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Power turns me on. If you don't own multiple suits in your closet, can't pair a wine with a meal, or have a job that dosen't change the world, please don't waste our time. My journey has matched me with successful men who know how to spoil and take care of their property. I'm not interested in the average guy, I just broke up with one. |
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They deleted some of my most brilliant posts because DenDomDouche decided to whine about me posting his number because he was a disrespectful and couldn't take what he dished out. They'll delete posts but not duplicate accounts run by bots and fakes...makes perfect sense! |
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My most favorite is getting messages calling me a brat ,from 20 year olds whose pre-frontal cortex haven't developed yet. This is the equivalent to a 2 year old calling an adult stupid. Grow up little grasshopers, and develop some respect, there's a reason ppl don't take you seriously....
In the meantime , best keep your big scary , judgemental dommie avatar on Half Life. |
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I think there is a crack in the wall i've spent most of my life building. In this moment, i'm panicking and struggling to fix it, but i can't seem to understand where it's coming from or know where to start. I suspect it has to do with the way your world haphazardly collided into mine. If only briefly, you infected my safe, and i'm left here hoping that it's all just temporary.
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Lucky 7 years, I'v been trolling this site, grateful for the opportunity to connect with many opportunities to explore the spirals of my sexuality. ?I'v since been owned 3 times; a Daddy, a Switch and a Soul Mate. ?I'v become addicted to porn, voyeurism and begging. ?Kneeling, giving head and crawling perfectly, walking on the left side , and asking permission to cum have all since become automatic.?
So, today I am thankful for all the men and experiences I'v met since I've started this journey, and all the crazy MOFO's I'v miraculously managed to avoid so far.... |
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“If my Master is lost, I'll find him. I'll lead him back to himself, because to serve doesn't always mean to follow.” Joey W. Hill
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I'm just not interested in being alone anymore . |
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Turns out all the kinky people in Denver are on Match.
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"The ground submits to the sky and suffers whatever comes. Tell me, is the Earth worse for giving in like that?" - Rumi This quote is significant to me because it implies the natural order of relationships between all things. Great find Scorpius, thank you. |
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Kittens should be tamed, not controlled. . . .*miu* |
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How and why do all the prudes get all the good ones? |
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Sex in expensive cars *purrs* |
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Today, I miss the smell of fresh leather, the weight of the cold silver buckle at my spine, the soft jingle of a hoop dancing on its D-ring. Today, I miss wearing a collar. Ou êtes-vous? |
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I could think of 7 things I'd rather be doing with my precious free time than meet a stranger from out of town that I'll never see again because they're passing through. Please stop asking, I don't want to talk about the lifestyle with you. I'm looking for local RESIDENTS only for a long term relationship. |
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I should have a bunny tail plugged in and be cuddling on Masters lap like the perfect little naughty snow bunny I am.... *sigh* |
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The feeling when you're playing snakes and ladders , land on a snake and end up on square one, again. |
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I know how "skilled" you are by the caliber of your questions, just sayin'.... |
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Reiteration:
You:
Must be living in Denver or surrounding area.
- Single (not married, not unhappily married, not in a poly)
- Must be naturally Dominant , confident and strong.
- Professional (educated, successful business like men are my favorite)
Me:
- Slippery fish to catch; but mount well once caught :)
- Independent when I need to be
- Has a career I need and LOVE
- Educated, I have a Masters degree
- Loves sex with commitment only, hence:disease, kid and preion free
- Looking to submit to only one person
Into:
Obedience training, collars, leashes, dressing up, ball gags, forced orgasm, forced lesbianism, power exchange, protocols, ification, shibari, porn, mind fucks, leather cuffs and padlocks, ownership, cuddling, Dominance to name the big ones.
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I would rather date a vanilla man than date long distance. If I wanted to read about all the naughty things you want to do to me I'd read the "Story of O" without the effort of having to cam and all the other nonsense that comes from being in a LDR.
Thanks. |
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I've been dating vanilla men for the first time in 5 or so years. I find myself feeling perverted for what what my date considers kinky. In the same linked thought, I consider myself grateful for the vast experiences I'v absorbed in the past few years. I am proud of my sexual development and eager to explore more of my sexual identity but feel like this may require too much envelope pushing with a vanilla man.
