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We at Palazzo Del Maestro are inspired by a Lifestyle Power Exchange and Cohabitating Homestead. Our home is driven by the sharing of fun, entertaining, erotic experiences that can be enjoyed by a small group of consenting people with deep meaningful relationships forged over time.

These relationships are guided by our founding principals listed herein and within a framework and structure provided by the Palazzo Del Maestro Charter and House Traditions.

Palazzo Del Maestro Founding Principals:

  1. Love & Respect Based Power Exchange

  2. Open, Belief Driven Communication

  3. Relationship / Role Based Boundaries & Rules


We have made every effort to detail our founding principles and grand vision for the homestead herein and strongly recommend that you take the time to thoroughly read this profile and our writings before requesting to become part of our family & cohabitating homestead.

PLEASE NOTE: If you are a MALE seeking something more casual, then be prepared to inform us of what you can bring to the table that would be to our benefit - be advised that we are stern believers in “there is no such thing as a free ride”.

The Grand Vision of Palazzo Del Maestro

Seems like in this world of kink & BDSM there are two extremes. The people that strive to live it 24/7 or those that jump in and out for the sporadic occasional play session.

Palazzo Del Maestro is inspired by a slightly different vision.

One of something greater, deeper and more consistent than the random incidental scenarios many of us are often bombarded with, but also something more balanced and respectful to each of our members family/career and other vanilla type obligations. We see something more like a “24/7 lite” - with priority and respect to vanilla responsibilities such as family and career.

Our vision is that of a cohabitational homestead, so yes, you would eventually come to live under the same roof as the rest of us. For us, that’s the “point” and the initial goal. Call it a commune or a family, we see aspects of both ringing true here. NOTE: Our prime attention is given to those who can consider moving into the homestead within 2-4 months of meeting.

As a roomie & homestead member, you will be expected to share in daily chores and other home related maintenance tasks. You will adhere to the house rules and protocols established. You will also be expected to contribute toward the operations overhead of the home - essentially, rent, room, board, utilities, common household food & cleaning items, etc. [The extended version of Our Grand Vision can be found HERE]

Official House Positions

Individuals interested in becoming members of the House apply for a particular role are interviewed multiple times, invited to play at one or two play sessions, and may be offered a Contract of Fealty to Palazzo Del Maestro detailing the rules of play that apply to them. All those in service to the House are bound by the Palazzo Del Maestro's Charter, Rules, and Traditions, which links can be found below. New or inexperienced people will be required to go through training, education, and mentorship before the Contract of Fealty is offered to them. Link [Open House Positions - details]

Collaring and Ownership

All positions may request to earn this privilege through the "Collaring Protocol" process outlined in the “Collaring Protocol” link.

Palazzo Del Maestro’s Traditions, Rules, and Protocols

House Charter

House Rules

Collaring Protocol

Probationary Contract

General guidelines for Submissive Conduct

Positional Training / Protocol Expectations

Slave/Submissive Service Flow Chart

Play Chart - text & pdf file

12 Traditions of a Master and his submissive

Slave Registry

About the Master & Mistress of Palazzo Del Maestro

Master Alexander is a determined and decisive, natural born leader and Patriarch. He has a passionate, magnetic and often hypnotic personality. He is very thoughtful in his conversations, dignified and reserved, yet amiable and compassionate.

Miss Jo (Her CS profile Miss Maestro) is a deeply intuitive, sentimental and protective. She has a home-loving nature, where she can express her strong maternal instincts. Though often pensive, she is also bubbly, energetic and down-to-earth.

Together the two balance each other out like Yin and Yang.

"Man and Woman, Opposite but Complementary, Each has the heart of the other, A sharing of the soul, The creation of a family, as a single reality, In balance together, in the cycle of life." - Qiao Xiao


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7/26/2017 3:36:34 PM

The Grand Vision of Palazzo Del Maestro

PROLOGUE

Seems like in this world of kink & BDSM there are two extremes. The people that strive to live it 24/7 or those that jump in and out for the sporadic occasional play session.

Palazzo Del Maestro is inspired by a slightly different vision.

Our vision is to something greater, deeper and more consistent than the random incidental scenarios many of us are often bombarded with, but also something more balanced and respectful to each of our members family/career and other vanilla type obligations. We see something more like a “24/7 lite” - with priority and respect to vanilla responsibilities such as family and career.

Our vision is that of a cohabitation homestead, so yes, you would eventually come to live under the same roof as the rest of us. For us, that’s the “point” and the initial goal. Call it a commune or a family, we see ects of both ringing true here. NOTE: Our prime attention is given to those who can consider moving into the homestead within 2-4 months of meeting.


As a roomie & homestead member, you will be expected to share in daily chores and other home related maintenance tasks. You will adhere to the house rules and protocols established. You will also be expected to contribute toward the operations overhead of the home - essentially, rent, room, board, utilities, common household food & cleaning items, etc.

Male subs/slaves, expect your share to run $850 total rent(utilieis, WiFi, cable) per month depending on how many are within the household. Be advised that this 5bed/3or more bath, and 4,000 sq ft in North Phoenix. Everyone pays their fair share.


We envision the ideal makeup of our “family” to be 5 to 7 people with the following dynamic:

  • Master Alexander - Patriarch / Male head-of-home (Owner & Daddy of Miss Jo)
  • Miss Jo

     - Matriarch / Female head-of-home (Babygirl & Slave to Master Alex)
  • 3-4 subservient / slave males (2 positions currently open)
  • 1 subservient / slave (switch possible) female (position currently open)
  • Also considered, a committed couple of any combination

Why a homestead?

Simple, there is a strong financial basis to consider “joining forces”. Typically, a family of 2 - 4 (or more) can live for much less than the same number of people living separately.


By pooling our financial wherewithal, each of us should be able to enjoy living together in a home that would easily be a shade or two nicer than what each of us could have done separately.


Think about it...


Imagine living in a stand alone home on a large lot with plenty of space and amenities. Imagine a spacious, fully equipped gourmet kitchen in a house with lots of extra rooms for fun and games of all kinds. Imagine a play pool with water features and outdoor area’s reminiscent of a luxury resort. Maybe even a casita?


Do you get the idea?


That is possible if we aggregate our efforts and resources.


With many hands, the “work” of caring for the home is lighter and easier for all of us - this leaves more time for all of us to pursue other mutual & independent interests (such as the primary reason that has brought you to us - you seeking to fill an open position in our homestead).


