the LOVE, UNDERSTANDING, DISCIPLINE AND knowing they wont LEAVE WHEN THINGS GET TOUGH

 

Don't be surprised if the (other party chooses another)

As long as you put your best effort in it, at the least you have gotten away with increased experience in understand and more comprehension.

 

Just so focus on others who may desire you.

 

Use what you can and leave the rest behind...


3/16/2013 7:10:23 PM

I AM NOW OPENING MY SEARCH WIDER BUT ONLY LOOKING FOR A SUB OR SLAVE WHO UNDERSTANDS IN THE BEGINNING WE HAVE TO UNDERSTAND EACH OTHER IN NORMAL WAYS BEFORE VENTURING FURTHER IN B.D.S.M.

NEWBIE'S

NOVICE

OR

EXPERTS ALL WELCOME…

PLEASE BE 100% MALE OUTSIDE AND FEMALE INSTINCTS

PLEASE UNDERSTAND NOT LOOKING FOR TRANSSEXUAL'S OR PEOPLE CONFUSED ON GENDER…

I GET THIS A LOT…


1/29/2013 7:22:30 PM

I don’t know if I can explain what I want any simpler

 

Listen to the song "I don’t want a PARTNER, I want a WIFE"


From


American Dad! Season 1 Episode 12: Stan of Arabia - Part One

 

Please understand I want a

 

100% male (Non-Feminine, 100% MAN) but knows I am "THE" MAN, TOP, DOM and the LAST WORD (period)


1/10/2013 7:30:46 PM

Financial Domination

 

So what is FINANCIAL DOMINATION????

 

So Many questions come up in this type of dominating scenario.

Basically it’s a way of DOMINATING A PARTNER THOUGH MONEY.

Most times It involves a sub fetish (most popular being feet, hypnosis, sissification, blackmail etc, etc, etc.)

 

THROUGH WHICH THE MASTER OR MISTRESS GAINS MORE CONTROL OVER THE LIFE AND ACTIVITY OF EACH SUB OR SLAVE.

 

These dominating parties are always called (GODS or GODDESSES)


There are many young boys and girls out there who hear of this and believe that all they must do is tag "MASTER, SIR, MISTRESS or MADAM, etc, etc, etc" to the front of their name and start demanding cash.
Because of this, many in the BDSM community view financial domination as ‘not real’ and those who practice it no better then common scam artists.


But I view it differently.

 

In ancient times, men went without; monks toiled in poverty and abject misery in the service of a higher being….. Be it Shiva, Isis, Kali… Or even the Virgin Mary, basically (All women.)

 

In other societies men paid their temple tithes and watched the temple dancers swirl in the haze of incense, or peak at the unspoiled beauty of Vestal-Virgins.

 

Men have used their money, possessions, and work to get closer to what they see as their Higher Being, something that proves, beyond a shadow of a doubt God’s existence: feminine beauty.


As you read this, you will see it was ORIGINALLY a FEMALE DOMINATING sport.

Now that we have progressed with time it's really not that different from yesterday, just some rules have changed…

 

Men who nowadays use this same fashion but call it TRIBUTE, honestly there’s a different side to this all together.

 

As the old saying goes

“You will work harder than ever, live on as little as you can, and give all to me.

You will be my acolyte, my servant, my disciple.

You will spread the word of joy and ecstasy you have laying your worldly possessions at my feet.

You will be the light that leads to world to living happily in my service.

Every action will reflect upon me, so you must always have this prayer on your lips:

 

'May I be used?'"


4/21/2010 7:59:12 AM

I think it’s very much disruptive to say what you (want/desire) something if you are not inform or understand fully what you are getting yourself into

In my eyes, (well on this site anyway) most want to relieve the pressure of responsibility on the Master or Dominate party…and in a sense this is the essence of S/M but its not a way to be lazy in life or make it an easy way out of a hard situation.

I am not looking for someone who thinks its (cool, looking for fun/role-play) but know this is and will be a serious lifestyle change and is fully aware of his surrounds and understand that I want a life-partner under the S/M umbrella

Master Hard Roc


12/22/2009 8:47:26 PM

I was ordained over 8 years ago and its funny how it seems that the male submissive/slave is now able to dictate what the want in a MASTER…

A REAL MASTER will not stand for this insubordinate behavior in a potential or active sub or slave…

A real sub or slave know his boundaries ands would never disrespect the MASTER in front of him…

This will be result in punishment and or humiliation to the fullest extent.

YOU WILL HAVE RESPECT FOR ME AT ALL TIMES

Over
the years MASTER have gone soft somewhere…almost like the women’s movement

I am an old soul contrary to my age, the women should stay in her place at the foot of her man as the slave or sub should be as well…

It is funny I have to write this and re-reading it just seems stupid and like none has common sense

I guess not with all the (SELF-PROCLAIMED MASTERS out there…all they do is perpetrate a fraud) and make us REAL MASTERS LOOK WEAK…

IF ANY SLAVE OR SUB ISA READING THIS…I DARE YOU TO TRY ME…

MHR/Master Hard Roc


12/10/2009 7:46:22 AM

As of December 5, 2009 I have added another (boy) to my template of consideration

He is (FRESH and GREEN to the SCENE) would be fun to mold him from the clay he is into the perfect boy

I have only had (one boy) before and he lasted longer than any of my slaves…

It’s funny though when I got ordained as a MASTER, my MASTER gave him to me as a gift of achievement

It was not a match from the beginning and it tested my real skills as a MASTER but now even though I let him go some years ago he still comes around and when he does I know all I need to do is (give him a look, a nod or just get a hard on and he just knows my signals, wither if its for domestic house-cleaning, cooking, full toilet-service, sex or more…) I trained him well

He was black

This new boy is white

(I now have one slave and one boy in training)

MHR/ Master Hard Roc


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 Age: 27
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