I'm in flux. Oscillating between my happily ever after vs. my naughty ever after. Could I be so lucky to find a naturally Dominant man and somehow transform his lens on his own sexuality? Is the sacrifice worth the cure for my loneliness?
and to lighten up the mood my most recent crush:
"IM THE MASTER, UR MY SLAVE. OR ARE YOU A RACIST TOO."
He must be serious, notice the caps. |
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I've been on here so long the same cycle of people are forgetting they've emailed me , 6 months ago... Grr..Colorado, grrr. |
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Went on my first vanilla date since my first entry five or so years ago. I felt like such an imposter. My feather was much too twisted for his straight arrow. If I could iron out my kink I'd have my happily ever after with fine fellows like Mr. Target. How cruel is l'amour? |
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I give up.
"Do ya haf other pics? I want your ass and pussy I'll eat it!!! Chica show me more* please, please me I live for soccer too and I die for ass.... How are ya? (650)
xxx-xxxx" |
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My need to submit is stronger than my will to not settle :(
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How lucky am i? everyday?
"I will ass fuck you everyday ... ram fucking my dick in u ... listening to you grunt fuck me ... u making ur asshole suck the cum outta my balls ... everyday .... as many times as u can take ur asshole getting hammered ... everyday and then I will make u fuck my 2 rotties .. jake and Bronson ... your 2 new best friends"
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Kinky,powerful ,intelligent, successful and confident men are my biggest turn on. Aggressive , mean, impatient ,insecure and small cocks are not. I don't respond well to assholes, douches, bad spellers and presumptuous people. Thanks for this discovery and meaningful lesson CM world. |
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I know you want what's on my mind. |
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Anyone can slip a collar around your neck. Only a Master can lock it. Yes. That's a double entendre. |
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Oscillating. I've been hiding from the big bad wolf and have returned to prance the wicked woods once again. |
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5.22.13
I have escaped my own bondage. I am ready. My future is refreshing. I am happy. |
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As a non-bot, I receive a few messages. I cannot allocate enough time in my day to respond to everyone. It IS safe to say, if you haven't received a reply, I did not find your profile, correspondence or connection deep enough to pursue a next step. (nothing personal)
This being said, I'd like to thank you in advance for your interest and hope that your search becomes shorter than mine.
Salut. |
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Before you click that send button with your clever message:
I do not want children.
I'm educated and have a career you should too.
If girls avoid you or you avoid them in real time, please move on.
I'm not an extremist. |
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How I missed the class of people on here.... *sigh*
Karma...you can stop, I've learned my lesson. |
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The messages in my the bulk section are much much much more interesting than the ones in my message box. This site really is changing ... |
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Je suis retournée après un long séjour... de nouveau. :( |
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I just discovered the bulk mail button...27 pages later. |
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The most beautiful things to me always seem to be out of reach. The perfect apple is always a little too high, the key just a hairs width out of reach, the answers always whispered on a windy day. It seems every compatible person is out of reach and my frustration boils away into negativity as a result. My life seems to be riddled in irony and its made me cynical, weary and discouraged. This has been a long journey and i often wonder if the scenic route is worth it.
Maybe i'm looking for the impossible, maybe i should settle for less. It seems that everything i put any effort into only contributes to a loss of time. I need to find another focus and be more patient... |
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- Don't expect me to have the energy to fellate your ego by telling you what types of kinky things you (inexplicably) believe I want to explore with you.
- Don't ask me to rhyme off some kind of fetish list for your amusement, especially not before you take any interest in the rest of my personality.
- I use ym. I'll invite you to chat if I want to chat with you. I don't want to cam with you.
It's fantastic getting attitude from you "men" out there, specifically when you realize you should have read this piece of my profile before messaging me...please get stabbed. Repeatedly.
I'm struggling to understand why said people can't just google bdsm literature and get off that way. Why must I be the middle man ? I'm looking for richer conversations, if you can't hack it, may i suggest you move on to newbies who are very much looking to hold this type of uninspiring conversation.
If you're wondering what my kinks are it starts with the brain. If you're intelligent I will flock to your presence. A simple mind is beautiful but not for me...
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It looks like it's going to be a cold, lonely winter :( |
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Too far, too old, too married, too submissive, too switchy, too quiet, too uncompatible, too crazy, too family man, too cocky,too unattractive , too mean, too needy, too picky, too not findeable :( |
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Where are all the good looking, mid thirty, professional LOCAL Doms @ ? Love Denver but the pickings are super slim :( |
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Thank you for reading my profile!! |
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You:
Must be living in Denver or surrounding area.
