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WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR IS IN MY FIRST JOURNAL ENTRY
* BBW - I am not thin. I will never be thin. I have no interest in dieting or attempting to become thin by any means. If this is not okay with you, just dont contact me. Harassing me or leaving shitty comments on my pictures will result in you being reported and blocked.
* Lifetime Wyoming resident - I have no plans to move. I own my home, have family and commitments here, and am generally not interested in relocating at this time. Im happy to talk to you if you are not local, but if things become serious you will be the one expected to relocate.
* Lover of animals - I love pretty much all animals, even some reptiles, but have a special place in my heart for dogs and guinea pigs.
* Lover of geeky fantasy stuff - Harry Potter, Lord of the Rings, Mandalorian, World of Warcraft, comic book heroes, etc.
* Spiritual but not religious - I have a soft spot in my heart for Wiccans, pagans, and energy healers.
* Into the Ds lifestyle for pretty much my entire life - I have lived it off and on in real life since 2005.
* Demisexual - I am ONLY attracted to people I have ed a close emotional connection with first. This means that I must be VERY good friends with you before I am able to become attracted to you. This may take MONTHS or longer. If you are only interested in hooking up, I am NOT the girl for you.
* Sapiosexual - I am attracted to and turned on by witty, intelligent people who can hold a conversation of more than one or two words at a time. This does not equate to college degrees or SAT scores. Some of my closest friends barely scraped their way through high school. Others have learning disabilities or were in Special Ed. I recognize that there are many types of intelligence, and not all of them are connected to traditional academics.
* Chaotic Goblin Brain - I recently learned that I have ADHD and sufffer associated symptoms such as disorganization, lack of time awareness, periods of hyperfocus and periods of ADHD paralysis, disorganization, etc. If you would like more resources, I would be happy to provide them.
* Disabled - Following a major medical event in 2020 (not COVID) and due to other medial conditions, I suffer from chronic pain and other symptoms that make maintaining a "regular job" very difficult. I have several "side hustle" type jobs, but if you're looking for a Sugar Mama, I'm not your girl.
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What I am looking for:
I would love to find an amazing submissive partner. This person should want to put in the time and effort it takes to become actual friends and form a real emotional bond. As in any solid relationship, this is not something that will happen overnight. If you lack patience or just want a quick hookup, I am not the One for you.
The person in question should be local to me or able to visit on a very regular basis.
What is most important to me is shared chemistry and emotional connection. I am not looking to rush into anything. Expect the process of getting to know each other and the vetting process to take TIME. Interested parties should be willing and able to communicate extensively through online methods. I prefer typed text to voice communication, but can verify that I am who I say I am if necessary. If you are someone who does not like to write words or who thinks saying 'hi' or telling me how attractive you think I am is a conversation, you won't stand a chance.
My partner preference currently tends to swing towards cis women, trans women, and trans men, but I am pan and could be attracted to anyone if the right connection is there.
Preferred Age Range - 30 to 50
Turn Ons & Main Interests:
These are my "must have" vanilla and kink interests. While the exact dynamic of each relationship is unique to those involved in it, if any of this is a hard limit for you, we will likely not be a match.
* Tease & denial
* Orgasm control / orgasm denial
* Massage (getting)
* Cuddling & Physical Displays of Affection
* Oral service
* Laughter
* Intelligence
* Shared vanilla interests
I've physically and mentally been through Hell over the past 5 or so years and need a partner who is truly service oriented, who will enjoy helping and caring for their Domme. I am completely willing to discuss this in detail with the right person.
If you have fully read and understood my profile and journal, you may send me a polite message detailing why you are interested in serving me, how your vanilla and kink interests line up with my own, and a bit about yourself. Please also include the phrase "You remind me of the babe" so I know you actually read my complete profile. Bonus points if you know where the quote comes from. |
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Since probably 95% of the people who write me say they just don't know how to stand out from the overwhelming crowd of potential submissive partners, I offer this advice:
Honestly, the best way to make yourself stand out from every other random cut and paste till something sticks dude on here is to fully read profiles and respond to what's actually written there. Seriously, just open a document or even grab a paper notepad and the nearest pen and make notes as you read. Then you can make it into a coherent email and add a bit about yourself at the end. That way it is crystal clear that you really DID read the full profile of the woman you're writing and that you understand what's there. By not doing this and only talking about yourself, you come across as yet another dime-a-dozen do me sub who is looking for anyone with a vagina who will put up with him.
Other steps in the right direction include NOT going on about how a woman looks since most ladies will assume you found her attractive when you wrote and would much rather you expressed a genuine interest in WHO SHE IS.
Also avoid bringing up specific kinks that are not listed on the woman's profile, specifics of your sexual history, how horny you are, or anything about your dick.
Follow these three guidelines and you will go a long way towards NOT cock blocking yourself right out of the gate. |
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Really tired of the drive by "hello" messages. Either have something to talk about or don't bother. Just saying "hi" every few weeks isn't going to get you anywhere. |
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Pro Tip: People tend to get a lot farther with me when they 1) actually read my profile and 2) start a conversation based on what is written there that is NOT about kink. |
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Yes, I CAN be into chastity while NOT being into cuckolding. I tried it and found it wasn't really my thing. If you need your partner to fuck other people to make you happy, I'm not the girl for you. |
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Is somewhat dumbfounded by the number of people (mostly male people) who claim to be seeking a "real" relationship with a "real" person, but who seem to be totally unwilling to communicate in more than four or five words at a time.
Here is a hint: If you want a relationship with another human being, and you are seeking that relationship online, you will NEED to learn to hold an actual conversation. You will NEED to learn to share who you are and what makes you YOU through the written word.
I'm not asking for much. Just a conversation. |
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I DON'T WANT YOUR MONEY!
No, really, I don't. I don't have anything against pro-Dommes. If you can make a living doing that, more power to you! What I DO have something against are the mass numbers of users and parasites masquerading as Dommes who have infiltrated the lifestyle. If you are a pro - be up front and say so. I don't mind that you charge people money to boss them around. But pretending to be interested in someone and then demanding "tribute" in the form of cash or gifts in order to continue talking to them - without stating FIRST that you require this as payment for a service - that's just USING PEOPLE. It gives ALL Dommes a bad name, and I hate it. |
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| Age: 25 |
| V, Beach,
Virginia |
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