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My name is WyldeHair. I try not to talk about myself , it's rude. I'm polite in public, but behind closed doors I'm not very nice. I used to be a switch but I don't concider myself one any more. . . Too much of a sadist. If that's what your looking for . . . Shoot me an E-mail. . . Even if your just curious I'll answer almost any question you have.


I've been moving around alot lately so it's been rather difficult to meet new and interesting people to play with and Whos company I can enjoy. I spent a few months in Bakersfield and then a month in Arizona(AZ. Fetish ball was a blast.) And now I'm back in SanDiego. . . *Sigh* I hate it here but it'll do for now.

I'm still looking to meet some new and, like minded people for. . . Whatever.

Deacon WyldeHair

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9/22/2011 9:33:12 PM

    Writers call it the "Revelation" scene. . .It's when the hero character makes the choice to be the hero, or the villain becomes the villain. . . That's what this is. . . The "Revelation" scene. It's where I have to decide whether I'm the Hero, or the villain. . .the choice will determine what happens next. . .

 

    This is what has to be. . . this is what must be done. . .

 

    A war with ones self is a war you can never win. . .F.M.L.


9/13/2011 12:57:43 AM

 A few words on how I am.

 

 

Unapologetic, Sadistic, Intelligent, unforgiving, spontanious, strong of heart, creative, A little demanding, sometimes hyper, sexual and sensual, funny, poetic, sarcatsic, protective, loyal, more to list but not the time. . .If your not any of these things . . .Oh Well!!

 

A few words on what will get you noticed.

 

 

Eyes, I have to see them.

If your profile is blank I won't even bother looking.

If I cannot see your face, the same

If your not a woman, you don't have a chance. . . Don't bother.

I like a woman who knows who and what she is.

Petite is fun-sized. . . very nice. . . But full size and sometimes a King size is fun too.

If you have a boyfriend. . .we can work something out. . .

If your married, I'm not interested.

If your gonna look, write something. . .Preferably something clever, I despise one-liners and stupidity.

Don't ask me what I would do to you in your introductory E-mail, the answer is nothing untill I actually know you.

If you don't have a picture on your page and you want to send one with your E-Mail, I'm o.k. with that. . .But it needs to be of your face. . .If I can't see who you are I can't talk to you. . . I don't want to have a conversation with a vagina!

 

 

 If you would like to know more about me . . .your best bet is to stab my E-mail and ask me questions. . .The worst I'll do is be honest.

 

 

Deacon WyldeHair


9/2/2011 10:53:05 AM

To: My creepy stalker.

 

   GO AWAY! Stop following me, stop E-mailing me, stop. . . Just Stop.

I told you already. . . Cyber-stalking is the same as regular stalking. If you refuse to leave me alone I will have you arrested. . . This is your last warning. .

 

 

 Other people: Hey what's up? I know it's been a while, but I've been busy. . . let me just say. I love my real friends. . . If you are among them you know who you are. . I just deleted a bunch of stuff from my lournal, it's sort of like cleaning out my closet.

 

 I was listening to music last night (Like I do) and chatting with one of my oldest friends when an idea occured to me: I've never actually told anyone on here what it is that I'm actually looking for. . .

 

 I still won't put it in my journal. . . If you really want to know; Ask me. .  E-mail is a good way to do that. . .

 

 If you afraid to . . . Well, then you don't belong on this site. . .If I seem off putting, or overly harsh in my treatment of certain issues. . . Oh well. . . I'm very opinionated, if you don't like it. . . You can go tie your dick (or your clit) in a knot. . 

 

 Please, if your going to E-mail me. . . and this goes for everyone. . . Read my damn Profile. . . I don't just mean my likes and dislikes. . . read my Journal too. . . Have some kind of clue as to the person behind the name before you say something that will make me not want to write back. .

 

 I read an interesting journal post today. .  it stirred my mind and made me think of all of this. . . don't blame me if you don't like what I have to say. . . get over yourself. . .

 

 

  With fury,

              D.W.


3/15/2011 11:36:52 AM

 well . . .I'm single again after two and a half years. . . She left me heart-broken. I don't know how to get through this, I didn't expect it but I should have. she tells me that she's been unhappy for a while but she couldn't figure it out untill she told me she didn't want to be with me anymore.

 

  She doesn't seem to understand that you can't hold anyone completely responsable for your happiness. We almost completely stopped having sex 18 months ago, so I should have known then that something was very wrong. When asked , she would say "Nothing" or "I don't know" not very good answers.

 

  So now I'm broken hearted and alone again, with no one to turn to because I kept this relationship manogamous. . . That alone should have told me to stay clear. . . I've never had any other fully mono relationship before, but I tried to be someone else for her. . . Obviously I failed her somewhere along the way. . .

 

  I hate my life right now.

 

I need to find someone I can play with for a little while to try to get my mind off of the horrifying situation I now find myself in.. . . If your interested shoot me an E-Mail.