With a little more time and with everyone under the same roof, exploration, play, fun, training and general friendship can be far more spontaneous, thus much more likely to also occur more frequently if not regularly (and thus more fulfilling) than the monumental effort required to assemble each independent individual living their own separate lives for that very rare occasion of an evening spent together.


To truly know someone is to live with them. As stated among our founding principals, deep relationships based on love & respect require time & effort - typically the most efficient means to build these relationships is through cohabitation.


Choosing to live at Palazzo Del Maestro you have decided that you want to be known, understood and accepted and you’re willing to put the effort in to get to know, understand and accept the others in the home.


We look forward to you joining us on this journey.

Master Alexander and his Miss Jo




Remember, for "overhead" we are calculating all your living expenses except your car, car insurance, health insurance and your phone which would still be your personal responsibility in addition to contributing to your personal retirement, personal savings and if possible, savings toward the purchase of a home together.


 


7/26/2017 3:33:52 PM

House Charter - our core principals

We believe in the following:

Love:

We believe in cultivating an environment in which we may embrace the many forms of love that exist. Whether it be erotic, platonic, or fraternal, the deep connection between members of this House is what makes it a home. Love in it’s many forms is too wonderful of an experience not to share with those that we care about.

Acceptance:

We believe in the acceptance of each person as whole and unique. We are Doms, subs, Daddies, dolls, littles, pets and princesses. We come from different backgrounds, have different beliefs, and come from different parts of the world. We gain strength from our differences, gain sanctuary in our unity, power from our strengths and compassion from our flaws.

Compatibility:

We are committed to ensuring that any person seeking to become a member of the House is compatible not only with the beliefs and philosophy of the House, but also that they are compatible with the other members.

Safety:

We are committed to ensuring that safety is paramount. This includes fostering an informed consent culture, practicing SSC, enforcing the use of the standardized traffic light safeword system, and having compulsory play charts for all members and guests who wish to bottom. (Also see house rules)

Respect:

We hold respect for one another as a highly valuable commodity, worthy of being cherished. Respect is earned over time, and is essential in maintaining a House of diverse people in smooth working order. There is no role more intrinsically deserving of respect than any other. Respect should be extended to both the individual and the role they perform.

Openness:

We believe that the BDSM and Kink lifestyle is broad and diverse, and it is essential that we all remain open to the differences we will encounter on a regular basis. We believe that judgment shames and binds our souls in fear. We believe that we as individuals and we as a House are bound to evolve and that a supportive attitude of openness will allow us to do so in the healthiest fashion possible.

Learning & Growth:

We believe that mistakes are inevitable for all people. We are committed to creating and promoting an environment that encourages people to learn and grow from the challenges they face in their own unique journey. We believe in practicing forgiveness when those we love fall short of their own expectations, as long as those we love are focused on their own journey of self-improvement.

Family:

We believe that family comes first and feel that our fellow House members comprise an extended family. We are committed to protecting and caring for our family.

Loyalty:

We believe that loyalty is at the very core of our family. We believe this so strongly that if Protocol is one cornerstone, then loyalty is another. Loyalty allows us the opportunity to demonstrate our love and commitment for one another in times when it is needed the most.

Support:

We believe in supporting one another through the hardships that life will bring. We believe our House should provide a network of emotional and psychological support. We believe we should all do whatever we can to be there for one another in times of need.

Dedication:

We believe that embracing a life other than what society deems as normal can be trying at times. We believe that choosing such a life requires dedication. We pour our hearts into our relationships and believe in encouraging others to do likewise. We believe dedication is needed to carry us through the hard times, so that we may truly appreciate the good times.
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Note: Much of this writing was liberally borrowed from ChateauErotique as we feel the writing was so eloquently done and universally describes the essence of what it is we all are seeking in this lifestyle at Palazzo Del Maestro.

7/26/2017 3:32:44 PM

House Rules

General

  • Members of the House are to remain Loyal to the House at all times.
  • Members are to take pride in the House and their membership in it.
  • Members are to avoid talking negatively about fellow House members.
  • Members are not to do anything which may cause embarrassment to another House member.
  • Members are not to knowingly or foolishly expose a fellow House member’s kink lifestyle to the vanilla world or family.
  • Members are to continue to educate themselves in the BDSM lifestyle so that they may better serve their Role within the House.
  • Members are to attempt to always conduct themselves in such a way as to bring honor to the House.

Safety

  • All play and activities must conform to the principles of Safe, Sane & Informed Consent.
  • All participants must adhere to the standard House safe words of Green, Yellow, Red & Blue.
  • Safe Sex practices are to be observed at all relevant times.
  • No Dom/Top/Master/Owner/Trainer shall give any Instruction, Order, or Request that is dangerous, illegal, or likely to cause permanent harm.
  • Any Sub/Slave/Pet/Bottom/Baby/Trainee is expected to disregard any word of command that is dangerous, illegal, or likely to cause permanent harm.
  • Any substance consumed is to be in moderation, and not to inhibit judgment.
  • Any person identified as having impaired judgment is to cease play immediately.
  • Although learning and growing are encouraged, common sense and caution are to be exercised when participating in activities where new skills or knowledge are to be utilized.
  • Sterilization & hygiene procedures are to be followed during any needle play, or activities likely to draw blood or bodily fluid.
  • During all rope & rigging scenes, the rigger is to have a set of medical shears readily available.
  • All members and guests are to have a written record of Hard Boundaries kept by the House.
  • All Hard Boundaries are to be strictly respected by all participants.

Protocol

  • The House utilizes Social, Low, & High Protocol.
  • Level of Protocol is to be set by the highest ranking member of the House present and is to be observed at all times.
  • In all kink settings and in all kink correspondence; correct Rank and Title are to be used when addressing any other Member of the House
  • All submissives of the House are to recognize the position of other or guest Dominants and address them as “Sir”, “Ma’am” or “Mistress” in all kink settings and in all kink correspondence.
  • All Submissives are expected to follow the Presenting Ritual as per the level of Protocol in place.
  • All Submissives are expected to follow the “On-Point” procedure as per the level of Protocol in place.

