Everything that is done, is an investment of some sort. This means every action, every decision, every thought, all require some sort of sacrifice. Not only does this investment involve a great amount of time, trust, and energy, but also a commitment of emotions. This is what makes us all human. From the Dominus, to the servus and cinaede.
How do we know whom is worthy of such an investment? It is not something that is blatantly apparent from the first communique, nor is it something that can be discovered within a few days or weeks, or even months.
Only by putting ourselves at risk, and taking a chance when we otherwise would not, do we gain the opportunity to ignite something wonderful. But only as long as those involved commit to the effort. Otherwise, everything would simply fizzle, leaving only questions in its wake. |