In the past I have experienced both realms of the lifestyle and I have come to understand through the dominant side, what it takes to submit.
I am a Submissive but can go either way at anytime.
I like safe words...Red=Please stop I can't take it anymore Yellow=Please use caution but keep going Green=Damn the torpedoes full speed ahead
Mild Torture and Pain
Shoes or Boots
Total Body Worship
Bondage and Restraints
Soiled Panties (taste and smell)
Dirty Stockings (taste and smell)
Knife, Needle Play