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Yesterday was my Birthday :-)
One more year has passed and while its been a year of a huge amount of new experiences, people and location, I can honestly say I was ready for the new chapter in my life. I am blessed to have been able to have the chance to walk into a new experience in my life.
Florida has thus far been a wonderful change of pace for me even though I am still on the hunt for that one who will serve me and be fully and completely devoted to me, I am still happy for the place my life has brought me to.
>_< 0-0 :-) |
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My roommate has finally confirmed that he will be moving out in March so I am officially looking for a roommate.
I am looking for a submissive roommate who can pay his own bills. Must have a job before moving in and must pay rent plus security of course the security is to replace the security the roommate what is moving will need to be given back. All the other details are in my journal please read it before asking questions. |
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Remember you should always offer up your own information when asking a Dominant theirs... getting to know someone is never one sided. So if you want answers to questions first provide your answers to the same questions then ask that of the Dominant. Its rude not to know your asking personal information with out offering up your own first. |
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It would seem that those self proclaimed slaves that have a lot of skills (not all of you of course because this is not a blanket statement) also have a lack of patience. Why is it that people online forget that you don't live your life online and that yes its is a very real possibility that you (even a Dominant) have a job. Is this something that is not expected? I expect not only sub/slaves to have jobs to also Dominants as well. Life is not free and bills need to be paid. That is just how life is. Not everyone is here to live off another person and actually have pride in having a job and being able to pay their own bills.
When there is time between when you send a note to someone and the reply takes a while ... could it be that the other person is busy or working? Or has society become so ingrained in instant that they have forgotten that life actually happens outside of the internet?
Maybe its just me but I find it very irritating when people show a lack of patience. |
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Okay if you are looking at the roommate offer that is up for a sub/slave here is what is involved, this is subject to change.
You will need a job before you move in.
You will need first and last months rent as well as security deposit. ($2700.00 to move in) you pay 900 per month.
That means you are as responsible for everything in the house as any body else.
If you are not a true slave/sub do move on... I don't have time for opportunist.
What the rent covers is your portion of the rent as well as utilities, internet(no cable, if you want cable tv you pay for it) and groceries.
You have liberal use of the pool and access to the kitchen as well as the rest of the house.
The other 2 bedroom are off limits as they are rented to others. I expect you to respect others privacy and to keep your noise level down.
If you are going to have guest it needs to be discussed with the rest of the house hold as well.
Also respect the fact that if you have friends that the rest of the house hold does not like that you please do not bring that person to the house.
There is room for your car in the drive way.
I run a drama free zone here and expect it to be kept that way. If you can not agree to those terms and conditions then move on.
Also there will be no extra people living in the house such as you have a boy friend or girlfriend who wants to stay more than a couple of days ... meaning over the weekend (that person must clean up after themselves not negotiable)
Now what I expect of the slave/sub is that you will do the yard work and deal with the pool be kept up as well as doing a fair share of house work etc...
There may be times that I will have you do other things around the house but for the most part you will be expected to hold down a job and the moment you can not pay your part of the house hold rent and utilities etc... I will call the land lord and have you removed from the house. This will be written into your agreement with the land lord just so you know its fully legal and you alone can be evicted from the house.
I am not here to support some lazy ass who thinks this is the way to skate through life with out having to pay his/her own way. I will not tolerate it on any level. Again if you can not deal with that then move on. |
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You know some people (sub/slave) types can truly make me dislike them almost to use the word hate in my definition of my feelings in their direction... Today one so called slave managed to drive me to the point of using the word hate on him.
I just don't get it why approach someone and lie? Lie just to live out some fantasy and then continue the lie for a duration of time. I like everyone until they give me a reason not to. This person gave me a very large reason not to like him almost to the point of using the word hate on him.