- Disease free
- Single
- Intelligent
- Loyal
- Patient
- Honest
- Experienced
- Between the age of 28-45
- Must LOVE nature
- Not be bisexual
- Must be Dominant , confident and strong.
- Professional?
- Want a?commitment
- Not have cats
?Me:
- Slippery fish to catch; but mount well once caught :)
- Independent when I need to be
- Has a?career?I need and LOVE?
- Loves sex with commitment only, hence:disease, kid and prescription free
- Bisexual
- Looking to submit to only one person
- Picky
- Needs forever
?Into:
Obedience training, collars, leashes, dressing up, ball gags, forced orgasm, forced lesbianism, power exchange, protocols, objectification, shibari, porn, mind fucks, leather cuffs and padlocks, ownership, cuddling, Dominance to name the big ones. ?? |
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Wishes I could expand my dating pool and be vanilla :( |
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I have a HUGE bias of men who wear wolf t shirts.. Just sayin' |
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Getting so much better at screening , deleting and letting go of people :). I am happier today than I have been in a long while. Life is good! |
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Couples are greedy. What I wouldn't do, to find one compatible local Dom. Why can't you couple people be happy with who you have, and appreciate what I'm spending so much time and energy finding , grr. |
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Being a Dom should not be confused with being a rapist. You should reconsider your approach and your success rate if this is you...you're creepy! |
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After a long hiatus, I am back. I am amazed and a little saddened by the same people that were here 3 years ago..Although I am not actively looking for a relationship, I am here to mend a broken heart and see if I can somehow get my mojo back. I have met all of my Dominants via CM and thought I would see who is out there. |
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**UPDATE** said photographer never returned copies of the shoot and made wrong on our agreement. Beware of this fraudulent man!!
Darkmatterzone is a talented scamming douche. |
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this site:
- tries and strengthens my patience
- wastes my time in owning a t.v kind of way
- makes it difficult not to judge
- is entertaining
- has potential
- is an excellent literacy detector
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Being fiercely independent and submissive are not the same. My submissiveness does not equal me wanting a sugar daddy. I do not want to be taken care of financially but rather psychologically and emotionally. My independence does not make me less of a slave but makes me an intelligent and efficient one. I will worship the ground you walk on but will never BE the ground you walk on. This distinction is something that needs to be understood before you message me.
"“The more you lose yourself in something bigger than yourself, the more energy you will have.”Norman Vincent Peale |
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why is everyone's name on this site: "john" or "jon" ? |
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I want to hear from people who have contemplated joining the vanilla side... I had a great conversation with a friend who thought his chances of meeting a fellow vanilla and converting them would be better than this site...
Also, anyone has tried Hypnotic therapy to set them "right" sexually ? |
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My skeletons have escaped my closet.... or maybe I have let them run rampant. Regardless, I stare at a now empty space, tired and worn out.... |
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I am a slave for those who can bring it out of me, a sub for those who cannot. |
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Great insights were given to the question posed earlier this week. I appreciate and thank everyone for responding and contributing to my expansion and reason to be more open minded. |
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Why do married men on this site stay with vanilla wives ?
This question, has offended a great number of passerby's . This question was not intended to disrespect (a whole diff. topic altogether).
Merely, because i think i have known all along that i could never settle for vanilla which perhaps attributes to my never been married, childless and almost 30 lifestyle... ?
I feel sad for the married men out there who are "stuck" , unhappy, seeking and hoping that a one night stand will satisfy the hunger....
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Happy dress your slave in a playboy bunny costume day! |
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**if you notice the kitty in the pic, you may be gay...**
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I want 24/7 with exceptions made to my family and career. I will not submit to you because you claim to be a Sir.? Respect in any-form of relationship is as critical as trust.
I am new and extremely inexperienced, patient and geographically accessible Dom's only will be seriously considered.
Also, I am noticing that page 1 of my journal has been omitted as many replies are coming from much older men.? As I do appreciate the consideration, I hate to waste people?s time as I expect the same courtesy? For the sake of reiteration;?
-*new* not interested in any animal or child participation. ? (evidently not a "given"..)