The Residence of the Master & Lady of the House:

  • All House Members & Guests are expected to dress appropriately whenever attending the residence of the Master & Lady of the House for anything related to kink or play.
  • If a House member or Guest is not dressed appropriately upon arrival at the residence of the Master & Lady of the House, then their first order of business following polite greetings is to retire to a room and correct their standard of dress.
  • No Submissive is to use any furniture without first gaining permission.
  • No Submissive is to leave the presence of their Owner/Master/Dom without first gaining permission.
  • Submissives may socialize amongst themselves freely as peers.
  • Submissives are to remain ever mindful and attentive to the needs of their Owner, Master/Mistress, or Dom
  • If High Protocol is invoked, all Submissives are to ensure that if they are not “On-Point”, then they are within their Master’s line of sight.
  • A Submissive shall never interrupt a conversation between two superiors. But, should he/she so need to do; the submissive should use correct etiquette by saying; “Excuse me Sirs, my apologies, however, I need to ask my Master …….…..”
  • No member of the House has any entitlement to sleep in the Bed or Bedroom of the Master of the House, except the Lady of the House. Any other person to do so shall be by invite, for a specified period of time.

Willful or Negligent Failure to Comply

The rare instances where the submissive acts in a willful or negligent manner will result in punishment, up to and including release from service.

  • No punishment will be undertaken when the Owner or Trainer is angry.
  • Before administering punishment, the submissive will have the opportunity to fully explain how this failure occurred.
  • Owner or Trainer will ask the submissive to recommend the form of punishment.
  • Owner or Trainer will listen to the submissive’s proposal and, after consideration, determine the correct course of punishment. The Owner or Trainer will inform the submissive of his/her decision.
  • Owner or Trainer will use the minimum influence necessary to compel the submissive’s compliance with the policies and procedures the submissive previously agreed to.
  • Bearing in mind that the Owner wishes the relationship to continue, there are no limits to the nature or extent of punishment that could be ordered as a result of the submissive’s act of willfulness or negligence, so long as no crime is committed
  • After punishment has been administered, the Owner/Trainer and sub will sit down and discuss changes that may be needed in the relationship to ensure that such a breach does not occur again.
  • The incident that gave rise to the punishment will then be forgiven and not be spoken of again following the punishment debriefing. The slate is wiped clean.

Judicial

  • Any breach of the above rules or terms of a member’s individual contract may result in correction, discipline, or punishment. Punishments may vary from minor to severe, and in extreme cases; dismissal from service.
  • The House is designed to be fun and to create an environment for fun play, personal growth, and a sense of family within the kink world. Members should keep this uppermost in their minds and try and have as much fun as possible.

The original House Rules are from the House of Califor in Australia run by Master James and can be found HERE:https://fetlife.com/users/1815429/posts/1199957


7/26/2017 3:24:43 PM

Our Collaring Protocol

The power exchange dynamic is a lot of hard work, a single relationship is complex as it is, then add in power exchange and on top of that add multiple relationships of various dynamics. It can quickly become overwhelming and blow up into a drama laden shit-storm if there aren't systems in place to manage and organize it all.

We realize what we offer is reasonably rare and unique and might represent the best chance for some of you to take those deep, dark fantasies of yours and bring them to life within a safe, caring, accepting environment that does not threaten the balance of your outside vanilla life & responsibilities.

Approach & Application

The first step is your approach to us and the completion of your Application.

NOTE:

The application is provided as a link to an online form/survey. We deeply respect your privacy and use the utmost discretion to review your application. Should you be deemed an unsuitable candidate, we will delete your application within a week.

Once your application is accepted, you'll then begin an interview process,
(preferably in person as soon as is possible and reasonable). As stated elsewhere, this "process" at its start is open to many others (and just like you interview for a job) the openings will be filled with the best-fit candidates.

Realize that everything you say or do is under no time frame specified)

We need to like each other. Not just for kink sake, but on a next level deeper. When we aren't engaged in our respective dynamic, We want to be able to enjoy a drink with you, talk about life and break some bread with a meal or a kick back a brew during a BBQ. You know, normal life stuff. If we don't get along, why bother being more than that?

We've spent time becoming comfortable with each other - building both trust and experience. Hopefully, there is a mutual inspiration toward our respective dynamics as well as a deepening connection. Please don't expect to play with us right off the bat, we need to know you, like you and trust you. Further, much more discussion needs to happen respective to roles, boundaries, and expectations.

If you're looking for things to develop quickly and engage in immediate play sessions, we are NOT your people.

Petition / Consideration (2-4 months)

What you are asking is for us to invest our time & energy in you, your growth, and your fulfillment - this “investment” is limited to a select handful of potential candidates and takes us away from other potentially better-suited people, so please be sure you’re ready to go down this rabbit hole.

As Dominants, we value ourselves and our Dominance just as much as worthy subs value their submission. Too often these cracker-jack / 50 Shades Insta-Doms throw around their dominance like confetti in desperate hopes of locking down some submissive pussy.

So, we have to ask of you...

  • What are you offering?
  • What can you bring to the table?
  • What can you do for us and our home?

When you feel the time has come (or we have invited/signaled to you that we are open) you may provide us your written petition of consideration.

In the petitioning process, we expect the submissive to write down a detailed and well thought out letter, about what they are looking for from us and what they are offering in return.


If we accept your petition, then we start a consideration period unique to you and your dynamic (typically between 2 to 4 months. This might also include an invitation to join us as a renter in our homestead with a term (lease) of between 6 months to 1 year.

In this period, we might start introducing daily protocols and journaling. We start the gradual process of power exchange. In this period, your submission and obedience isn't obligatory.


You will be given opportunities to speak your mind, make suggestions on adapting the boundaries/protocols, and evolving this space together. Everything is voluntary as we feel each other out.

If we decide that it's not really working out, we can step out of the dynamic with no hurt feelings. No promises have been broken, no lies have been told. No harm, no foul.

Probationary Contract (3 months)

If we have both enjoyed the period of consideration, we will negotiate a standard three-month probationary contract. A few more personal protocols will be added in, and now your obedience and submission is obligatory. You are granted a collar and required to wear it as much as possible where it won't negatively impact your vanilla life. At this point, we have both committed to seeing out the next three months, for better or for worse. Luckily, three months isn't a scary amount of time to commit to.

Intermediate Contract (6 months)

This is essentially identical to the probationary contract, except that it is six months in duration. The content of the contract can be renegotiated, new things included and amendments made. During this period, you are required to wear your collar or cuffs at all times. This is the beginning of your training toward permanent collaring.

Permanent Collaring (1 year, renewable)

After the intermediate contract has expired, if we are happy with your performance, We will offer a twelve-month contract and if accepted, your leather collar will be removed and you will be re-collared with a lockable collar. This will not be removed unless medically necessary for the duration of the twelve-month contract. This contract is renewable annually and is open to amendments and updates upon renewal.
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NOTES:

- We believe collars are earned through hard work and deserve to be valued incredibly highly as a symbol of a deep commitment on the part of all parties involved.


