I'm a safe, sane, submissive 51 year old man looking to explore his lifelong interest in BDSM while hopefully making a few close friends. I'm a freelance writer by trade, a left leaning political moderate, and an avid reader of science, history, biographies, and classic literature like Steinbeck. I'm physically active and enjoy walking, nature photography, and camping.

Civility and consideration for others are HUGE priorities as far as I'm concerned. Submissive doesn't equate to doormat. I have a quirky sense of humor and a love of anything bizarre or offbeat so long as it's legal and between consenting adults. Smoking, drug use, and obnoxious behavior are deal breakers. Physical appearance takes a backseat to personality.

Some of my more erotic interests include e chastity, spanking, verbal humiliation, CBT, and "forced" feminization. I'm attracted to both cis and trans women. I find smart women very sexy.

I would like to exchange messages online at first to see if we click, followed by a real world meeting. I promise to respect your boundaries so long as you do the same. Interested If so, then send me a message and we'll see what happens.