11/18/2015 5:59:46 AM: My Feelings on Spanking  The psychological elements of spanking and discipline are very important to me. I won't analyze why we like spanking but there is usually a need on the part of the spankee to feel controlled, in a safe and caring manner. Discipline -- whether real or in role play – often manifests itself as a yearning to be taken to a special place in a caring yet firm manner. I enjoy recreating this place. I would rather spank as a consequence, rather than spank just to dominate. I'm an authority figure and I like knowing that you're coming to me as a naughty girl. I very much like rituals and will make you squirm as you confess your misdeeds. We'll discuss your behavior in detail. I know you'll try to turn things around in a vain attempt to escape your punishment. Naughty girls always try to deny their behavior but, in the end, they always admit their misdeeds. I'll listen to every word you’ll say. I'll get the full story from you until you finally admit it, yourself. And then I'll enjoy watching you tremble as you try to bargain, as you plead that you’ll be good and that it won’t happen again, as you beg not to be spanked. Of course, we both know your efforts will be for naught. And so we’ll discuss your punishment – how it will take place, in what state of undress, what position, what implements will be used. There's always a special look that passes the face of a recalcitrant young woman when she hears her fate. Despite knowing, from the very beginning, what’s to happen to her, this mix of surprise and fear always appears. I love that look. I’ll love it on you. While this sounds (and is) -- very hot and intense, you should know that I ALWAYS play safely, sanely and consensually. This is something we both should enjoy. I'll make sure you feel comfortable and safe; I’ll do all I can to help put you at ease so that you can fully enjoy the experience. A few rules I have: I always meet first in public to get to know one another. We will discuss everything that is to happen beforehand. I want to know your limits, preferences, likes and dislikes. I always use safe words. This is a sexual experience but we needn't have sex right away. Again, we both need to feel comfortable. If you don't want sex at all, that's OK, too. Age isn't very important. I do prefer younger women (18-40) but I have no real age preference.Please, no BBWs. Not trying to sound vain. I do prefer slim/slender women.   Feel free to contact me with any other questions. Thank you.