Now all my time that was wasted on talking to this individual is lost and I will never get it back. I was pretty sure I said in my profile that if your not serious to move on. But no lets just lie and then continue to lie and wast my time. WTF.... I have no tolerance for such people but I can't kill them so do me this favor if you are one of those people and your reading this ... move on and leave me alone I don't have time for people who lie and are not serious. |
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Well come the month of March I will be seeking a new roommate. I will prefer one who is a service oriented sub/slave. This person must be neat and clean at all time and must understand that they will be required to do house work, yard work etc. This person will also be expected to hold a full time job and pay their rent, utilities etc and that will total $900.00 per month. I live in a 3 bedroom house with pool and the sub/slave will have their own room with open access to the rest of the house. Contact me here for more information. Please only serious people need to contact me. Don't waste my time with unnecessary inquires about the situation. |
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Finally in the house... just waiting for my stuff to arrive then I will be fully moved in and enjoying my new environment. Looking to see what the local BDSM community has to offer. Also looking to make new friends in the lifestyle as well. |
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The month of February into March has been rather stressful and interesting... I am relocating to Fort Myers Florida... So at the moment I've had a dickens of a time just trying to get back to NY ... been stuck here in Florida for the past 10 days was supposed to be home 5 days ago ... the bad weather in the Northeast has had me stuck here with cancelled flights everyday... But yes when its all said and done I will be living here in about 3-4 weeks. |
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Soon All Hallows Eve will be upon us and I will be adding photos of my costume. I will be doing steam punk this year. I have the basic concept photos that I will add tomorrow. I just finished them tonight... I won't have the curly wig piece on but I intend to get my hair braided in box braids for the costume and photo shoot. |
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It always surprises me when someone has to be the center of attention and if your not paying attention to them because well you have other things to do that they blame you for the down fall of things around them. The lack of taking responsibility for ones own actions is an interesting thing to bear witness to. Once again someone I was considering fell through do to being very self centered and only doing things to get what he wanted out of it. That is NOT the mark of a true sub/slave. |
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It would seem that my work schedule is making things difficult for me to have a slave or sub. So my ability to have one at this moment in time is on hold till my schedule can become more of a regular situation. |
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in a week will be truly single so i will be taking a bit of a brake from things in order to get my new apartment furnished and decorated as well as just taking some needed down time. |
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My gosh who knew that finding a good apartment would be such a pain in the neck. What some people are putting down as beautiful apartment I wouldn't let a dog live in... and others make you wonder who taught them color schemes because OMG!!! ugly taste in colors, patterns and carpets. UGH!!! |
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I have some information I need to add here... this is just some of what I need to say at the moment .... If you've never read the book or seen the movie The Count of Monti Christo then I am asking you to do so.
I am looking for a submissive who can see large parts of himself in the character Jacapo. Edmond's man servant. Watch the movie its an good movie. But the man servant is the character I want you to draw your attention to. If you can not see being in service to this degree to someone then I am not the someone you need to be speaking to.
Yes there is way more to it than just this little bit but its a good place to start. |
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Just for further reference I don't have an interest in cucks ....its just not my thing... I'm happy that you (whom every you may be) want to chat me up but I really and truly don't have a use for a cuck. |
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Now I should be totally ready to embark upon my journy to weight loss... I have had surgery recently and am on the heal... So this coming week will be the start once again for my journey into weight loss. I shall be using the ellipictal to begin the cardio part and then move on to the Power 90x and arrange a better eating schedule than I have had of late. Thank you to all those of you who made very good suggestions to me to put to use. |
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Well after having visited my doctor I find I am truly in need of a boy who is very good at cooking healthy meals and is well disciplined in working out. My boy will serve as my personal trainer etc... So he needs to be very on his game but know his place and respects the situation as it stands. More to come soon I imagine lots more. |
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Well my search continues... for the elusive submissive/slave who is actually what he say's he is. |
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So just to let everyone know I am looking for a domestic house boy (not boi) I need someone who will do the cooking, cleaning, shopping, yard work, laundry etc. I am not looking for someone who is looking to have play time as I have very little time for that.
