Am I the only one who thinks that in a D/s relationship the emphasis should be on how awesome the "D" is, not what a loser the "s" is? Why would you want to own or even Domme someone you thought poorly of? Not that degradation isn't erotic, but there's still a fine line between degrading to illustrate your position vs just because you think the sub is a piece of shit. Maybe it's just me - to each their own I suppose! |