Fresh more or less out of an LTR that just kinda fizzled out after 2 years...
I love BDSM and the passion of it all and the little subculture its more or less created but, I don't build my life around it. I own my own small company, and have a reputation to uphold more or less and yes, I am looking for all the intimacy and meaningfulness of vanilla relationship behind closed doors I'm a complete pervert and if you're about to contact me you'd probably best to be one as well. I LOVE the idea of having the best of both worlds and not making my life around bdsm that being said little kinky games daily make life interesting, I'm saying some toys won't find their way into a vanilla night out as long as its nice and covert which I think adds to the fun. Full disclosure I used to be extremely promiscuous never attempted to hide it. Basically I'm looking for pervert who can deal with all the regular girlfriend stuff like thanksgiving dinner and not acting weird at family BBQ's and such. As far as casual play I enjoy it, I've toned it WAY down last few years simply because I'm aiming for the LTR but, I have no moral issue with anyone looking for no strings fun, my only rules are condoms, cobriety and I'm not going to fuck you if your boyfriend/husband/significant other hasn't given you the free pass.
Ideally looking for a sub/slave bi preferable, MUST be able to hold a conversation and be sane. Its really odd how most people don't pass this test these days. We all have our youthful indiscretions but, if you been 5150'd in the last 6 month you probably should click the next profile.
I'm EXTREMELY passionate about my job and as stressful as it is, it afforded me a house and when things go right its extreamly satisfying. I crack safes, hotwire cars and do some light PI work now and then. I can't go back to having a desk job so boring, I hate it, not for me. I love working with my hands usually fixing things, minor upgrades to my house, car and other small projects. I build build damn near anything out of metal/wood/plastic and I know a thing or two about auto repair and electrical work.
I'm very passionate about music especially 90's grunge STP was one of my favorite bands of all time RIP Scott Weiland also, I was crushed when I hear Chris Cornell killed himself RIP Chris. I can listen to music for hours on end not a fan of all the pop crap engineered and processed like its a fast food cheeseburger but, I'll deal with it. I'm equally passionate about film, new/old/indy/forein my favorite films include Alien 1979, Gattaca 1996, black hawk down, Guardians of the galaxy was so aweszome honestly I don't understand who anyone could NOT like t hat film.
My perfect day of would probably be something like going to the Getty museum I love art especially the darker stuff HUGE HR Gieger fan (google him, not while eating) I could just wander around up there for days, I like quiet outdoors kind of things like museums, topanga canyon hikes, the beach is always great although I hate crowds. I make my own schedule so I love to sneak out tues-thursday when nobody is around. I'll go to a club now and then but, I hate the rules (honestly WTF? no third base or sex in a BDSM club? whatever...)
Regarding the likes and dislikes of BDSM bondage, control, light humiliation, sensory dep, light impact play but I don;t consider myself a sadist. I have my own suspension rig and I live alone so there's not much I can't do especially if you have a specific fetish I've never tried I am ALL ABOUT trying new things kink or otherwise.