- We believe contracts are an incredible tool for creating structure and stability. They need to be functional and based in reality. They need to detail expectations and responsibilities. And they need to have an end date. Each contractual period is designed so it is less than the total time already invested in the relationship to that point. Thus making it appear more achievable and less daunting.


- We believe submissive daily journalling is the single greatest tool toward ensuring a dominant understands what is happening in the mind and life of his submissive.
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The original, non-Maestro flavored version of this particular document can be found at @Master_James_ (yes two underscores) in his writing "I don't give away Velcro collars"

To read about the value of a collar I suggest reading "I Earned It!" by @salk.


7/23/2017 6:59:02 PM

Probationary Contract Template

The method of implementing our contracts is by first assigning a period of consideration. This is a "feeling out" period where both parties trial for suitability and compatibility with each other before embarking on a more challenging D/s dynamic. (also see our Collaring Protocol

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At the conclusion of the consideration period, a probationary contract is compiled and is normally set for a three month period. The template we use for the Probationary Contract is detailed below, (note, at the time of issuance, all appropriate gender and role references will be revised to suit).

After the probationary period, it is important to allow a few weeks to lapse and allow both parties to discuss terms of the next intermediate contract. It is normal at this point for it to grow from 20 declarations to 25 declarations and is more uniquely tailored for the individual. The intermediate contract will normally be set for a period of 6 months.

The intermediate contract is followed by a 12 month ownership contract. It will often contain close to 30 declarations. It is updated and re-signed annually.
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CONTRACT OF FEALTY TO MASTER _______ AND THE HOUSE OF ________

I Submissive ________, of sound body and mind solemnly agree to the following.

1: I agree to enter into a contract of submission and servitude to ______, and upon signing hereby forfeit elements of my body, mind and will to the ownership of _______ as a token of my submission.

2: I agree and understand that this will be enforced from the date of signing said contract for a period of three months, where on the completion of, my performance will be assessed and I may be offered a renewal of contract for a further six month period of engagement.

3: I agree and understand that upon signing; that, as property of _______, I am a member of and subject to the general rules and regulations of the House of ______, as well the overall authority of my Master and Mistress; Master _______, Mistress _______.

4: I agree and understand to be engaged to serve ______ in our personal lives, in predetermined kink events, kink related domestic and social activities, play parties, or on other special days that _______ requires my services as dictated them.

5: I agree and understand that I will display affection toward ______ as and whenever they see fit, according to their needs and desires.

6: I agree and understand that it is expected that if ______ wishes to partake in a recreational or social activity, and wishes for me to accompany him/her, that I will, wherever possible, do so, and endeavor to assist and serve as best as I can.

7: I agree and understand that as the property of _______, I no longer own my sexuality, or have right to sexual gratification. And that all sexual gratification whether by myself or with others, is a privilege granted by the grace and pleasure of my Owner. If I wish to seek self-sexual gratification, I must first gain approval and said approval shall last until it is revoked or suspended.

8: I agree and understand that ______ may at times call upon my body for use within BDSM scenes. That I am subject within my agreed boundaries for use as a play toy of my Owner. That this may include my Owner instructing me to engage in play with other submissives or allow other Dom/mes to use me within strict boundaries under the supervision of _______.

9: I agree and understand that _______ will always respect the use of the standard House safewords of Green, Yellow, Red and Blue.

10: I agree and understand that _________ will respect my hard boundaries as detailed in my Play Chart (Attachment A). I understand that I have the right to update and alter my Play Chart as I grow and change.

11: I agree and understand that _______ as my owner has a responsibility to guide me, train me, test me, and gently push my soft boundaries, in order that I may realize my full potential and develop into the best submissive possible.

12: I agree and understand that I am subject to chastisement, discipline, punishment, and retraining for any minor breaches of protocol, etiquette, or service according to what ______ sees fit.

13: I agree and understand that my only rewards for service are;
• The pleasure my service may bring to my Owner,
• The growth and development that my service may render me
• The compliments and encouragement that _______ may bestow upon me.
• The scenes that ________ may grant to me in order to assist me open my eyes or push my boundaries.
• The affection that ______ may give, only when it had been earned and is deserved.
• The sexual gratification that _______ may allow me to seek or participate in.

14: I agree and understand that I may be granted certain privileges depending on my performance and that these privileges may be suspended as a form of punishment as required. Such privileges may include, but are not restricted to:
• Play with other kink friends.
• Sessions with a predetermined vanilla or kink friend for the purpose of sexual intercourse.
• Sexual interaction with vanilla or kink friends.

15: I agree and understand that if I breach my contract in anyway deemed by _______ to be a serious offense; my Owner reserves the right to terminate my contract and release me from Service.

16: I agree and understand that I will not be given any request, instruction, order, or command by _______ or member of the House that would be illegal, unreasonably dangerous, cause permanent damage to my person or that of another, be harmful to my professional or vanilla life, cause embarrassment to my vanilla life of that of another, or irresponsibly expose minors to the BDSM lifestyle, culture, customs, or practices. And that if such a request, instruction, order, or command is given that it is my responsibility not to follow said order and to bring it to the attention of ______ or the Master of the House.
And that no discipline or punishment shall be inflicted as a result of my failure to comply with the unlawful instruction, nor shall it be deemed a lapse in service of breach of my contract.

17: I agree and understand that I shall be always attentive and thoughtful in my service, that I will be patient and be understanding that my Owner is not perfect, that the House of ______ is a family that is growing and changing, and that I must be prepared to grow and change with it. That I must always be loyal to my fellow house members and be accepting of other House member’s needs. And that I will always conduct myself in a manner that will bring honor to my House and pride to my Master.

19: I agree and understand that I will always strictly follow the contract, rules of the house, remain respectful of the position of Master ______ as Master of the House of ______ and Lady ______ as Lady and Alpha-Submissive, as they assist my Master in my growth.

20: I agree and understand and that the only excuse for absence or lack of reply would be the responsibilities owed to my religion, family, and profession, or unforeseen emergencies and sickness.

I Submissive ______,

I hereby agree to, and in sound mind, understand all the above.
I hereby surrender my will, mind, and body into the ownership of ________.
I hereby pledge my fealty to the House of _______, and its members as my brothers and sisters.
I hereby promise to carry out my service to the best of my ability; forsaking myself.

I hereby solemnly swear all these several points on my honor; for the duration of the contract or until terminated or released from Service by _______.