11/26/2009 10:35:33 AM
May the wind be ever at your back,
May the road rise up to meet your step,
And may the best of your past be the worst of your future.


 Happy thanks Giving.

10/6/2009 11:01:53 PM

  So, a good friend of mine has convinced me that I should write a self help book on how to be a better lover. . . I started writing on Saturday night and as of this afternoon I have 94 pages. . . I am willing to part with copies if anyone wants one. . . Just shoot he an E-Mail here on Collarme with your outside E-mail and I'll get it to you A.S.A.P.

8/19/2009 11:45:54 PM

 I still fail to understand how it is that some people can talk shit about a person to everyone else one minute and then turn around and have a completely dysfunctional and overly loud sexual relationship with that same person. . . It really befuddles the fuck out of me. I honestly can't see how a man who is superbly intelligent would fall into a trap set by a female who is so very obviously not.
 O.k. so maybe not a good place to start. . . Two of my room mates are now and have been in a . . .I guess you could call it a relationship. Either way they've been fucking for about the last two or three months. Last month she announced (And not to the whole household) that she was pregnant, when just a week before she was telling a long time friend of mine that she wasn't fucking anyone. . . Why the lie?  If you're gonna do something you feel the need to lie about is it really worth doing?

  And now she wants us all to move into a bigger place. . .I understand why, She wants us to help her dodge her responsibilities. . .Sorry I've been in that situation before, and I won't do it again.

  I'm not willing to take on the burden of raising someone elses child.


8/4/2009 10:26:06 PM

Sometimes I hate my Room-mates!

5/29/2009 2:08:28 AM

   I'm so sick of these Abercrombie wearing 19 year old girls saying all they want is a daddy. . . Do they even realize what it is they're saying. . . Daddy is the one who buys you all your fancy crap and payed for your ridiculously over sized gas guzzling SUV and all your (Ridiculous) clothes. . . These girls, and that's what they are, make me sick. they'll tell a guy they want a "Daddy" but what they really want is for some poor schmuck to pay their bills and buy them what ever they want. . . A warning guys; These girls are after your money not your affections. . . they'll use you up and throw you away.

   Any woman that tells you she "Wants to be taken care of" and then mentions finances, is a Con-Artist. don't fall into a trap because of a pretty face or a nice pair of breasts. . . A real sub will only ask of you one thing; Affection. The affection between a Dom/me and a sub is tantamount. it is the single most important part of your relationship. If you don't have that, your not in a relationship.

4/6/2009 4:11:43 PM

   O.K. apparently reading all the way through someones profile is too much for some of you out there to do. . . So it is with that in mind that I say the following:
  If you are a Male looking for a Dominant Male you are (as I have stated before) Barking up the wrong tree.
  If you E-mail me and you are rude or crass you will be blocked.
  I do not care if you are hung like a horse, I AM NOT GAY, nor will I ever be. this is a fact that will never change.
   If you are Male and you E-mail me looking for a Male Dom, I will respond by telling you that if you continue to do so you will be reported and you be blocked.
   I AM NOT A SUBMISSIVE!!!
   I will no longer abide the unwanted, and unneeded attention of Dommes asking me to be their sub. The answer is and always will be NO!
 D.W.

3/9/2009 1:22:48 PM

  Oh My Fucking God. . . What is it that I have to do to get these people to listen? . . . .I moved into a new place in December and it's been just one head-pounding stupidity after another. Why can't these grown ass women act like they're adults? The continual lack of respect form two of my roomates is causing me to have very violent thoughts. Normally I'm a fairly laid back guy, but lately the bull shit has gotten piled too high. 
   
  If you make a verbal agreement with someone that you're going to be taking care of certain things in a house-hold, you should do it without being a TWAT about it all the time. Again I'm sick to death of all the back-biting and the disrespect. . . . Let me ask a question to all of you who know me. If you agreed to, lets say, cover utilities at an apartment and that was all you were being asked to cover, would you bitch about it, or would you be happy to oblidge?
    
There are 5, yes one two three four five, adults living in this house, only two of them have what could be called Normal jobs, however none of us(except for the 60 yr. old mother of one of my room mates) has a problem with that. I was recently informed by a friend outside the house that my roommates mother, who also lives with us, thinks that I should stop trying to start my Furniture business and get a real job. She also thinks I'm still 15 or 16 by the way she talks to me.
     
Those of you who know me , know that I'mnot a fan of being talk down to or talked over. That's one of my biggest problems with the current situation. . . Don't talk over me, Do Not interupt me when I'm talking, And most assuredly NEVER talk to me like I'm a child! I'm a grown ass man, Treat me like one. Don't disrepect me in my own home. That's a sure fire way to Piss me off. As I've said before, I AM A SADIST! if you don't beleive me just give a push, you'll find out just how utterly cruel I can really be.

 

 Just needed to vent.


