I have been working quite a bit and so has my pet. We've been getting our things moved over to the new house, so I've not had time to be on.

Our time in Seattle was wonderful. His family and friends are lovely and I enjoyed meeting them. 

I might be around soon after the holidays again. I do miss my old friends here.

it has been a VERY long time since I've been here. I'm about to head to Seattle to spend time with my pet's family. It should be loads of fun. 

So. i've missed you guys. What have YOU been up to?

There are many different kinds of submission and many different schools of dominance. Just because you dont fit my own needs doesn't mean you aren't a submissive...please don't ever let someone else tell you what you are and what you are not.

I am a somewhat sadistic woman these days. I rule my house with an iron fist and I fully expect to be obeyed. When I say do something, I mean now. When I say what I want done, you should know HOW I want it done, and I shouldn't have to double check. If I find it isn't done later, there will be pain, and I can promise it wont be some cute little tee hee oh yes that hurts so good pain. When I hurt, I hurt. When I punish, it's not for fun.

I love teasing and denial. There is a chance as my sub that you will NEVER fuck me. There is also a good chance that you will never fuck anyone else either. If I don't want it, you'll learn that you don't GET it, either by yourself, or with me or with anyone else. I am not a sexual being. I like CONTROL. If you're a horny fucker, you'd never survive. I -despise- horndogs.

Never let a Dominant person tell you that you are not a submissive because you aren't comfortable doing what they want. NEVER let someone cow you into doing something you're not okay with.

Please keep this in mind when you're looking for a Dominant man or woman. You have a right to say no, and you have a right to decide what you are and are not okay with. And if Someone doesn't like that, they are NOT the person for you.

Alright I'm more awake now so I figure perhaps I can give this another try. My pet is many things to me. He cleans the house, he cooks me dinner, he is my lover on occasion, and he is my punching bag on far more occasions. This suits us very well.

He likes it when I punch, kick, slap, or prod at him. He likes when I grab his hair and shove his head around, making him yelp or cry out in pain. He likes knowing that I can overpower him at any time. I'm the stronger person in our relationship, physically. I'm the one who calls the shots. He likes knowing that I can at any point put him on the ground.

Most of what we do together is playful, the usual boyfriend wrestling with his girlfriend stuff, but it becomes a bit more violent than the norm and I always win. He doesn't -let- me win, and there are times that I do struggle to get the upper hand, but I always do. There's never been a time that I've lost, and there's never been a time that my dominance has been questioned.

Still he gets his say in things. He, after all, is an intelligent, lovely partner and I'd not want him to feel unheard. I give him a say, but I'm the one who decides in the long run what is and is not done, what will or won't be, and he accepts that.

I hope that explains things better than last night; god knows I never should try and type when I'm so tired I can't see the screen.

I figure I should tell you about my relationship with my pet. Pet is a masochist but not hugely so. He likes being beaten and wrestled and so that makes up a good ninety nine percent of our fun time together. Sometimes I'm kicking him about, other times I'm wrestling him down and overpowering him, other times, I'm grabbing him by the hair and making him submit. That's pretty much what we do.

Our dominance/submission games don't usually involve sex. In fact our sex is very vanilla.

And that's pretty much it really.

I wish this could be more fluid or better written, but I've made the mistake of trying to write it while half asleep. I probably should remedy that and go to bed.

I've been gone a good long time. My personal pet and I are still together. November second will be our one year anniversary and I couldnt be happier about that. Unfortunately my other slave had to be let go, but I was happy to do it; he's taking care of family and that's far more important than anything else. I'm enjoying having just the one slave, and I doubt I'll be looking for any more

And I suppose that's it. I'm a little tired, and resting up. It's my day off today so yeah, hah. If I seem subdued right now it might be because I've hit a down, and I"m a little depressed. I will be until I come out of it.

Anyhow I suppose that's it.

I didn't write this, but I agree with it 100 percent.

Imagine you are shopping for a pair of shoes. What do you do? You mingle, you mix and then you slip on a pair testing it for comfort and, of course, how it makes you feel.

You ask yourself a few questions. One of the most important is how does the shoe make you feel sexy, professional, hip, athletic or absolutely magnificent?

Only you know the answer because they’re your shoes.

If you listen to your friends you may wind up at home a few hours later staring at a shoe you just don’t love. If you listen to your heart you may end up biting off way more than you can chew and spending too much. But if you listen to your mind you are patient, responsible, thorough.

If the shoe doesn’t quite fit on your feet or with your budget you set the pair back down, no matter how irresistible and say, “I can wait. I’ll find a better pair at another store or on another day.”

So why is it that with men we relinquish control and often wait for them to ask us out or wait for them to choose us?

Why? When the man we choose, as every single mom knows, is one of the most important decisions a woman can make in her life. Is he a true partner, supportive, loving, and how does he make you feel?