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For those who wondered, I used to be on back when it was CM. I just rejoined on 2/01/15. I am
Female Dominant, 39,  DC, Washington D.C. US

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 Washington D.C.

 5' 8"





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Submissive Male

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For those who wondered, I used to be on back when it was CM. I just rejoined on 2/01/15.

I am starting to look for a long term, romantic relationship again. Here are some of the qualities that I generally find to be most appealing:

I generally prefer white guys, college educated, good manners, professionally motivated yet still know how to have fun, socially liberal, and with a naughty sense of humor.

--male (bc I like a flesh & blood cock)

--straight is great,  but flexible on getting together with another guy (especially for a mfm 3-some) is also fine in case you wondered!

--someone who is interested in having a family. I'm in my late 30s and am looking to settle down and start a family with the right kinky man. (--want to spend time getting to know each other 1st!) I'm open to dating someone who already has children, but ideally I would like to have 1 or 2 of my own. Am also open to adoption or being a foster parent.

--muscular (some padding is ok, but I love a firm body)

--masculine (not interested in cross dressers or sissies)

--switch or a submissive who can take some intense sensations. (I think the term "pain" gets thrown around a lot but it doesn't really describe what I like to inflict on my partner. I much prefer to push with intensity that only sometimes crosses into actual pain.) I am not interested in switching, but I have done co-topping with other partners who were switches.

--sensualist with a high sex drive

--Not to be too blunt but I am a bit of a size queen: at least 7" long cock that is also somewhat thick

--age range of 30 - 47

--upbeat personality

--SINGLE, not in an open relationship. While I am open to having a relationship with some flexibility in playing with/fucking other people, I am not interested in poly or being someone's "extra" partner.

--at least somewhat experienced with BDSM and comfortable attending BDSM/kinky events. I've been active in the scene since 2000 and enjoy attending events once in a while.

--prefer at least 5'8 (I'm just over that)

--is available to actually get together at least few times a month. This also means you need to be relatively local. I've done a couple of long distance relationships and am very tired of never seeing my partner. I am not interested in moving, unless it is somewhere in the MD/DC/VA area.


--enjoys travel. I've been to around 40 states and almost a dozen countries.

--non-smoker, D&D free (as am I)

--prefer a clean-cut look but a few tats or piercings are ok...

--I am highly allergic to cats and fairly allergic to most dogs, so while I think they are cute and I like them there is no way I can live with them --I can live with some dogs, depending on the allergic response. (I do have a small parrot and will not get rid of him.)

FYI, do not wear skinny jeans, especially ones that sag in the crotch as that is a complete turn-off for me! "Safeword" on men in skinny jeans!!! lol Fitted slacks that cup the package are fine but not little bitch jeans ;-)


If you are a conservative Republican (Tea Party style, not a moderate), anti-choice, anti-gay, not environmentally concerned, and probably a few other things I will have to add later, then we are definitely *not* a good match.


The list goes on but this gives a starting point.

As for some of my qualities:

I am an experienced Dominant. I've been in the scene for about 16 years. My personality is fairly outgoing and usually laid back --except when I have you tied up and at my mercy, of course. I am artistic and creative, both in regular life and the bedroom/dungeon.

Variety is my main kink. I get bored doing the same things over & over.... but in general I tend to enjoy cbt, spanking, strap-on, foot/body worship --in no particular order. The best thing for me is the connection that I share with my partner, seeing them respond to what I'm doing, and building on our dynamic as we explore different activities. There are a ton of other things that I enjoy but I don't fee like listing them all. My hard limits are: scat, animals, minors, most blood play/needles/cutting, drugs.

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10/28/2017 7:56:34 PM
Date & Time:  Sunday, November 19, 2017 · 1:00 PM – 5:00 PM  
Baltimore Playhouse
3010 Washington Blvd, Baltimore,MD 21230   @ map
Cost: $25 at the door. Tickets for stations & games are extra. ($5/ticket) --You Must Be On The Guest List To Attend!!!!
Dress code: Be street legal until you are past the black curtain. Then it's whatever you want!

