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I can't deal with the instantly You'll-do-as-I-say-because-I-am-a-Dom-you-are-a-sub" Dom. NO! I won't. Yes I am a sub, and I will do as my Dom says, but "you" are not my Dom yet. I don't know you I can't trust someone I don't know. I need/want a Dom that will take the time to get to know me... ask me questions. Listen to what I have to say. Learn what it is that I like, or love, or hate. Too many Doms on here send a message along the lines of: "greetings I want to ruin your ass and treat you like the whore you were meant to be" That is something I won't tolerate. That may be "unsub" like of me to most people here, but to me that is common respect. I can't treat someone I know with respect if they have not earned it. Plain and Simple... ok so my explanation wasn't as Plain and Simple as I'd like but it is what it is.
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