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I've been into the BDSM lifestyle all my life. Not as active as most people, and not "out" in the scene. Just looking to explore this aspect of myself. Outside of that, I'm completely up for non-kink chat if you are so inclined. Feel free to message me.

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4/21/2016 6:44:42 PM

Ticktocker on 4/21/16 at 9:43 PM:
 
  I can tell by your poor grammar and stock photo that you not serious, nor are you real. So what is it? You want me to sign up for a website? Or is is gift cards? Amazon wishlist? Seriously, just get to the point and tell me what you want so you're not wasting both of our times....
 
 
  MistressRed29 on 4/21/16 at 9:34 PM:
 
  I am looking for a sub who wants to serve Me, are you willing to serve Me? and I am looking for devoted and obedient slave who is fit enough and ready to serve and to be humiliated as my slave. Leave your email address and I will be the one to contact you.
 

11/2/2015 6:14:44 PM
Unfortunately, at this point, I feel the need to make it clear that I WILL NEVER SEND YOU MONEY OR GIFTS. PERIOD. Yes, it's a fetish that some people have, I get it. There are plenty of people on here that will do so, but I will not. That does not make me "not a true sub/slave", it just means we have different tastes. I'm not judging you, please return the courtesy. 

10/18/2015 6:09:05 PM
Last year, I had the pleasure of being collared and owned by an extraordinary Mistress. She taught me so much about the Mistress/Slave relationship, and I am eternally grateful for her wisdom. Unfortunately, real life got in the way, and I no longer had the time to devote to our relationship. But I thought I'd share just a few things I learned from her, which in my own personal opinion, are crucial to a Master/Sub relationship.

  • The relationship should be mutually beneficial: This sounds strange, because by definition, a master owns a slave. However, I believe a healthy BDSM relationship, whether strictly online play or in real life, needs to benefit both parties. So many Dommes online think it's so easy to be a Mistress. Call someone a few names, tell them what to do... bada bing! But even a slave/sub needs to benefit somewhat from the relationship. It could be as simple as naming hard limits, or telling your partner what you enjoy. If the slave is actually miserable, or afraid, then something is wrong.

  • Real life takes precedent:  Let me be clear, I have the utmost respect for those out there that are 100% open with their interest in the lifestyle. You brave souls who wear their kinks on their sleeves, as it were. But the fact is that there are those of us that still live "regular" lives day to day, and come here or elsewhere to indulge in our "real selves." My former Mistress was always 100% understanding when my normal life took precedent over our relationship, and I reciprocated. We were who we were, and we made time for our activities. But at the end of the day, jobs, bills, spouses, children...they all are far more important than any play or chat you may have online, or in person.

  •  Don't waste the other's time: This is as simple as naming what you will and won't do upon the introductory phase. If you are not into Findom, say so. On the other hand, if your partner has told you clearly that you are not into Findom, don't request it. Mutually beneficial, remember? Once someone has told you their hard limits, constantly requesting it or bringing it up is disrespectful, and a waste of everyone's time. 

10/18/2015 5:46:09 PM
One of the first questions I get when chatting with someone is "What are you into?" I always feel so on the spot, that I tend to give answers filled with one word, easily digestible responses.

I feel that I never quite express myself accurately. It's hard to describe such a complicated thing as your inner most desires. Then again, perhaps a lot of other people are simple, and know exactly what they want in ways that can be easily described.

First and foremost, I love the thrill of being broken. This is hard to translate in an online chat or play, but I like to fight back. To be defiant until my will and mind are broken by a dominant, and I am left at their feet, with no choice but to obey. The shame and fear I feel as I'm completely exposed before a Mistress or Master, helpless and at their mercy, is my main turn on.

With that, well, it's pretty much anything. It's not so much about if I'm "into" foot worship, chastity, cuckolding, etc..it's being at the whim of a dominant that is my "kink". Never knowing what's coming next, not able to guess what wicked or humiliating ideas are brewing in my Mistress's mind. That's the fun.

If I had to name just a few things that I prefer, it would be body worship, begging, controlled/denied orgasms, mind games, psychological torture,and strap-ons.

Of course, as a slave, it's strange when someone asks me "what do you like?". I'm a slave, what I like doesn't matter. The only thing that matters is what my owner likes. :) 

 

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mastersisabella
 
 Age: 22
 Crawley, United Kingdom