- mass messaging. i'm not interested in one liners, i can go to my local "meat market" bar for those...?
-i have zero desire to "carry your seed" .. ?
-profane language and addressing me like i belong to you.. you are not my sir, master or even trainer so get stabbed if this is you.
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-i have no desire in joining a poly household, other women or your basement.?
-fakes: i refuse to be a notch on your belt. if your intentions are to get laid, you are absolutely exploring the wrong profile. ?
- i can't stress enough how important the age thing is, as, I do have family who I will have to introduce you to at some point....Bringing home a guy who is my dad's age... call me crazy... may create complications and unwanted drama. Being that I pride myself of being absent of kids, prescriptions and drama, Ill have to biff the possibility of being collared by someone who is over 40.
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I wish I may, I wish I might, have this wish I wish tonight....
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Use your imagination not to scare yourself to death but to inspire yourself to life. -Adele Brookman-
happiness inspires me, being understood makes me happy.
i envy all of you who have a dancing partner. The ultimate goal is indeed to learn to Tango is it not?
Hence, i am happy to report that the lessons are progressing and have been worth every cent in experience alone..
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I want to be courted.
"A submissive does not equal a easy lay. A submissive must be amongst the
most chaste individuals because her submission is a gift - not given
easily to any takers but to that one person who ignites the spark in
her very soul."
-Havoc-
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Sometimes I wonder if this is just a really cruel joke.
If this is Karma ..why does it feel like i'm being punished not rewarded?
Happiness becomes dependent on other people, giving them ultimate power to ruin a perfectly good day.
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"Choose silence of all virtues, for by it you hear other men's imperfections, and conceal your own. " ~GBS
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Happy Singles Awareness Day!!!!
At least you didn't have to buy anything for anyone :)
Being single makes V-Day simple.
To those who have found each other, the best of wishes and for all the searchers, bless your little hearts
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I wish i could have written this , as this is the symbiotic relationship that I seek with all of my heart and soul
Understanding what Submissive means
author unknown
To understand the power of submission, one must first understand what being a submissive means, where it comes from and how it is expressed.
True submission is something that comes from deep within a person and is an essential part of their nature. It is something expressed from the soul and as such, it goes much deeper than the mere physical/sexual act of offering oneself to a Master for pleasure. A person can behave in a submissive manner but this is not the same as being "a submissive".
To offer oneself completely and utterly to another, to surrender all choice and "power" requires an exceptional inner strength. High self esteem and a knowledge that in order to relinquish power to another as well as understanding that one must possess that inner power is essential.
Embracing and expressing my submissive nature has given me the most powerful opportunities to find the deepest levels of trust, power and the intimacy that can only arise from the bond of a Master and sub. It is the ultimate expression of balance, the archetypal opposition of yin (the receptive principal) and yang (the active principle). Both sides being perfectly equal, yet forming a perfect whole.
As a submissive, my goals are to come before my Master as an empty chalice to be filled.....or a blank canvas to be painted....formless clay waiting to be molded. Thru this exchange, i know that i will become more than i was before....the Master takes the raw material, or the blank canvas or the raw gemstone and brings out the inner lustre. In this experience, what many misinterpret is that they assume the Master imposes his will upon the sub and she becomes whatever he wants her to be. i would disagree....to me, the Master brings out the qualities of submission in a more pronounced way. Rather than being told to "act" in a submissive way, it is the submissive's role to remove veil after veil until who she becomes is the perfect reflection of devoted service and in serving her Master, she finds an inner joy and balance that comes from knowing that with each veil removed, each boundary crossed, she becomes MORE of who she already is.
When i feel, hear and see my Master's pride in me, i know that i am elevated and adored above all women. i have truly given the Gift of my soul to him and in that exchange he becomes as bound to me as i am to him. That is the beauty of submission to me. There is a dynamic that exists where the more my Master asks of me, the more i am able to give, and then the deeper our bond becomes. It grows exponentially. The perfect yin/yang of the Master being the active principle in the TAKING and the submissive being the receptive in the GIVING.
