I just received a fascinating email from someone here on CM
and I would like to share it w/ everyone as it was as cogent as anything that I have ever received.
Rather interesting profile to read. I've enjoyed the forum links thanks for posting in your journal. Just curious do you get many inquiries, I'm sure cuckolding would have a dramatic effect on a relationship. More positive than negative experiences or vice versa?
What's your perspective on why so many men are willing to give up control? Is it inbuilt, hard wired into submissive men? or something men are acquiring through societal changes and the loss of a clear sexual roles?
and my reply.
such insightful and cogent questions from one so young!! when I get a note like this I have to respond posthaste.
I get MANY inquiries and usually at any one time I am chatting w/ a few either cucks or cuckoldresses or wannbes.
and yes, the effects on a marriage or relationship ARE dramatic, lifechanging and largely irreversible but my take is that by and large even the most stringent female led relationships register as positive experiences, though for the life of me, as an Alpha male and a testosterone based life form, I can't imagine the emotional and psychological toll nor the humiliation or denial involved being pleasurable in the least. but my experience tells me that some significant portion of males seek some variation on 'cuckolding'.
but that's why I am a Bull.
in regards to WHY so many men seem to be ready to surrender control, I don't think that it is hard wired though, some of it must be, especially in the most extreme cuckolds: my opinion is that it is largely societal and can be explained, at least in part, by the loss of clear sexual roles.
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