Join us for fun, games, tastes of torture & torment, and a movie on the big screen during this Carnival of decadent delights!!

At a regular carnival, you play games and go on rides like roller coasters and carousels... At our Kinky Carnival there will be stations where you can experience various teases, pleases, and torments, such as: the violet wand, fire, corporal punishment, needle play, liquid nitrogen, trampling, bondage, a latex vac-bed etc!!!

The stations will be run by amazing Dominant women and we are adding a few terrific male Doms! Here is a current list of the station Tops: Mistress Lynn, Ms Seven, Tiny_butFierce, Kyria, DCEdninja, Scarlett Lush, Mountain King, and the ladies of the Chocolate Factory which includes Goddess Freeya, Goddess Lolaa, and Goddess Chocolate. More Tops are being added so be sure to check back. Ivory Mistress Jae will be your ringleader.

The tasting stations are a great opportunity for subs to try a little sample of different types of play without committing to a full scene. Dominant folks can also try it to see how something feels, or you can ask the station Top to help you try it on your sub.

(Please keep in mind that our Tops all have the right to decline playing with anyone. This is a "fun"draiser & everyone's limits are respected.)

You can try to win sexy prizes at games like Ring Toss Dildo, Ball Buster, Cum Shot, etc. Prizes include nipple clamps, butt plugs & more!!!

To enjoy a tasting station or game, purchase tickets for $5/ticket and each ticket entitles you to a few minutes of activity. You are welcome to use multiple tickets per station but please don't hog the Tops as other people may want an opportunity to experience their skills. Tickets are also good for playing the games.

The stations will run for 1 & 1/2 hours. After that, it's time to unwind with a movie and free popcorn. The movie is called "Preaching to the Perverted." It's a wonderful BDSM movie about a Dominatrix visiting London -- a comedy & a love story that manages to incorporate hot scenes, beautiful outfits, BDSM, & also talks about consent!

We are having this fundraiser to help some women in the local community as they travel across the globe to attend a BDSM conference in Rome Italy in Feb. 2018!

If you would like to volunteer to run a tasting station, please contact us asap. Donations are also heartily welcomed!

Feel free to reach out directly to me with any questions or comments. We hope you are able to attend the party, as this one is not to be missed! Please note that stations, games, & performers are subject to change.

10/27/2017 4:20:45 PM
Available for phone sessions this evening.

Sat, Nov 4th is my next foot fetish party. It's happening in Frederick, MD. Contact me for more information. The parties are always so much fun!

8/19/2017 12:14:05 PM
In Feb 2018 I am traveling to Italy!!! I'll be attending a BDSM conference over there. Please help support my "International FemDom Diplomatic Mission" by contributing to my travel fund ;-) At least 3 other Mistresses are making the trip with me! We're hosting a couple of fundraising events over the coming months. Contact me to find out more or to offer a donation. Thanks for helping spread FemDom energy across the Atlantic! 

7/12/2017 6:20:07 AM

Sandal season just calls for a foot party, so we are bringing out the gorgeous feet of Maryland again! We are having another fantastic Frederick Foot Fetish Party in Frederick, MD on August 12, 2017.

We're bringing some of the sexiest foot models in the MD/DC/VA scene together so all you guys in DC, MD, VA and WV and PA can indulge in a toe-tally awesome time! (We've even had guys come all the way from Philly & Delaware to spend time with our experienced models!!!)


The party website is -- models will be added soon.

5/25/2017 8:13:56 PM
To the guy who just blocked me after whining time after time about being my slave... And to several of the random writers of the one-line notes that I receive regularly: My profile specifically says I am looking for someone local, which you are not. You are also older than the preferred age range. You never bothered to confirm that you fit anything other than being open to kids. I prefer someone who will actually respond to what I'm asking rather than going on about how real they are... I'm quite real and active in the BDSM community. I have no problem finding real subs. Just looking for the right one.

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