Welcome, and thanks for stopping by ... if you're actually a female sub/slave looking for a straight male partner!
Edit Nov 11, 2017 -- The site seems to be constantly on the edge of meltdown. So, if you are trying to reach me but it's not working -- and don't mind bypassing CS -- I can be reached at gmail, id sevadominant. However, I'm not leaving here (unless/until I find a partner, of course); I'll continue to respond here to messages I receive here.
There’s a lot in this profile, but here’s a TL;DR –
If you are a not-fat female in the US who likes the idea of an overall loving normal relationship overlaid on top of a 24/7 M/s one in which we engage in a wide variety of BDSM, I control what you wear (and other things), and you spend quite a lot of time bound for kinky sex (for example, handcuffed on your knees with my dick down your throat and/or enjoying forced and unforced orgasms), we’ll likely get along great. If that doesn’t sound like your idea of a fun time, we’re likely not a match.
Please read on!
(Scammers, don't waste your time ... because that is the most you'll get from me -- time.)
Although the narrator in this is far more expressive and creative than I am, I am with him 100%: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HhGuXCuDb1U&index=1&list=FLadGDQCOBwV3M7_VaO1lxkw
I seek a consensual slave, lover, sex object/cum slut/masochist, friend, companion, partner, and significant other--someone to share life with, to care for, learn to love, and own. Are these mutually exclusive? I don't think so! I highly value intelligence and independent thought in a partner. I lean toward nihilism at the macro (societal) -- but not micro (personal) -- level.
I'm also a dom. If I'm fortunate enough to find someone who wants me as their master, then I may also be that. I have been in the past. I exercise. I am quite controlling, although not domineering (and yes, there is a difference). The "50's household" and "lifestyle BDSM" items fit well.
I have, for my age, a very active libido. Giving my partner pleasure pleases me no end; a helplessly orgasming woman is incredibly erotic.
I love everything about oral sex -- giving it, receiving it, face-fucking, deep throat, coming down my partner's throat, combining giving it with vibrators, combining receiving with bondage of my partner.
Regarding limits: I honor them, of course. Limits need to be a key part of our pre-meeting conversations in order to determine whether or not ours are compatible. My hard limits are no kids, animals, scat, permanents marks, or anything reasonably likely to put either of us in the hospital, jail, or the morgue.
So long as you're legal, age per se is not an issue -- but your mind, your face, and your body all need to attract me at least somewhat. I'm good with the "grow old together" thing -- but the initial attraction needs to be there, or I can't form that initial bond that makes the "growing old together" a good thing rather than painful. That means visuals (x-rated not necessary) and meetings early on. That goes both ways, of course -- "What's good for the goose ..."
If you're not already legally living long-term in the U.S. (or have the ability to do so -- that means either being a US citizen or already having a 'green card'), I'm not interested; nor am I interested unless you're willing to seriously consider relocating to me here in southeastern Virginia.
Other dealbreakers include STDs; dishonesty; stupidity; addiction to 'woo' (including but not limited to religion or 'spirituality'); obesity; illegal drug use or excessive drinking; children at home; and smoking (of anything) anywhere other than outside. I do have a cat allergy, although that could be addressed over time if need be.
While I'm not a hardcore gamer (i.e., real-life relationships and activities are far more important to me), I do play computer games -- and have a bunch of 'em. It would be good if you also like gaming, although your not doing so is not a deal killer.
(My photo was taken in January 2016. I'll be happy to take/provide others if need be.)
If you've gotten this far without bailing, thanks for the effort! -- and I very much look forward to chatting with you! I do contact women here I think might click with me. But if you've read to here and would like to chat, please do email me here. I'm friendly ...
***** No cyber or phone sex. Cams are great (and I have a good one) -- but for seeing the other person while chatting, not for remote play. Skype first to verify, then a variety of contact measures (text, phone, whatever), then meet. No particular schedule, but days/weeks, not months/years. *****
***** Note: I take seriously and agree with the site's excellent recommendation not to send money to someone you've not met in person. If you're a scammer, don't waste your time; it isn't going to happen. If you're not, understand that if we agree that I reimburse you some or all of your travel expenses, it will happen when I see you, not in advance. *****