So it has taken me a long time to write this bio because I truly had no idea what to say or how to write it. I will just say this probably is a long work in progress. I will add to this as I deem necessary.  I find it funny because some other profiles are very well thought out, but I have been having issues thinking about what to say about myself.

I have been in the lifestyle for about 22 years now. I started when I was 18 years old. I have always been a Dominant type. I have always had a penchant for control. That was my ultimate thrill. It wasn't until my later years that I started to delve into deeper parts of what I like.

I am a Sadist.

I am a Daddy Dom

Sooooo. I have been single for awhile now, I got out of a long term relationship last july. I thought playing the field was fun but I am looking to settle with one person. 

I am doing my best to work on myself and who I am. I kind of have to relearn what works for me. I have to relearn how to "love myself" again I guess. Part of doing that means I want to take better care of myself. I been going to a gym, trying to lose the 50+ pounds of depression weight I had put on over the past 3 years.

I am 6'2" at 320lbs. I am not a thin guy but I am not morbid obese either. I am putting this on here because the last person I wanted to take out for coffee told me she was no longer interested when she found out I was a bit overweight. I know it might seem shallow, but you can't help what you are attracted to, or unattracted to.

It was a little disheartening and discouraging. So I want to make sure that mistake doesn't happen again. If you aren't into bigger men, you might want to pass me by.

I am a Dominant person, and always have been. I like being the one in charge. So naturally, I tend to find myself at the top of the food chain in every situation. I find myself leading most of the time. Not that I am bossy, but I am the boss. There is a difference.

I have been in the scene for many years and have what some would consider a lifetime of experiences. Now, I wish to find the perfect submissive partner. Someone I can build a life together with. One who will get shoulder to shoulder with me, helping build the empire. One who genuinely loves to serve. I have no problems giving specifics when we speak, but for reasons of good introductions I will say that, the submissive I seek should be intelligent, open minded, and has a sarcastic and dark sense of humor.

Getting the brashness out of the way early, let me tell you a bit about myself.

I am 6'2" at 320lbs I am a rather big guy. I have been called everything from Viking/Biker/Gamer/Geek. I wear many different hats I suppose.

My Ideal match would be a woman who can tell me exactly what she likes, wants. Who doesn't mind going out for a steak dinner, come back home and have a great time behind doors and then she wants to play a game with me. I would love to find someone who matches my likes but she doesn't have to lose her own identity to transform into mine.