This person will have to mesh with the living situation of the household. I will also have to have a certain amount of chemistry with that person as well. Not just a house boy for the sake of a house boy. |
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Just to let you all know (subs and slaves) I currently have a male under consideration. Thank you for all your notes and for introducing your selves to me and do continue to contact me but understand that I do have a male who I am considering at the moment. |
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Time marches on and it would seem that the market for a good sub/slave is over run with people who just love to waste your time. The true submissive or slave is made to be a difficult commodity to find in such a place where those who are game players dominate the field.
But time will tell if I am to have a good true sub/slave. Time will tell.... |
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Well I seem to be still in the market for a sub/slave who has a chemistry that will mesh with mine. The male that can be what he truely says he is and is not out playing games or looking for that online experience.
I don't do the online thing and I don't like that people think the online experience is a true life experience and I don't think it is. I prefer the face to face in person experience.
Patience is a vertrue and I am ever the patient one. |
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I am loving the fact that the BSK group is growing and moving forward. I am at the moment going through the motions of figuring out how to trun the basement into a Midevil Dungeon >:-) evil grin....
I want a rack to be among the items in the dungeon. Hum... The walls are going to be done in shades of gray and made to look like stone. I am thinking of covering the concrete floor with tatami matts... though I'm sure I spelled that wrong... But I think the matts will add a level of wormth and comfort to the room along with 2 electric fire places at either end of the room and a dehumidifier as well.
when this is done I hope to have given our BSK members 2 nice dungeon rooms to exercise their minds and bodies in.
More to come as I slowly put it together. |
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At 3 hours 30 minutes our little ms. fefe broke. She deserves to be congratulated for how well she held on through overwhelming odds. For our first interrogation scession it went nicely. I now know that there are a few things I'd do differently to prepair but you never know what that will be untill you emerse your self into the sceen.
Everything is a learning situation and we all come away with something new and lasting. For my little fefe well she was outstanding in the way she handled her self and the building levels of self control.
I will be looking forward to doing more interrogation scessions.
Now I will truely have to have that rack built!
So who is going to volunteer to build it for me? |
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So tonight we are doing our first ever interrogation sceen hehehe I'm all excited to see how this goes. We have our military gear from a cool Army Navy Sirplus store. I had a lot of fun shopping there and will be a repeat customer lol...Our victom is at this moment on the last minutes of napping before the shit hits the fan lol.
Its time for the show to begin for good old number 13
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What is wrong with people? You know what when you contact someone with hopes of having a D/s situation with them and you find out its not for you then why insult people.
A simple "this siutation is not for me and thank you for your time" will do. Being a sub/slave you should know better than to insult someone that you approched considering that person did not speak to you first. It was you who were seeking them out.
Just remember that Karma is nothing to play with and will reflect back at you what you put out.
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Very disappointng now I have to remove my collar of consideration from a female who as it turns out was more interested in only doing things that would get her played with than being true to her calling. But then again maybe that was my short coming as I trust what is said to me and have to wait till that sub/slave proves themselves to not be what they claim to be.
Well on to the next. |
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After the last male I decided to try a female and I figure maybe I'll have better luck there. That maybe a female will have that loyal streak and the ability to stick with a Mistress such as my self, she is now waring a collar of consideration and we shall see how that developes. |
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Well I must be very scary as we met a few times and he attended a party and well, then he vanished. Go figure. |
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I am currently considering a submissive male who surprised me by actually reading my profie as well as my journal and paid attention to what I was saying. With luck he will turn out to be the one I've been seeking. Our first meeting turned out well and I'm looking forward to speaking to him again in the near future.
Well that turned out like so many others very disappointing and it went no where agan. |
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Alright here is the skinny. I am married but seperated. I have and live with my boyfriend who I trained to be a rather good Dominant. If you can't deal with that then get on to the next person of interest. |
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Its obvious that some don't understand when I say don't waste my time by contacting me unless you are serious. I have recieved several email from such persons. I must not be making my self clear Dont Contact Me If Your Not Serious!
