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I am a handsome, professional, well-kept man. I maintain my appearance and physique, ensure I am groomed, fresh and dressed to the occasion. I would expect the same from any woman Id consider for a relationship.I am primarily interested in slim and petite women, attractive and younger than me.I have a strong tendency to take leadership in situations its my natural state, part of who I am. I provide direction when needed, make decisions that need to be made. My confidence tends to put people at ease, so I doubt its mistaken for arrogance. My confidence comes naturally, born from a lifetime of experience, and is a also fundamental part of being me. As such, Im a secure in my role as the leader and a provider, and have a natural tendency towards the dominant role in a relationship. That doesnt mean I have a need to punish women, or that I enjoy causing pain. I dont. I think Doms who are only in this to inflict suffering are overcompensating for some major insecurities.Im comfortable in both vanilla and Ds relationships, it all depends on the chemistry. Since no two people are alike, every relationship is different. Everyone has their own hopes and desires, and those need to be explored to understand each others expectations, tolerances and limits. While some are content with my presence, others have specific kinks they need fulfilled. I know Ill always be the one to take charge and provide direction, but how thats expressed depends entirely on the dynamics of the relationship. If shes into training and punishment, Im happy to take on that role and dole out ks when necessary. If shes into being taken by her man and used like meat, Ill happily fuck her throat and ass. If she likes being bound, I have enough straps, blindfolds and cuffs to accommodate. If her things humiliation, Ill degrade her like a whore.If thats what truly brings her pleasure and happiness, Ill provide what she needs.Of course, if she just wants a strong man to be with her, to be her rock, her lover, protector, provider - I am happy to be that man.A real man must be concerned with understanding and providing for the needs and well-being of those under his care. Which brings me back to the Ds side. Its a challenge for the Dominant is to understand what is best for the submissive often subs do not (or choose not to) realize what they need or even truly want. For subs, I am compassionate but uncompromising, even-tempered and consistent in my expectations. I will provide training and correction to help successfully serve our needs. I expect acceptance, eagerness and willingness from the submissive, and will not tolerate mediocrity or half-efforts. I offer pleasure, satisfaction and fulfillment as reward.Surprisingly, I need to call this out, to be sure were clear and to save timeI am not a sadist and do not enjoy needlessly inflicting pain. I have no interest in knives, needles, fire or scarring. I have no interest in minors, or anything else illegal.With all of the fakes and scammers on this site, I now have to screen who I speak with and will require verification (at some point) of who they are - whether its a pic of them with theirIm looking to meet IRL Im not interested in an online relationship. Im always happy to meet and chat with friends online, but relationships need to be physical. I prefer local, but I have plenty of miles saved, so distance isnt to large a factor.
My Ideal Match
Willing to learn, open to explore, eager to please.She feels pleasure from giving as well as receiving. Her truest reward is to fully and completely satisfy her Man. She trusts that He knows what is best for her, what she needs and what she craves.
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