Female Domme. I prefer to make connections online before an offline connection is ever considered. I want to make sure we'd be compatible at a playing level before ever putting myself in a position of danger. I currently have a slave/partner, so I'm not seeking a relationship, but I (and he as well) are both seeking some play partners.
I'm also seeking friends. I enjoy talking to people online - especially, and it can be nice to relate to someone in a new manner. It'd be nice to make some new friends here as well.
I'm a stronger believer in earning trust and respect - not expecting it. What this means is that you shouldn't expect my messages to contain any sort of "Bow down to me!". I don't exist for your masturbation pleasure, and I will relate to you as a relative equal until we've decided we both would like something further.
I get absolutely nothing out of kink if there is not a background in place before I play with someone. I also can not dominate you nearly as well if I don't understand your personality, likes, dislikes, and other aspects of your non-sexual life. Therefore, before sexual matters are discussed on a serious basis, I will expect us to get along on a friendship basis. This is not-negotiable.
When it comes to the BDSM interests on my profile, they all are marked as they apply being done BY me to someone else.
When it comes to messengers, I have Skype/Yahoo and others. However, I will not give them out to you on a whim. Giving you one of my messenger/contact forms will allow you to get in contact with me whenever I am online. As far as I'm concerned, that makes me available to you anytime I'm available online. For that reason, until you have earned that right, I will not reveal that information to you.
(As a hint to get my attention: I prefer, to a very strong degree, people who use proper grammar and capitalization when messaging me.)
NOTE: I refuse to set an age limit to who can message me as I believe every person, no matter what age, may have something good to say. However, for most the part, for any sort of on-going partnership, my strong preference is for someone under 30 to avoid being in different stages of life.
2/15/2012 3:44:37 PM
Updated my profile again. Trying to find the balance between too much to read and the right amount of information.
