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I wouldn't say I'm actively trying to figure my role out, so much as I would say I'm simply do
Female Submissive, 41,  Arizona US

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 Submissive Female


 5' 3"





Actively Seeking:

Dominant Male

Submissive Female

Submissive Male

Friends Only

I wouldn't say I'm actively trying to figure my role out, so much as I would say I'm simply doing whatever feels right in the moment. 

Currently exploring that poly-life ;)



 1)The Switch: ISO a masochistic bottom/pain-slut. I have occasional sadistic needs requiring being met, and a few impact play toys which require being practiced with. Ownership is not the goal(but who knows, given time), regular play partner is. Negotiation will take place, sex will not. Understand this dynamic solely consists of play and friendship. If my intentions, regarding this dynamic, continue to sound muddied to you, message for precise clarification. 


I am seeking to get to know people over time, and if it leads to more (local, unattached, and available Dominant men, specifically), I am open to that. I am not in a rush for that to happen, though. 

3) My ideal person: a male Dominant. The Ricky to my Lucy.

Will be seeking something beyond play. Will agree that without trust, honesty, respect, and communication, you have nothing. Please be healthy in mind, body, and soul(heart). Honorable, respectful, lives with integrity.

Local(ideally), and available.

5'9' and taller is a definite +!


I am always seeking to meet friends(platonic) from all backgrounds. I enjoy conversation with all. If I limit myself, then I am missing out on so many interesting people. Don'tcha think? For clarification purposes, I am not interested in LDRs, or online.


Fet: SimplyBe

Alt: _Be_



always evolving...


Journal Entries:
10/16/2017 2:49:14 AM
here, I stand, handing you depth
there, you stand, shallow waters
here, I sit, feeding you a hearty meal
there, you sit, starved for dessert
here, I watch with my ears, listen with my eyes, touch with my soul
there, you, convinced, you are Ricky
here, I say otherwise
the journey continues.

10/13/2017 8:31:19 PM
adjective: modest
1. unassuming or moderate in the estimation of one'sabilities or achievements.

"he was a very modest man, refusing to take any credit for the enterprise"
  1. synonyms: self-effacingself-deprecatinghumbleunpretentiousunassumingunpresumingunostentatiousunshowyunflashyMore
    "she was modest about her poetry"
    adjective: confident
    1. feeling or showing confidence in oneself; self-assured."she was a confident,

    outgoing girl".
    1. synonyms: self-assuredassuredself-confidentpositiveassertiveself-possessedself-reliantpoisedMore
      coolheadedphlegmaticlevelheadedunperturbedimperturbableunruffled, at ease;
      "a confident woman
    The latter. I have no difficulty in acknowledging my strengths, as I work to improve my weaknesses into strengths.

10/10/2017 2:50:09 AM

9/26/2017 3:28:23 AM
This one, most recently...

9/12/2017 6:28:50 AM
Interesting, how the Universe knows better than you, and will make the necessary corrections without you having realized.

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