My submission is expressed in many ways: on a physical, mental, emotional and spiritual level. Without all of these levels, again, it becomes merely a physical act. There is a sacredness to submission as well for me. Like prayer or other acts of devotion, it is living my life with an intention and focus that always strives for the highest, purest expression. Putting the relationship first...always searching within for ways to please and offer more of myself than i think i can. It is this going beyond and pushing limits that becomes the most important reward of submission for me...the place of empowerment and self knowledge and the resulting inner strength/transformation. It is also dancing with the inner Shadowself...the parts of me that are about fear and being taken on the journey by someone (the Master) who will be there to catch you so you never really fall. The most special part of submission for me is level of intimacy and soul connection with another. Each veil that is removed, each boundary crossed, each lash accepted and begged for, each time of being taken to the outermost regions of letting go of control.....all of this is the glue that binds the Master and sub completely to one another. To become completely naked and vulnerable on every level, then give more than i think i can and see the pride, love and devotion in my Master's eyes is the greatest Gift imaginable
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i would like to wish everyone a Happy Successful New Year. A site like this i have discovered is dependent on luck... I am sorry for all the "fake" people who pollute this wonderful gathering place but admire the perseverant people who have put all of there chips on the table and have embarked on this lonely journey. Nothing that is worth it comes easy..... so to all seekers, may lady luck bless all the deserving D's and S's out there.....
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Upon further reflection, I must commend the people who have mustered the courage to completely embrace their sexuality and post themselves on CM...background creepiness and all :0)
Unfortunately, my own comfort level only extends to a beer goggle representation of yours truly....
Lastly, while on the topic of pics, all the people who are using other people's pictures... shame on you and get stabbed.
~cheers~
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Am I too picky or a bad person for noticing the background in pictures, such as kids toys, clutter, outdated furniture, hideous wallpaper, carpet stains...and not responding as a result ? |
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I just wanted to let all of my new friends who have lent and ear, shared a story a thought a picture a post even a chat... Thank you. I am so thankful that I stumbled upon this site as its content and inhabitants have served as a useful tool in developing my truth. May every new , past and present visitor have a safe, warm and happy Holiday! |
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Coming to terms with my submissiveness has been one of the many challenges that I have chosen for myself. Like so many endeavors that I have embarked on, the theoretical portion of the task; has been like scratching the surface; exploring, learning,"playing", all of these have been the easy part. Little did I know that the deeper I dig, the harder it becomes. My greatest conquest thus far has been to find balance. Although it feels right, I am at the point where Im feeling conflicted between finding a balance between my "Rosie the Riveter" pride and my Submissive side, each antithesis's of each other. I trust that with patience, practice, acceptance and surrender that these two entities will eventually align and soothe my turmoil. |
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I am not collared, however, have met a potential, on this site (not everyone on here is a proclaimed fake , not all hope is lost, as many posts imply...) He has been.....a terrific guide, a patient soul and a pool of knowledge for all my silly , mundane questions. thank you for being my beacon. |
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I have listed many things that I am not looking for. Hence, in light of being positive I thought I would list vital qualities that are required for my adoption to complete ownership/surrender. Listed in no particular order are the fundamental traits that I seek in a Dom:
-consistent
-honest
-loyal
-respectful
-independent
-patient
-private
-fun
-intelligent
-motivated
-high sex drive
and last but not at the slightest least, (further proof of my seriousness and dedication to this lifestyle..)-->i can't stress enough how important the age thing is, as, I do have family who I will have to introduce you to at some point....Bringing home a guy who is my dad's age... call me crazy... may create complications and unwanted drama. Being that I pride myself of being absent of kids, prescriptions and drama, Ill have to biff the possibility of being collared by someone who is over 40. Just for the sake of old school values that my parents still entertain as part of my reality. im almost positive its one of those things that you understand once your a parent. |
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Ways to get you on my Blocked List:
- mass messaging. i'm not interested in one liners, i can go to my local "meat market" bar for those...
-i have zero desire to "carry your seed" ..
-profane language and addressing me like i belong to you.. you are not my sir, master or even trainer so get stabbed if this is you.
-i have no desire in joining a poly household, other women or your basement.
-fakes: i refuse to be a notch on your belt. if your intentions are to get laid, you are absolutely exploring the wrong profile.
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Her potential:
How do you expect to control me and aspects of my life if you don't have your own shit together? Just a thought... |
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You may be wasting your time as individuals who are:
out of country
over 40
younger than 27
have no profile?
are all being routed to my bulk mail.
Time is a valuable/ limited thing, please extend the courtesy...
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