I am a white professional male.  I am well educated, work in a professional role in a not for profit organization and travel regularly for my job.  I am looking to share fun, exciting times with someone who is interested in exploring, in and out of our roles.  I have been involved in D/s since college and have trained new submissives as well as experienced ones.  I enjoy a wide variety of activities in my everyday life and seek someone to share those with me.  I enjoy traveling, cooking, dining out, reading, the beach, cities, the country and more.  I have a wicked sense of humor - a little biting at times - and need someone who can keep up intellectually.   I am 6’ tall, attractive, in good shape and take good care of myself and those I care about.

I would like to find a woman who is articulate, intelligent, attractive and interested in exploration of a wide variety of areas of mutual interest.  My ideal sub is a woman who is interesting and exciting to spend time with both in and out of our D/s roles.  I seek one who can spend time with my family and friends enjoying all that life has to offer - the theatre, the beach, fine dining, reading, politics, movies and music to name a few - all the while knowing that in the end, no matter what we are doing, she belongs to me.   I value the gift of submission and treat my submissive with the love, care and respect she deserves.  This does not mean that I allow a sub to dictate the terms of our relationship.  Once limits have been agreed upon, I will assert complete control.  Limits are respected though pushed as appropriate as we learn each other.  I seek one who looks to grow together as we explore each other, our desires and needs, to build a lasting, committed relationship centered on, though not limited to, D/s principles.