If you have interest please read the ENTIRE profile. Then be prepared to see beyond the profile to find the person. I will give you the same courtesy. I am NOT a fetish dispenser or a Pro Domme. Take the time to get to know me and lets see what evolves between two unique individuals.



LET ME BE PERFECTLY CLEAR...I WILL EXPECT PICTURES, A VIDEO CALL, AND OTHER TYPES OF TRANSPARENCY PROVING YOU ARE WHO YOU SAY YOU ARE VERY QUICKLY IF YOU WANT TO CONTINUE SPEAKING WITH ME. ANYONE LIVING MORE THAN AN HOUR DRIVE FROM ME MUST BE WILLING TO COME MEET ME ASAP FOR ME TO DETERMINE IF YOU ARE WORTHY OF MY CONTINUED TIME AND ATTENTION. I HAVE NO INTEREST IN EXTENDED DIGITAL COMMUNICATION OR CYBER ANYTHING.




I am a thick and juicy, treble and bass blessed bbw. I am educated and articulate. I am sapiosexual and require an intellectual connection to even consider someone as a potential partner. That said, I find academic chops are less important than genuine intelligence. If you have a passion for learning all that life has to offer, you will attract my attention. If we share similar interests such as travel, gardening, cooking, board and card games, action movies, scrabble, cards against humanity, the Economist, and discussing global and domestic issues, you will have my rapt attention. I am active in the local bdsm community and attend munches and other gatherings frequently. Please be prepared to accompany me at least on occasion. If you are too shy or reticent to do so, then we are probably not a good match.




Im open to making new friends. But please SEND A RESPECTFUL NOTE that makes me want to know more about you.
Civility, manners, and the use of proper grammar are required.
IF YOUR PROFILE IS WITHOUT PICTURES, SEND ONE WITH YOUR EMAIL IF YOU EXPECT A RESPONSE FROM ME. If you dont, I will simply block you. No second chances.
ABSOLUTELY NO ONLINE OR CYBER PLAY. Im interested in REAL LIFE interaction ONLY.
Please address Me as Maam, Mistress Kat, or Mistress. Remember, first impressions are important.



What Im looking for



A Lion on a leash, not a lamb in my pocket.


I prefer an Alpha sub who is alpha in all vanilla aspects but desires a loving and benevolent mistress to worship. I have no interest in fem or sissy subs, brats, or diapers. A service sub with carpentry or other trade skills rises to the top of the list. Sexually, please come ready with at least a few perfected skills and a willingness to learn and explore.



This means thank you but NO THANK YOU to the young pups. I prefer someone closer to my age and I will only consider someone 39-59. Do not contact me thinking you will be the exception to this rule, you will not.


Extra Emphasis on the following points

I am NOT looking for a casual partner, playmate, fuck buddy, or hookup. BE PREPARED to make regularly scheduled time to spend with me. If you can not manage to do so because of life choices or circumstance DONT BOTHER to contact me. My time is valuable, dont waste it!
If you are MARRIED OR OTHERWISE TETHERED, keep moving because I am DEFINITIVELY UNINTERESTED.

I have a teen child who is my top priority. Please SERIOUSLY take this into consideration when you contact me.

For those up to the challenge, I look forward to hearing from you.

Kat