This is a joint account. We are a D/s couple in the VA/DC area. We are not a Dom/Domme couple.
He is an active 50 year old male, professional by day and a strong Dom at night (or when he decides). His interests include light bondage, spanking, clamping, sex toys, obedience, foot worship, humiliation and degradation. He is a man of honor who strives to give respect as well as the perfect amount of discipline, with a sadistic streak. While he is nurturing and affectionate, he is not a Daddy Dom and has no desire to be.
She is an active 40 year old female (heteroflexible sapiosexual) who is quite devoted to her Dom. She is not a Domme and she is not your Mommy, and has no interest in following that dynamic.
He is looking for a female who is intelligent and loving, legal drinking age is required and over 35 seems to have more in common. Someone who can enjoy wine, movies and good food, as well as the desire to serve. If you cannot communicate clearly we are probably not what you are looking for. If you cannot clearly state your needs, we are definitely not what you are looking for.
This lifestyle is about trust, patience and understanding. Please and thank you are so very important. What we offer is warmth, companionship, friendship and exploration. We are not looking for someone to complete us; we are already complete. If you are looking for a strictly sexual relationship, we are not what you seek. While sex is an important part of a relationship, it is NOT the relationship. We will start as vanilla friends and if we determine the connection is there, and we all agree, we will move towards a kink dynamic. It will be slow.
We require this person to be able to function fully in social settings, vanilla and kink. Our home is not capable of the fantasy of 24 hour sexual slavery. We don't have time for that, between busy jobs, family, kids, more family, and friends. This is not to say we do not have times for kink, its just something that must be handled responsibly.