Signed Submissive __________: ________________________

Signed Master ________: _____________________________

Witnessed Master ________: ____________________________

Start Date:

End Date:

Attachment A: Play Chart.
Attachment B: House Rules.
Attachment C: Personal Protocols
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It is important to note that the Attachments to this contract are almost as important as the contract itself.

Attachment A is the play chart of the submissive and will provide a detailed outline of the soft and hard limits of the submissive.

Attachment B is the list of House Rules and detail expected and required behavior as a member of the House. It also detailed rights and responsibilities of members.

Attachment C is the protocols required of the submissive in the individual D/s relationship he or she is entering into. It will be individually compiled to the needs of the Master or Mistress and should contain details intended to better the submissive. It may contain things such as journal writing, exercise, housework, how the Dominant likes their drink, etc.

The original un-edited version of this writing used for House Cadifor can be found in the writings of @Master_James_ (Yes two underscores)


7/23/2017 6:55:03 PM

Our D/s Training Philosophy

Having led an evolving home that was at a minimum, lifestyle friendly since 2007 and having been born a Dominant (with a desire to learn, grow and formalize my instincts from an early age) I’ve set forth the following training philosophy for the Palazzo Del Mastro.

NOTE: We adhere to the slaves / submissive’s creed & bill of rights and practice "PRICK".

We operate our home according to P.R.I.C.K. (but with small twist - we add P. to the beginning making it Practical Personal Responsibility Informed Consensual Kink) which is essentially the longhand form of SSC (Safe, Sane, Consensual) with emphasis on personal responsibility to be informed (especially if choosing to be fluid bonded).

Many "kinksters" see our style as a little more on the "fluffy soft side" especially since our limitations avoid intense pain and complicated dungeon scenes as we prefer to focus more on the mental and sensual aspects of Power Exchange.

We prefer to focus more on the mental and sensual aspects of Power Exchange.

Our Limits:

We don't do or tolerate scat, blood, animals, drugs, children or extreme pain (we are NOT sadists). We are not into fire, needles or medical. We do not have a dungeon. In addition to making creative use of ordinary household items, we have plenty of fun toys and always looking to add to the collection.

We lean more toward the mental dominant / power-exchange side of things and lean away from elaborate, highly orchestrated "kinky activities/scenes" that require a huge investment of time (as in many hours) to coordinate to play out - but, we are pretty open to exploring a wide variety of scenes - especially making efficient use of those that are played out spontaneously.

We Are NOT Sadists:

It seems that today, the "popular" vogue has come to conclude that in order to be a "Dom" you have to tie up and whip your submissive for any perceived slight, control his/her every movement, thought and action and generally treat him/her as less than you.

That is not us.

Don't get us wrong. Ropes, handcuffs, flogs, paddles and other forms of discipline (or "pleasureful pain") have their use, but we are not sadists and find no satisfaction or joy in causing pain just for pain's sake.

We prefer a more mental, psychological and tender/sensual approach.

We believe that a steady hand, strong shoulder, patience, understanding, and guidance with a system of incentives and rewards through life's ups and downs have a bigger place than unbridled hard-core discipline, corporal punishment, and outright physical abuse.

Remember:

  • We are “low abuse / low impact” Masters.
  • We are not micro-managers
  • We take no pleasure in sadism.

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FOR FURTHER REFERENCE...

Submissive’s Creed:

https://bdsmfordummies.wordpress.com/2008/07/01/a-s…

http://www.experienceproject.com/stories/Lets-Discu…

Submissive's Bill Of Rights:

http://www.ladyanns.com/subbor.html

https://daddysnaughtylittlegirl.wordpress.com/2012/…

https://mastervbogus.blogspot.com/2013/01/the-slave…

Other resources:

https://bdsmfordummies.wordpress.com/2008/07/01/a-m…

http://www.asubmissivesjourney.com/submissive_or_sl…

http://friskybusinessboutique.com/news/blog/consent…

http://www.ladyanns.com/articles.html


7/23/2017 6:53:30 PM

General Guidelines for Submissive Conduct in the Palazzo Del Maestro


A well dedicated and well-trained Sub is a highly prized possession of any Owner.

They will be proud of their Sub and wish to show her off as often as possible. The Sub should take great pride in their service and wish to conduct themselves in such a way to reflect positively on his/her Owner. A poorly trained or misbehaved Sub does not only bring shame upon him/herself but also upon their Owner and the House as a whole.

The key to becoming a good Submissive is not based in how much pain you can endure or what kinky sexual services can provide. It is solidly rooted in dedication, attentiveness, humility, self-sacrifice, a deep desire to serve and an ongoing quest for self-improvement.

Positional Training

In order to train the Sub to respond instinctively to the commands of their Owner, the Trainer must instruct the Sub in a raft of positions that will bring pleasure to the Owner, both visually and practically.

Before going into any particular positions specifically, it is important to note that posture is incredibly important for a Sub. Good posture ensures that the Sub appears graceful and elegant, as well as displaying her assets in the best light possible. This is most important as the Sub must remember that those assets are not truly hers, but the property of her Owner and she is merely the custodian; therefore she must be mindful of presenting her owner's property well.

The following are some beginner positions that the novice Sub should endeavor to become proficient in as soon as possible. There are however several more advanced presents for a more extensively trained Sub. THEY CAN BE FOUND HERE

0: Neutral Position -

The first position is called the neutral submissive position and is achieved by the Sub kneeling on the floor, sitting back on her feet, with her palms resting mid way on her thighs, fingers together. Her spine should be straight, shoulders back, neck extended, chin ever so slightly up, and eyes lowered.

1: Standing Present –

The Standing Present calls for the submissive to stand with legs shoulder width apart, hands behind the back, each hand grasping the opposite forearm. This is used in private or in public lifestyle events as the default “attending” position.

2: Full Present –

The submissive kneels upright on both knees, not sitting on the heels. Knees are spread shoulder width apart, arms locked behind back, each hand clasping the opposite forearm; chest is held forward, wide and strong; head bowed with eyes down.

3: Standing Present High –

The Public Present uses the same overall posture as Standing Present, except that the hands are placed on top of the submissives head, with fingers interlaced.

4: Full Present High –

The submissive kneels upright on both knees, not sitting on the heels. Knees are spread shoulder width apart, the chest is held forward, wide and strong; head bowed with eyes down. Hands are placed on top of the submissives head, with fingers interlaced.

Protocol

• On Point

That is the submissive will maintain Standing Present position slightly behind Sir’s right shoulder. So long as Sir is standing, the submissive will remain standing in that physical location. The submissive will walk to the right and about one step behind her Owner.