   


9/3/2008 2:23:51 PM
Obsession. . . That's what it all boils down to . . . I just can't fathom how one person can become so utterly possesed by the simple thought of another. . . It sure as fuck doesn't make any sense to me . . . How is it that some one can go from being a very good long time friend to being the person who get's compleatly pissed off at the thought of you with someone who actually makes you happy?  It's stupid, to me at least, that they should be upset. . . If you love someone aren't you supposed to want them to be happy? Aren't you supposed to want whats best for them?
  she tells the world that she cries herself to sleep and that I'm a coward for not telling her "No". . . I told her no 13 years ago, It' not my fault she has a selective memory.
 So we had sex, BIG DEAL, people have sex all the time. . .
Sex is not love, neither is obsession. Once again I'm left confused by what's happened and information I've gotten from outside sources.
 She told one friend that she couldn't date him because he wasn't me, and then told me that she couldn't because he was too efemminate. . . why the double talk? She dated another friend for about a week and dumped him for reasons unknown. . . And today I read that she "Can't date because she's so in love. . ." you can guess the rest.

 I'm a little tiered of her hypocrasy and double talk, that combined with the fact that she ALWAYS has to be right about everything(Even things she has no right to argue with me about) I can't imagine why I would NEVER be with hert like that. . .

 I'm still no closer to understanding obsession

8/8/2008 2:32:55 AM
So . . . It's been a while since the last time I posted anything on here so I guess there's no better time than 2:30 in the morning for an insomniac to write. . . For those of you who've been paying attention I'm a little off. No. . . Strike that,  Crazy is more the word I would use. . . but not in a bad way. . It's not like I'm gonna go off and eat some one(As in consume. . . Get your mind out of the gutter) I just enjoy things that most people would find rather disturbing.  . . Not that there is anything really wrong with that, it's just to some I'm concidered a little too extreme. . . Well no kidding, I'm a Sadist, isn't that how I'm supposed to be?

11/1/2007 12:29:19 AM

 So for those of you who don't know. . . I'm fucking Pagan . For me Halloween is the celabration of the new year. For my new year I got all kinds of Murder-Dolled up and went out to a coffee shop here in San Diego. . . A few of my close friend showed up and it made the whole night worth while.
 When I dress the way I was dressed tonight(Pictures will be posted soon) I feel great, It's like a part of me gets out that I don't always get to show off. Oh! Just for those of you who want to know. . . I went as a modern hunter version of the Tin-Man. . . It was bad ass. . .

 B.T.W. I think my friends Girlfriend wants me to bang her. . .

  D.W.

8/12/2007 2:41:52 AM

 Alright sparky listen up. . .If you're going to E-Mail me at least bother reading My profile . . .There is some very basic, albeit important, information at the very begining that you should concider if you're looking to write a long drawn out E-Mail.

 1. I am a Dominant Male looking for a sub. . .The WyldeHair is no-ones Pet!(For lack of a better tastefull term.)
 2. I am NOT gay. . . I do not take on male subs no matter what. . .I don't want to hear about how good you would be to me or anything else. . .if you are male and want a male dom . . .You're barking up the wrong tree.
 3. If you're psychotic. . . I'm not qualified to help you Please seek professional help. . .
 4. And finally, Please , For the Love of Mike  don't E-Mail me if you are looking for a full time one-on-one relationship. . . I've not been looking for one for a while now and I'm not looking for one now. . .If you can't deal with the fact that I am a Poly Male then walk away. . .

 D.W.

2/1/2007 10:18:00 PM
    So for the moment at least , I'm in Arizona with one of my oldest and dearest Friends. . .She's going through a nasty divorce and I've offered my help. . .Such a nice guy right?
    Well. . .I was wrong(once again) about my most recent failure of a relationship. . .just unlucky in love I guess. . .I'll keep trying though, and who knows . . .Maybe I'll get lucky on this trip.

    O.k. so I guess you would have to understand the dinamics of the situation I find myself in. . . . Maybe later.

     Get Your Dead On,
                     Deacon WyldeHair

1/9/2006 11:28:44 AM
  For those of you who read my writing I'm here to tell you that I have found Hester Mofet.( fans of Hannable Lecter will get that one). so now I'm looking for friends to talk to and share my experiance with.

     Get your dead on ,
                            Deacon Wylde Hair

5/24/2005 10:47:19 AM
    My name is WyldeHair and I'm a 24 year old switch who has, of late, become a full time dom.  I've been in the lifestyle full time for the last five years and I still don't have an actuall sub. There have been many women in my life but only  a few  who nfilled that particular void in my life.

    I enjoy the feeling I get when being cast upon by a dominant woman, but more so I enjoy the reaction I get from a submissive woman. Recently I thought I had found the one woman  with whom I could acheive the level of trust  I needed, it turned out to be just another fling.

    I really just want to find a woman who can respect and enjoy the gifts I have to offer. I'm looking for a full time sub, but more than that I'm looking for someone to spend a significant amount of time with.

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