Now on to more interesting things. I have a man in my life he is my boyfriend, he is stright, and he is also a Dominant. I am still in the market for a sub/slave so only contact me if your serious and don't live hundreds of miles away. Live with in the scope of posibility. No point in wasting time if you can't come to me on a regular basis.
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Sense its been a while sense my last entry I've decided its time to add some new stuff.
I no longer have the need for a slave to explane as my family situation has changed. Children grow up and move on into their own lives and my married situation has changed as I am no longer with the husband. So I no longer have a need for the slave to deal with that perticular situation.
Mistress C |
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I would like to know if there is a slave out there that is willing to be in a situation where the slave would be willing to have the family learn about slaves. This is not to deminish in any way the slave but to help for those that don't understand to learn why a slave has made the choices in life to serve others. I have been approached by several slaves but all seem to be unwilling to bend for the sake of educating a new generation of D/s people. Education and understanding is the key for without it people grow up to be intolerent and closed minded.
My goal is to find such a slave and have them be very open with my family and willing to have the family learn about slaves from this slave. Maybe in due time i will find the person wiling to step into the future with an open mind.
If you are a slave and you wish to contact me please realize that being treated like a friend to explain your situation in a learning process is in no way taking away from your position. But it needs to start somewhere. |
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I don't write much to my journal but today seems like a good day to add to my journal.
I encounter a large number of submissives from other countrys and from the US that live far away offering to come and be kidnapped. Well I have no need of a slave that can't be seen in public to do the grocery shopping and gardening and other things that need to be done in a public place. Not to mention a slave that for what ever reason thinks that he/she does not have to work a job outside of the home. I need a fully usable slave not someone living in a fantasy world. This includes cyber slaves, again I have no use for someone I can't use fully and real time.
I would hope that my profile inpart that to the reader but maybe it hasn't as I continue to get these offers. They are sweet and nice but not what I'm lookin for.
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There are people who just can't let something go. If I am not the Mistress for you then do go on to find the one you are seeking and don't go on to do the cloak and dagger thing. Life is to short for those of you out there to just play games. Just let it go and continue your search for a Mistress that will be all you want in a Mistress.
There will be times in my house that you as a slave can not be naked and yes there will be times when as a slave you will have to go out and do the grocery shopping. Sexual contact would be if I so chose it, if you have a problem with that then I'm not the Mistress for you. If you are not an honest person then find someone who enjoys the cloak and dagger type personality that you have.
I have a life and I am not chained to my computer, I have family, friends, work, online college and social obligations that take me way from the computer for days at a time. If you require constant contact then this may be an issue for you. I have no problems with phone contact but being on the computer constantly may be an issue for me.
Do look and find what it is in a Mistress you are seeking and if it is not there then go on to the next one on your list. Be wise enough to know not to waste a Mistresses time or to sink to the debths of name calling because you didn't get what you wanted out of the situation.
If you are a good slave then show it by not embarrassing your previous owners and behaving in such a mannor as to show that their training ment nothing to you and that you chose to say things to a Dominiant even though your situations don't mesh you should never show disrespect to a Dominiant you should just move on.
Good luck and God's speed to thouse of you who are out there searching and finding what I've encountered as the poor unfortunate slaves who disrespect their previous owners by disrespecting Dominiants who are looking for a situation that will become what is wanted for both party's involved. |
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sub/slaves male and female. When you write to me include a face pic. And if you are looking for someone to bring you into your dream world of being played with and having things done to you and so on and so forth then you need to pay tribute because any Dominiant person will tell you its not about you its about you being in service of your Dominiant. And that being your reward not you doing it just to see what you can get out of it. A true sub/slave is looking for the happiness that being in service to their Dominant will give to them and how they can make their Dominiants life easy and more convient. So I say don't send me email stating what it is you want because its not about what you want its about your service to your Dominiant. |
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