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I'm back on Sleeping_Dreamer
‎"You desire to know the art of living, my friend? It is contained in on phrase: make use of suffering." Henri Frederic Amiel

Hmm I guess I update this a bit... ? Lets get something straight... MEN *ehhem* Yes, I am a woman and I am a Switch, but lets not get that confused with a submissive mkay? Mkay. ? Secondly, my profile DOES state that I am interested in Dommes... WOMEN... Same thing applies to you, I can respect your position as a Domme... No I will not submit to you.? I probably wont bottom for you either.? Period.? General rule, If I'm bigger than you, I'm not submitting to you.? So unless youre like 6'4? Dont ask *lol*? Usually with Dommes I like friendship, other female leaders vs the hordes of female subs that I have as friends. ? What I'm looking for?? Nothing really, just new friends if anything.? I dont mix sex and play casually, I don't like foot worship (is that the new 'IN' fetish? jesus fucking christ).? So any requests for any type of sexual domination, not happening.? Any financial domination, again - not happening, I'm not a goddamn ProDomme here.? I enjoy meeting/socializing/training and being involved with others who are in the Culture not only the Lifestyle.? If you dont know what the difference between those ARE, then we probably wont get along.


Hmm... Lets keep this clean and simple...?
? About me:
Female
Black
Switch
Tall (6'1)
Few extra pounds (size 16)
Tattoos
Piercings
Natural Hair

Fetishes (Short List):
Bondage
Humiliation
CyberGoth Steampunk
Caging
Corsets
Flogging
Breath Play
Breast Bondage
Clamps
Fire
And some others...

Personality:
Goofy
Open
Down to earth
Caring
Loving
Honest
Trustworthy
Happy
Blunt
Funny

Hobbies (Short List):
Music
Travel
Art
Cooking
Camping
Swimming
Sports
Gaming (Online, PC, System)
Movies

Looking for:
Friendship
Training
Networking

Other Randoms:
Finishing masters in finance
Full-time employment (love my job!)
Single Mother
Possibly moving to the Atlanta, Chicago or Detroit?area
Yes I have more photos :P
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And also... Since I've been asked a few times:
"Every?institution, corporate entity?or individual(s)?is?prohibited from using this profile, its associated text, content and digital imagery without the expressed written content of this individual.? Such use?could be a violation of personal privacy or a violation of Tort governed by?Trademark and/or Copyright statutes."

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3/25/2011 8:38:39 PM

Uploaded a couple new pics.... Ignore the date stamp *lol* I forgot to reset it! :P


3/18/2011 6:28:58 PM

Yawns...

 

Back lingering about...

 

:)


8/21/2010 10:00:02 AM
I have found love....


It is a tiny bunny...


One day I will speak to the person with the tiny bunny...

And I shall ask him what type of bunny it is...


So that I can go get one. ♥

8/20/2010 8:42:16 PM
I thought this quote was pretty flippin awesome:

"
pure mind does not have need of memory -
by it I am remembered and He is remembered.
His remembrance is my remembrance,
and my remembrance is His remembrance.
How, when remembering ourselves, can we two be other than one?
My service is now purer, my time more pleasant, my remembrance more glorious,
because I served Him in the absolute for my good fortune,
and now I serve Him for Himself "

8/19/2010 4:49:41 PM

I wanted to answer some questions:

Question one:

Do you want to submit to me, body, mind and soul!?

Answer:

No, not really, thanks though.

Question two:

Can I submit to you, with my body, mind and soul?

Answer:

No, not really, thanks though.

Question three:

Can I see naked pictures of you?

Answer:

No, not really, thanks though.

Hope that clears that up.

Now on to the rest.

Am I wrong to think that a lot of people that I’ve encountered in the lifestyle cheapen it a bit?  If someone is willing to submit to me sight unseen and not knowing a damned thing about me, what my dynamic style is or even what I look for in a submissive, that seems to take away the value of said persons submission.

Secondly, I wouldn’t just submit to anyone.  Why? Because submitting to someone means I not only trust them with MY life but my kid’s life and well and that type of trust isn’t easy to come by.  Not only that, but it would take a very VERY special guy to get me to do that anyway.

I’ve been thinking a lot too about the sexual ‘expectations’.  Usually they go as such:

“Wow youre pretty”

“Thank you”

“Can I tie you up and ram my cock inside of you for a few hours?”

“Err…”

Just like I wouldn’t randomly fuck some stranger (man OR woman) I wouldn’t fuck a stranger who I also know dabbles in S&M.  That’s just stupid, to say the very least.

Did I miss the memo about these changes in protocol?  Or am I just way too old fashioned here?

Hmm…


8/18/2010 8:07:01 PM

I've had 9 people today ask the same question.... How do you have a UK address...

Hmm...

Maybe... Just MAYBE...

I spent some time living abroad?

Or

MAYBE... just MAYBE... I'm not a complete idiot and dont give out my full name so I use a cover account...

Wait... Wait... No... By George I've got it...

Maybe... It's because anyone can get a UK account on yahoo because its *gasp* FREE!!!

*face palm*

Someone please say something intelligent and bright to me so that I know I'm not alone in my world of geekiness...

Anyway if you’ve mailed me today, sorry if I haven’t gotten back to you, finals this week…

~J
(Oh and no 'J' has nothing to do with my real name either!!! *gasp* *plays dramatical (yep dramatical) music*)

 

 


8/17/2010 8:06:39 PM
I've been pondering a lot lately...

what exactly IS a natural submissive?

if one is not naturally submissive does that mean they are dominate?

if thats so, where do i fit in?

its been an interesting thing to ponder today...

*ponders*

8/16/2010 4:52:41 PM
So... I've been reading a lot of profiles...

All I can say is...

WTFOMG!

followed by:

WTFOMFG...

Ok, now that that's out of my system...  I am very pleased that I am as a Switch and not a slave or submissive.

she would dislike greatly having to speak as such.

Let's get something straight.  If I've gotten (yes I) a chance to know you then I might, out of courtesy and respect for your title give you recognition as Sir. 

For example "Good afternoon Sir, how are you?" And yes, I've called women 'Sir' before over Ma'am... Old regiment thing I guess.

And ahh my beloved subbies...  I find it amusing that so many of you want me to make you my little white slut.

Last time I checked... A slut doesnt need a colour label...  Even more important, I love a slut just like the next girl ;) But... I'm not going to want to jump off line, hop in the car, and rush to see you because I get to make you my slut! NO WAIT! It'd be a bonus, you'd be my WHITE slut! *omg* *bites nails* *so excited*


Maybe it's me?




No way... I'm too awesome. ♥


***Disclaimer***

If you don't understand 'sarcasm' and or 'humor' then please piss off :P

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