• How to Present

By presenting, the submissive brings herself to her Owner’s awareness and waits for acknowledgment without disturbing whatever Sir is doing. If it is her Owner who enters a space where the submissive is engaged, the submissive stops whatever she was doing and assumes a Standing Present to indicate readiness to follow Sir’s direction. All are held without moving until the submissive is released by an order from the Master or Dom she is presenting.

• When to Present

The submissive is expected to present when the submissive comes into or leaves her Owner’s presence; thus, at any time when under social conditions a “Hello” or “Goodbye” would be appropriate. The submissive will present when she needs to ask a question of her Owner or receive additional instructions to complete an assigned task. When the submissive has completed all currently assigned tasks and awaits Sir’s pleasure, the submissive will present.

When another submissive presents in the same space, the submissive never merely stands by and watches, but joins in the process by taking the Present position and holds it while awaiting the Owner or Trainer’s order to “continue”. This rule underscores that all submissives are sisters and equals who support one another’s service in any way possible.

The complete presenting ritual is not required when Owner/Trainer or submissive comes and goes repeatedly in the course of normal household or other activities. However, if seated, the submissive will ordinarily stand whenever her Owner enters the space the submissive occupies and remains in Standing Present position until told to “sit” or “continue”.

• Waiting for Recognition

The submissive must continue with the presenting ritual until Sir recognizes the submissive’s presence by a word, look or gesture.

• Social Protocol

The submissive refers to Owner or Trainer as “Sir”, but has no other language restrictions. The submissive is free to speak and to ask questions without limitation. The submissive may walk next to her Owner and in all other ways appear to part of a “vanilla” couple. In a group setting, the submissive is released from having to maintain eye contact at all times.

• Low Protocol

Low protocol is used when out in lifestyle events. Walking and standing protocols are invoked. The submissive will not sit until her Owner has been seated. The submissive will remain in eye contact with her Owner and will ask permission to go somewhere out of eyesight. However, the submissive will not be required to stand “on point”.

• High Protocol

All formal protocols are invoked; most especially the language
and attending protocols. The submissive’s sole purpose is to attend to her Owner and make his/her life easier. The submissive is expected to remain highly alert to any logistical issue or problem that may need to be solved. The submissive will remain “on point” at all times, shadowing her Owner’s every move.

• Standing

Any time the submissive is in low or high protocol at a lifestyle event with her Owner, the submissive will assume the “on point” position. That is the submissive will maintain Public Present position slightly behind Sir’s right shoulder. So long as Sir is standing, the submissive will remain standing in that physical location. If Sir wishes the submissive to come around to a position facing him, he will either instruct the submissive to move into his range of vision or use silent hand signals to cause the submissive to change positions.

• Sitting

The submissive may sit on furniture unless high protocol is invoked, in which case the submissive will not sit on any furniture without a direct and specific order by Sir. However, if we are in a “kinky” setting and there are insufficient chairs for all the Doms or Masters, the submissive is to curl up at Sir’s feet.

• Walking

Any time the submissive is in low or high protocol at a lifestyle event with Sir, the submissive will walk in an “on point” position. That is the submissive will walk to the right and about one step behind Sir. The submissive is to assume a position that is natural, yet reflects our respective rank.

• Eating

Sir will seat the submissive at the table; under no circumstances will the submissive take a seat unless Sir has directed this action. Once Sir is seated, the submissive will wait until Sir removes his napkin and places it on his lap before doing the same. The submissive will not eat a morsel of food from any course of the meal until Sir has first taken a bite.

• Use of Furniture

When together with her Owner, either in homes or in private, the submissive is permitted to use furniture, unless directed not to. When attending an event in Protocol the submissive will not use furniture, unless specifically directed to do so.

• Doors and Elevators

The submissive will open doors and elevators then stand aside for her Owner to pass through; the submissive follows. In the case of elevators, the submissive will enter after all others and then press the elevator buttons for Sir, as needed. The submissive will remain in the elevator, holding the door until Sir has exited. In the case of door configurations where there is an outer and inner door, the submissive will open the first door to let Sir pass, then enter and, as Sir waits, open the second door. Should Sir be walking with another Dom or Master, her Owner will open the second door to let the guest enter, then turn the second door over to the submissive to hold while he enters. The submissive will then follow behind. Should a third person be present, the submissive will enter after Sir and turn any remaining door holding duties over to the third.

Words of Command;

Requests, Orders, and Instructions

The submissive will attend particularly to instructions. An instruction is a command that brooks no interference. An instruction usually carries with it a requirement to report progress to the Owner. Consequences for failure frequently accompany an instruction. This is not all true for a request and seldom true for an order. A consequence involves a correction, not a punishment. Punishments are only invoked for contract violations, not for protocol violations. Here are some examples of each form:

• Request: “Please bring me some water.”

• Order: “I’d like you to be dressed and ready to be picked up at 7pm tomorrow
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• Instruction: “This is an instruction: you are to keep the interior of your car as clean as it came off the showroom floor and the outside of your car is to be washed on a weekly basis. At no time will I enter your car if there is clutter in any of the passenger compartments.”

Willful or Negligent Failure to Comply

The rare instances where the submissive acts in a willful or negligent manner will result in punishment, up to and including release from service.

• No punishment will be undertaken when the Owner or Trainer is angry.
• Before administering punishment, the submissive will have the opportunity to fully explain how this failure occurred.
• Owner or Trainer will ask the submissive to recommend the form of punishment.
• Owner or Trainer will listen to the submissive’s proposal and after consideration, determine the correct course of punishment. The Owner or Trainer will inform the submissive of his/her decision.
• Owner or Trainer will use the minimum influence necessary to compel the submissive’s compliance with the policies and procedures the submissive previously agreed to.
• Bearing in mind that the Owner wishes the relationship to continue, there are no limits to the nature or extent of punishment that could be ordered as a result of the submissive’s act of willfulness or negligence, so long as no crime is committed.
• After punishment has been administered, the Owner/Trainer and sub will sit down and discuss changes that may be needed in the relationship to ensure that such a breach does not occur again.
• The incident that gave rise to the punishment will then be forgiven and not be spoken of again following the punishment debriefing. The slate is wiped clean.

