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IvoryMistress
Female Dominant, 39,  DC, Washington D.C. US

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 IvoryMistress

 Dominant Female

 DC 

 Washington D.C.

 5' 8"

 39

 Caucasian

 02/01/15

 09/26/17

Actively Seeking:

Submissive Male

Switch Men

For those who wondered, I used to be on back when it was CM. I just rejoined on 2/01/15.


I am starting to look for a long term, romantic relationship again. Here are some of the qualities that I generally find to be most appealing:


I generally prefer white guys, college educated, good manners, professionally motivated yet still know how to have fun, socially liberal, and with a naughty sense of humor.


--male (bc I like a flesh & blood cock)


--straight is great,  but flexible on getting together with another guy (especially for a mfm 3-some) is also fine in case you wondered!


--someone who is interested in having a family. I'm in my late 30s and am looking to settle down and start a family with the right kinky man. (--want to spend time getting to know each other 1st!) I'm open to dating someone who already has children, but ideally I would like to have 1 or 2 of my own. Am also open to adoption or being a foster parent.


--muscular (some padding is ok, but I love a firm body)


--masculine (not interested in cross dressers or sissies)


--switch or a submissive who can take some intense sensations. (I think the term "pain" gets thrown around a lot but it doesn't really describe what I like to inflict on my partner. I much prefer to push with intensity that only sometimes crosses into actual pain.) I am not interested in switching, but I have done co-topping with other partners who were switches.


--sensualist with a high sex drive


--Not to be too blunt but I am a bit of a size queen: at least 7" long cock that is also somewhat thick


--age range of 30 - 47


--upbeat personality


--SINGLE, not in an open relationship. While I am open to having a relationship with some flexibility in playing with/fucking other people, I am not interested in poly or being someone's "extra" partner.


--at least somewhat experienced with BDSM and comfortable attending BDSM/kinky events. I've been active in the scene since 2000 and enjoy attending events once in a while.


--prefer at least 5'8 (I'm just over that)


--is available to actually get together at least few times a month. This also means you need to be relatively local. I've done a couple of long distance relationships and am very tired of never seeing my partner. I am not interested in moving, unless it is somewhere in the MD/DC/VA area.


--romantic


--enjoys travel. I've been to around 40 states and almost a dozen countries.


--non-smoker, D&D free (as am I)


--prefer a clean-cut look but a few tats or piercings are ok...


--I am highly allergic to cats and fairly allergic to most dogs, so while I think they are cute and I like them there is no way I can live with them --I can live with some dogs, depending on the allergic response. (I do have a small parrot and will not get rid of him.)


FYI, do not wear skinny jeans, especially ones that sag in the crotch as that is a complete turn-off for me! "Safeword" on men in skinny jeans!!! lol Fitted slacks that cup the package are fine but not little bitch jeans ;-)


 


If you are a conservative Republican (Tea Party style, not a moderate), anti-choice, anti-gay, not environmentally concerned, and probably a few other things I will have to add later, then we are definitely *not* a good match.


 


The list goes on but this gives a starting point.



As for some of my qualities:


I am an experienced Dominant. I've been in the scene for about 16 years. My personality is fairly outgoing and usually laid back --except when I have you tied up and at my mercy, of course. I am artistic and creative, both in regular life and the bedroom/dungeon.



Variety is my main kink. I get bored doing the same things over & over.... but in general I tend to enjoy cbt, spanking, strap-on, foot/body worship --in no particular order. The best thing for me is the connection that I share with my partner, seeing them respond to what I'm doing, and building on our dynamic as we explore different activities. There are a ton of other things that I enjoy but I don't fee like listing them all. My hard limits are: scat, animals, minors, most blood play/needles/cutting, drugs.

Journal Entries:
8/19/2017 12:14:05 PM
In Feb 2018 I am traveling to Italy!!! I'll be attending a BDSM conference over there. Please help support my "International FemDom Diplomatic Mission" by contributing to my travel fund ;-) At least 3 other Mistresses are making the trip with me! We're hosting a couple of fundraising events over the coming months. Contact me to find out more or to offer a donation. Thanks for helping spread FemDom energy across the Atlantic! 

7/12/2017 6:20:07 AM

Sandal season just calls for a foot party, so we are bringing out the gorgeous feet of Maryland again! We are having another fantastic Frederick Foot Fetish Party in Frederick, MD on August 12, 2017.


We're bringing some of the sexiest foot models in the MD/DC/VA scene together so all you guys in DC, MD, VA and WV and PA can indulge in a toe-tally awesome time! (We've even had guys come all the way from Philly & Delaware to spend time with our experienced models!!!)

 

The party website is DCFootModels.com -- models will be added soon.


5/25/2017 8:13:56 PM
To the guy who just blocked me after whining time after time about being my slave... And to several of the random writers of the one-line notes that I receive regularly: My profile specifically says I am looking for someone local, which you are not. You are also older than the preferred age range. You never bothered to confirm that you fit anything other than being open to kids. I prefer someone who will actually respond to what I'm asking rather than going on about how real they are... I'm quite real and active in the BDSM community. I have no problem finding real subs. Just looking for the right one.

4/22/2017 8:10:19 PM
Spanking 101 class by Ivory Mistress
Sunday, April 30 -- 2pm - 4pm
Frederick, MD -- private location
$20/person

Spanking is a very popular activity, from couples dabbling with something naughty all the way to heavy players. It may have even been your introduction to the world beyond vanilla sex. In this class, Ivory Mistress Jae introduces you to spanking basics as well as advanced techniques. She’ll discuss the psychological aspects in spanking scenes, motivations for seeking corporal play, as well as basic safety. Then it’s on to meatier matters, like utilizing different implements and varying your approach to create specific scenes.

You’ll learn how to identify if you and your partners are more interested in domestic discipline spanko scenes, a punishment session, or perhaps a wild endorphin ride, etc. Understanding these critical differences will foster better communication between you and your partners, creating a rich environment for amazing ass beating sessions!

Ivory Mistress Jae has been involved in the BDSM scene for 17 years. She is an international leather titleholder and presents across the United States. Spanking is such a favorite activity of hers that every year on her birthday she turns 100 so there will be lots of spankings to give out! (And in the Dominant’s birthday tradition, she finds helpful people to receive all of those spankings!!!)

After the presentation, there will be plenty of time for questions and light refreshments! The class takes place at a private fetish photography studio, making it very discreet and comfortable.

Since this event is being held in a private location, Ivory Mistress Jae will be doing a brief interview with all attendees before sharing the address. Thank you for understanding.

2/20/2017 3:07:48 PM

It's been a while since our last foot party, so we are ready to bring out the gorgeous feet of Maryland again! We are having another fantastic Frederick Foot Fetish Party in Frederick, MD on March 4, 2017.


We're bringing some of the sexiest foot models in the MD/DC/VA scene together so all you guys in DC, MD, VA and WV and PA can indulge in a toe-tally awesome time! (We've even had guys come all the way from Philly & Delaware to spend time with our experienced models!!!)

 

The party website is DCFootModels.com -- models will be added soon.



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