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Nitrev

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Young professional recently moved to Florida. Your typical stable job, "safe" guy with ambitious goals, a penchant for alt/e-girl aesthetics, bondage, cosplays, and fetishwear, and hanging out with bad bitches, and has a streak as an unapologetically kink-centered deviant.

BDSM is really the gateway, the thing that makes everything else possible. The service oriented aspects and the fun. The kind of power dynamic that promotes the division of life's labors to elevate the household to fiscal freedom and relief of stresses of everyday life that enable us to focus the rest of our lives on fun, body/health, travel, kink, friends and family, and each other. That's the kind of life I want to build eventually, and it is through BDSM that it really becomes possible. To have the trust as Dom over the household and the assistance of sub(s) in labor to achieve these goals, to have extra brains to put to use learning skills that service the overall household, then to have the mutual interests in kink to enjoy that play together. Someone to take to classes and practice with, someone to dress cute and slutty everyday as we want it, and to share in a variety of kinds of play from the typical to the more fluid, dynamic, or even extremes. Of course even the extremes must be tempered: limits and consent are always to be respected, and controlling the environment always include a focus to never present any actual danger or permanent harm to anyone.

I am not fully certain what final form this household takes, and it would take the right kind of people between me and someone(s) dedicated to their role, selfless and serving, but I am open and excited to see what comes of it. I am open to the idea of an "all-in-one" slave that together we can do it all and have this dynamic. I'm also open to having a slave serving a couple to better divide the time and labor. I'm open to discussing other ideas, mono or poly, just as long as it meets the goals sooner than later, and everyone is on the same page, I won't really sweat the details on how we got there.

I have been in this lifestyle since experimenting with self bondage at the age of 13, so nearly two decades. I enjoyed both aspects of it and that pretty much molded my entire lifestyle view. In that time, I have self explored, engaged in kink relationships, play, munches, and community events, and networked with all manners of kinksters my age and mature, domme and submissive, to build my experiences and skills, and I am finally ready and able to pursue creating my ideal lifestyle.

I am an absolute fiend for bondage, cnc, and primal, and I would like to find a partner to work on my rigging with.

I can discuss relocation, so don't be concerned about distance in reaching out. We would do sfw/casual videocalls, just talk, move to some protocols, plan visits, etc. I would not ask you to make a near permanent decision like moving until you felt like it really is what you wanted.

So if you're interested, feel free to reach out, make your interests known, and yourself visible, and we'll talk.

*I may consider the right female partner if they are from another country, but I will only consider males slaves that are US citizens or can become US citizens. I cannot sponsor you with the nature of my telework job*

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5/11/2022 2:29:11 AM

Good time for an update.

I have a house. I closed on it January 28. I finally have the space to build my ideal lifestyle dynamic. Just been setting up each bit my bit. Next is to find play partner and/or slaves, and work on my body and self image goals. Maybe we fuck around and become a social media personality/power couple


3/6/2022 7:50:39 PM

Wanting to bottom does not make you a submissive. It is important that you understand that. Those who claim to be submissive but attempt to drive the conversation with their ideals on how they want to be dominated are not being submissive, they are being an unruly bottom.

A submissive is a rare and coveted person. It is someone who lives for the sake of another person, in their service, with the nature and degree of that submission, in its totality, being the difference between a submissive and a slave. It is not something just anyone can do. Most live for their own desires.

The difference between a submissive and a mere bottom is night and day, and as it pertains to me, if I sense that your desires are self-serving first, you will be swiftly called out and dismissed.


11/26/2017 11:33:33 AM
There doesn't seem to be much to do here, so I'm probably just gonna go inactive for a time

2/8/2015 3:53:23 AM
Back again! Finally found the new site after Cm went down

1/15/2014 3:10:53 AM

DO NOTE: If the first thing you do is ask me to spend money, and our relationship is online, I will immediately assume it's a scam, and I WILL. NOT. reply unless you tell me that you acknowledge this. I do not trust financial domination and online romance. If you can not respect this, then you do  not respect that I must do what I can to protect myself, indentity and information.

As a seasoned switch with years of experience as a dominant, I issue this challenge to test others' dominance. See, dominants do not sit idly by on what they want; dominants take what they want regardless of what anyone else thinks. You may consider this statement as my full consent to be taken if you so desire. All you'll have to do is come and get what it is that you want. So no more idle banter and mind games. If you want something, go out and get it

 

 

 

Okay! As of 6/3/2015, no more public photos. Sorry, but one person ruined it for everyone


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 Age: 22
  Washington