This writing was largely borrowed from the House of Cadifor in South Wales, Australia. The original can be found here: https://fetlife.com/users/1815429/posts/1219279


7/23/2017 6:51:18 PM

Positional Training / Protocol Expectations

NOTE: The writing below is largely borrowed from the House of Cadifor in South Wales, Australia. The original can be found HERE

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The following are the prescribed Submissive Presentations used in the Palazzo Del Maestro and is intended to support the theory of submission, dominance, protocol, and power exchanged used within the House dynamic.

In order to train the Submissive to respond instinctively to the commands of their Owner, the Trainer must instruct the Submissive in a raft of positions that will bring pleasure to the Owner, both visually and practically.

Before going into any particular positions specifically, it is important to note that posture is incredibly important for a Submissive. Good posture ensures that the Submissive appears graceful and elegant, as well as displaying her assets in the best light possible. This is most important as the Submissive must remember that those assets are not truly hers, but the property of her Owner, and she is merely the custodian; therefore she must be mindful of presenting her owners property well.

0: Neutral Position -

The first position is taken straight from the Nadu position and here is called the neutral submissive position, and is achieved by the Sub kneeling on the floor, sitting back on her feet, knees splayed wide, with her hands resting mid way on her thighs, palms up, fingers together. Her spine should be straight, shoulders back, neck extended, chin ever so slightly up, and eyes lowered.
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This default position indicates the submissive is ready and waiting for a task, but is comfortable, beautiful, and relaxed.
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1: Standing Present –

The Standing Present calls for the submissive to stand with legs shoulder width apart, hands behind the back, each hand grasping the opposite forearm.
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This present is used in private or in public lifestyle events as the default “attending” or "on-point" position.
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2: Full Present –

The submissive kneels upright on both knees, not sitting on the heels. Knees are spread shoulder width apart, arms locked behind back, each hand clasping the opposite forearm; chest is held forward, wide and strong; head bowed with eyes down.
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This present is used if a submissive is beckoned by a seated Owner. It serves the same purpose as a Standing Present, but with the added bonus of lowering the submissive dramatically below the Owner. Likewise, it is also often used by the submissive while servicing an Owner orally.
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3: Standing Present High –

This Present uses the same overall posture as Standing Present, except that the hands are placed on top of the submissives head, with fingers interlaced.
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This present is used if the submissive is put on display, so her body may be inspected.
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4: Full Present High –

The submissive kneels upright on both knees, not sitting on the heels. Knees are spread shoulder width apart, the chest is held forward, wide and strong; head bowed with eyes down. Hands are placed on top of the submissives head, with fingers interlaced.
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This present allows for the same uses as the above present, with the added bonus of allowing the submissive to lower herself.
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5: Low Present –

The submissive kneels on both knees, not sitting on the heels. Knees are spread shoulder width apart, arms locked behind back, each hand clasping the opposite forearm. The chest is lowered until the breasts are resting on the ground. Head and eyes are facing away from the Master unless instructed otherwise. Big toes of each foot should be touching
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This presentation is intended to promote a sense of sexual servitude. The genitals of the submissive are perfectly displayed for play or use.
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6: Lying Present –

The submissive lays on her back, hands placed on top of her head, fingers interlaced, eyes looking at the ceiling. Thighs at a 90-degree angle to the torso, shins at a 90-degree angle to thighs. Knees spread greater than shoulder width, big toes of each foot touching.
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This present is designed to promote and demonstrate physical and mental self-discipline within the submissive. The position creates stress and muscle pain to the thighs of the submissive. It also makes reaching orgasm (while maintaining the position perfectly) extremely challenging.
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7: Prone Present –

The submissive lay on her stomach, knees shoulder width apart, grasps each ankle with the corresponding hand from each side and arches her back, so her shoulders and breasts are lifted off the ground. The neck is extended, head and eyes facing directly forward.
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This present promotes a sense of vulnerability to the submissive if the Owner wishes to use her mouth and throat.
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8: Inverted Present –

The submissive lays on her back, places her hands beneath her hips, elbows bent, in order to support her pelvis, and projects her lower body into the air so that her lower torso and legs are perfectly vertical; knees straight, feet together, toes pointed. Head and eyes are facing the ceiling.
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This present is designed to promote and demonstrate strength as well as beauty. The submissive may also be instructed to adopt this position if her Owner wishes to apply punishment to the legs or feet of the submissive.
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9: Inspection Present –

The submissive stands; feet shoulder width apart, knees straight, and bends over till she can grasp each ankle with the corresponding hand. Head and eyes face parallel to the ground, approximately 1-2ft in front of her feet.
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If the submissive's genitals are to be inspected, then she will adopt this position until her inspection is complete, or she is instructed otherwise. This position is adopted by the submissive on command, or when returning to/from a shower.
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10: Punishment Present –

The submissive kneels on all fours, resting on her elbows. Knees and elbows are shoulder width apart. Shins and forearms extend along the ground parallel, fingers and thumbs of each hand are together, toes are pointed rearward. Head and eyes face forward unless instructed otherwise.
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If the submissive requires physical discipline, then she may adopt this position. Thus presenting her hindquarters for punishment.
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11: Request Present -

The submissive stands as per the Standing Present, and extends her arms forward, slightly splayed, elbows bent, forearms parallel, and holds their hands out, palms facing upwards, and fingers together.
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If the submissive wishes to ask her owner something or draw his attention, then she will adopt this position and wait in the field of view of the Dominant until they are noticed and addressed.
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12: Service Present -

The submissive adopts the neutral position and raises her hands to shoulder level, palms up and out to the side.
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This Present says; I am trained and ready to serve. This is how a Submissive in the House of Cadifor would present herself to her Owner upon seeing him or her on the first occasion on an evening in a non-vanilla environment.
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The above positions need to be practiced until perfect, and each position can be achieved with perfect posture instinctively and without prompt or correction. Failure, forgetfulness, and lack of attention to detail must be punished, in order to ensure the Sub understands the importance of positional training.

The Sub should be able to achieve any position and hold it regardless of discipline, tickling, affection, or sexual gratification being applied.

Credit Note:

All above positional demonstrations are modeled by Lola_Fox and photographed by CreativelyKinky.


7/23/2017 6:47:13 PM

Slave/Submissive Service Decision & Priority Flow Chart

Priority #1

Does my Master/Dominant need or want anything?
Yes - Do it.
No - Go to priority #2
The needs of the Master/Dominant take precedence above all else. Your purpose isn't to make his/her life easier; it's to submit to his will and obey his commands. All of which may be part of a broader vision and another step along the path he/she is leading you down. It is NOT your job to keep asking if anything is needed. It's his/her job to communicate their needs to you or what is wanted of you.

