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Pics taken in September 2017.    I'm on this website to find a relationship that h
Female Submissive, 35,  Newport, Rhode Island US

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 Submissive Female


 Rhode Island

 Willing to Relocate

 5' 9"

 205 lbs





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Dominant Male

Pics taken in September 2017. 


I'm on this website to find a relationship that has potential to develop into a LTR. I politely request that married and attached men refrain from contacting me--I'm 100% NOT interested. Please do not waste my time or yours.


It's amazingly freeing to being able to give up control and have another person take over. I am just beginning to get to know the submissive inside me so I imagine a nurturing Dom is probably best, especially because I have a teeny bratty streak in me. 


I find myself most attracted to men who are naturally dominant. This type of guy doesn't  require the "trappings" of dominance rather his presence is enough to establish that he is in charge. 


I derive so much pleasure from pleasing my partner. As I care more deeply for someone, the extent of my submission grows exponentially.


As to my specific kinks, public play (creative and discreet) and consensual non-consent are two of my favorites. Please note, I am not into serious pain and am not a household-services-oriented sub. 


I am a well-educated, ambitious professional. I am single, have never been married, and have no children except my puppy. I am athletic, but have 30-35 pounds to lose to be fit and lean. Full disclosure: I wear a size 16. I’ve been exercising (and wouldn’t mind a running partner) and living a healthy lifestyle, and I'm steadily losing the weight I gained due to stress during law school. I have nice long legs and big beautiful breasts, but a belly. I look best in empire-waisted short dresses. If we meet, you can expect me to wear such a dress.


Rather than attempt to write an articulate descrip/tion of who I am, to save time and effort I'm opting for a stream-of-consciousness type style. I suppose I am nerd. I love reading (and listening to) nonfiction, mostly history, politics, law, and humor. I can spend hours reading obscure government reports. I love the oxford comma. If I envision the happiest death possible, it would involve some quirky accident while I'm reading an anthology of New Yorker cartoons. I try to walk on the beach every single day, although I slack off a bit on the bitterly windy days in February. I try to make eye contact and smile at people who look worried or unhappy. I'm extremely liberal. I support the Black Lives Matter Movement.  I traveled to DC for the Women's March on Washington.  When I am tickled, I laugh so hard that I can hardly breathe.  I volunteer during tax season to help people complete their returns. I love hunting for sea glass. I go through phases where I meditate religiously. I love puns. I'm addicted to podcasts. I love the Muppets and am trying to learn to appreciate the new stuff. Kermit riding a bicycle is perhaps my most favorite thing ever. I wish I could move my hips like Shakira. When I had a longer commute to work I would listen to Sean Paul to pump myself up for the day (of sitting at a desk). I root for the Baltimore Ravens, I have a soft spot for the Texans, and I hate the Patriots, Tom Brady, and am jealous of all their damn trophies. I am the fucking best aunt in the world, and way better than the other aunt who has no idea there is a competition. I don't smoke or do drugs. I drink infrequently but am not opposed to drinking a bit more frequently. I love my job. I have a wonderful, supportive, uber-functional family. I hate the phrase "it is what it is." I implore you not use the non-word "irregardless." I am an extremely loyal friend. I try to be the least judgmental version of myself. I love listening to old people and children tell stories. My dog and I have the same color hair--auburn (both natural).


A few nonsexual things that turn me on...

Intelligent conversation, chivalrous gestures, when you discuss things you are passionate about, generosity, humor, expertise, and your pungent smell when you get all sweaty working out or doing "manly shit" (yard work, moving heavy things, construction, home repair, etc).

have an extremely high sex drive. I've never had a man that can keep up with me, and I don't believe that I necessarily need one who can. However, I need someone who at the very least appreciates that my appetite is a part of who I am. I would love to meet a man who embraces my high sex drive and has the creativity to satiate my sexual wants and needs. 

PLEASE NOTE: I am looking for a real life relationship and am not interested in an online friendship. I am willing to relocate within the US for the right person and relationship. 


Also, I respond to messages that demonstrate you've read my profile. Messages such as, "hi," "good morning," "let's chat," and other generic phrases will typically not receive a reply. 



Journal Entries:
8/28/2017 10:40:09 AM
I believe my experience on the site has been quite different than most. The overwhelming majority of people who contact me are real (not fake) and appear to be sincere. Plus, not a single person has asked me for money or to rescue them from another country.

6/29/2017 8:14:32 AM
I am interested in a relationship with ONE other person. I will pass on triads, polys, octagonal relationships, etc. 

6/23/2017 3:24:15 PM
I don't want to be a slave. Sorry, but not sorry.

6/20/2017 9:51:27 AM
Quick tip: If you read my profile, you will surmise that grammar is important to me.

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