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PowerXXXchange

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You will NOT find a list here of what I dont like, cant stand, find stupid or multiple conditions you must meet before contacting me. However, I do understand that there are a few interesting people who may need to heal. just a bit, so it is just fine if you have to express yourself however you chose. After all, Im not here looking for vanilla.



I am by nature a loving Dominant. I believe in a clear differentiation of roles between my self and my partner. I listen carefully. While Im not perfect, ultimately I make the major decisions guided by my partners wishes. I, in turn, guide her as to how best to satisfy my personal desires, rewarding her submission generously with expressed appreciation, a cooperative spirit, joy, personal growth, safety, and emotional security,... kinda.



Feel free to drop me a line if you care to chat. I value real life and real conversation over fantasy. (And I Llaugh at Sspelling fetishes)

Message me if you are here looking toshare insights and experiences -especially on the exchange of power and responsibility that occurs between consenting adults -with articulate and sensitive individuals and couples. I pledge respect, honesty and the utmostdiscretion.



I am by nature a leader, which evolves from a desire to safeguard my partner and friends, and see them prosper. Unfortunately, I am still looking for someone to say that I am easy to please.



This loving dominant approach is neither purely top or bottom Id say it is more like being humanly engaged in responsible control. In the final analysis, I know what I want and one part of that is the feeling of honestly giving my partner the experience she needs.



Would love to find someone who understands this Taoist-ish dialog.



Oh... and the pic - I sail a compact but sturdy sloop New Englands coastal waters.... and love it!



And BONUS! Those who say hi will win a candid photo of my most profound Domliness.

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4/21/2012 7:51:07 AM
Are Dominance and submission the true mode of all relationships? Which ones don't have the two parties in differentiated roles?

4/16/2012 9:28:46 AM


On Sailing...

My reasons for sailing are probably better understood by people here than most other forums...

 I sail for relaxation, doing something that in the wrong hands can be nasty and sometimes fatal.

 I enjoy the beauty of being away from politically correct rule-makers, knowing I am absolutely accountable for my and my passenger's safety and enjoyment. Out there, there is no Mom, no OSHA, no workman's compensation program. There is only my checklist of 20 perils and for each - two preventions and four alternative methods of safe recovery.

 I enjoy knowing my limits and staying well within them. I have and will cancel a trip if I am not 100% sure of it's safety margin.

 There is a curve to the sail, a shape like a bird, or a girl.... that is its own perfect shape, not yours, that you learn to love, and with time you know instinctively.

 You learn the grace of a softly spoken command carried out with competence and near perfect timing. When all are proud of that accomplishment knowing the command is not in service of the ego of the captain, but for the awesome majesty of teamwork.

 You learn to take ice water in the face, a rope burn, a bruise with a shrug, knowing you will find pleasure in reflection over a cup of rum at sundown.

 In 14 years no trip has been the same. Each presents a new test and a new wonder.

 


6/3/2011 11:41:58 AM

I see plenty of people here looking for relationships 24/7... Isn't that a bit much?  I'm only good for 20/5 really. I need my rest and a few days off a week!  Hell I probably only like MYSELF 16/4, let alone a real woman!


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 Age: 26
  New York