Priority #2

Are there any commands or tasks set for the evening?
Yes - If there is no priority #1, do it.
No - Go to priority #3
You don't have to do everything. You need to do what was requested of you. It may be nice to anticipate needs, but those anticipations may not fit within his/her plan for the evening. If you find something you want to do for your Master/Mistress, ask if he/she would like it done. Then you are following their will instead of your own. Just remember to request to be excused to accomplish those commands/tasks.

Priority #3

Are there any protocols set for my readiness for use when not on task?
Yes - If there is no priority #1 or #2, do it.
No - Go to priority #4
The ideal slave is the one that is always ready to be of use to the Master/Dominant. Attentive to receive his/her will and prepared to give your mind, energy, effort, and body. This also means that the sub spends time taking care of their mind and body in order to be more effective in service. Healthy, competent, capable, financially stable and rested. Subs like this make an Owner proud!

Priority #4

Am I free to pursue my own desires if all other priorities are fulfilled?
Yes - If there are no priority #1-3, have fun.
No - See priority #3
Sometimes these desires are to wander around and play, while other times it may be to remain at the side of the Master/Dominant. At this point, you are free to follow whatever makes you most fulfilled/content.

NOTE

Some of these priorities, requests, tasks, or commands may require developing a new skill, growing out of your comfort zone, challenging your preconceptions or focusing on your own health, finances, or well being when not in direct service.

The original version of this writing comes from ChateauErotique


7/23/2017 6:44:33 PM

PLAY CHART

Copy and paste the below document into a Word Doc, Email, or Private Message and fill it out.

Instructions:
Mark in the Comments column as per the following

(G) = Green, Yes, Good, Love it
(A) = Amber, Maybe, unsure, interested, curious
(R) = Red, No, Hard limit/boundary, not interested, or at least not in this environment

Note: Be aware that although two separate things individually may be Green, they may however be a Red when combined. For example: a bottom may love blindfolds, and being ok with canes. But combined, these represented a Hard Red. In these cases, please mention it in notes.

NAME or SCENE NAME:

TYPES OF PLAY

• Impact Play

• Rope Play

• Degradation and/or Humiliation

• General S&M

• Sub Positional Training

• Sub Protocol Training

• Needle/Medical Play

• Wax Play

• Sex Slave Training

• Age Play

• Pet Play

• Breath Play

• Water (not urine) Play

• Other yes

• Other no

LEVEL OF DRESS FOR PLAY

• Clothed

• Underwear

• Bare bottom

• Nude

• Other

IMPLEMENTS FOR IMPACT PLAY

• Bare hand (H)

• Flogger (F)

• Leather strap (L)

• Riding Crop (R)

• Cane (C)

• Paddle (P)

• Everything (E)

• Other

BODY AREAS FOR IMPACT PLAY
Please comment by Implement (H,F,L,R,C,P,E) shown above in "Implements," as well as by Green, Amber, & Red,

• Bottom

• Back of Legs

• Front of legs

• Inner thigh

• Calves

• Tops of feet

• Soles of feet

• Lower Back

• Upper Back

• Abdomen

• Vagina/Penis

• Arms

• Palms

• Other

DEGRADATION AND HUMILIATION PLAY

• General Nudity

• Forced masturbation

• Self penetration - vaginal

• Self penetration - anal

• Light face slapping

• Heavy face slapping

• Spitting on body

• Spitting on face

• Spitting in mouth

• Urinating on body

• Urinating on face

• Urinating in mouth

• Light Choking

• Heavy Choking

• Choking till unconscious

• Use of underwear as gag

• Rubbing of genitals by Top (medical latex gloved)

• Penetration of mouth by fingers (medical latex gloved)

• Penetration of vagina by fingers (medical latex gloved)

• Penetration of anus by fingers (medical latex gloved)

• Writing of profanity on body

• Writing of profanity on face

• Other

USE OF DEGRADATION & HUMILIATION PROFANITY

• “Slut”

• “Whore”

• “Hooker”

• “Prostitute”

• “Slave”

• “Pussy”

• “Cunt”

• “Worthless”

• “Meaningless”

• “Hole”

• “Cock hole”

• “Cock holster”

• “Cum dump”

• “Receptacle”

• “Piece of shit”

• “Other Yes”

• “Other No”

USE OF EQUIPMENT AND PROPS

• Rope Gag

• Bit Gag

• Ball Gag

• Ring Gag

• Wrist restraints

• Ankle restraints

• Collar

• Leash

• Chains

• Pet water bowl

• Pet food bowl

• Light Rope bondage

• Heavy Rope bondage

• Spreader bars

• Blindfolds

• Cling wrap

• Butt plugs

• Hitachi Wand

• Anal hook

• Pussy hook

• Nipple clamps

• Pegs – body

• Pegs – genitals

• Peg zippers

• Stocks

• A-frame

• St Andrew’s Cross

• Cage

• Spanking bench

• Pommel horse

SEXUAL ACTS (Only if applicable)
-all sex related activities must make use of protection

• Forced kissing on Male

• Forced kissing on Female

• Forced oral on Male

• Forced oral on Female

• Receiving oral from Male

• Receiving oral from Female

• Vaginal penetration by Male

• Vaginal penetration by Female

• Anal penetration by Male

• Anal penetration by Female

• Double penetration

• Ejaculation on body

• Ejaculation on face

• Ejaculation in mouth

• Swallowing

• Other Yes

• Other No

MEDICAL HISTORY. -please fill out if you are willing and comfortable

• Allergies

• Joint Injuries

• Nerve damage

• Circulation problems

• Respiratory difficulties or conditions

• Back or spinal Injuries

• Heart problems

• High or Low Blood Pressure

• Diabetes

• Unexplained loss of consciousness

• Hearing difficulties

• Mild phobias

• Severe phobias

• Other

TRIGGERS

Trigger Words
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Trigger scenarios
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Other Triggers
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AFTERCARE
After Care requirement: List as desired

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PHOTOS AND VIDEO
a) Photos Only
b) Video Only
c) Open to Both

Sharing (choose one)
a) Stay private between you and myself
b) Want them in the world of FL/CS
c) Want to be displayed for the whole world to see on various websites.

Anonymity (choose one)
a) Want to show your beautiful face
b) Or remain anonymous (pixelation, blurring, or cropping out your face)





The original "Play Table" can be found at the House Califor, written by Master_James_.

See Also these helpful one-page diagrams:
For Males - https://fetlife.com/users/6327432/pictures/58041149…


For Females - https://fetlife.com/users/6327432/pictures/58041139…


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