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About me


Vanilla Me
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My friends jokingly call me the most interesting man in the world as I have such a multitude of hobbies and participate in a wide range of activities with people from all walks of life. While its a fun joke for them to make-and I do have way too many hobbies-Im most definitely not the most interesting man in the world. However, I strongly believe Im close to being one of the most interested men in the world.

From a young age I have been enraptured by the world around me and the interesting people within it. My life mission is to learn as much as possible from the multitude of eclectic people coexisting on this rock with me. This mission has led me to live in multiple countries, start businesses, make and lose one fortune, build lifelong friendships, fall in and out of love, save a life, and well... accumulate way too many damn hobbies.

My varied interests make it quite easy for me to find common ground with just about anyone. Reach out so we can find out where we overlap! Im just as likely to be found rock climbing as entering a boxing ring, volunteering, kayaking, cooking, or reading a bird identification book by the fire (fuck yeah birding). (Also many other things that are way too specific to list here).

I have learned to not take myself too seriously and that lifes the biggest joke of all. Socially, Im quick to laugh or provide a witty remark. While my, admittedly rather strange, life experiences have left me with a few wild stories, I much prefer to listen to people and their stories rather than tell my own. As I said, Im here to learn as much as possible from as many people as possible - I cant do that if Im the one doing the majority of the talking. That being said, I do thoroughly enjoy public speaking and being the life of the party when the situation calls for it.

I see every day as an opportunity to improve myself, learn, and-most importantly-make a new friend.

Kinky Me
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As with my curiosity, kink has been with me for as long as I can remember. Sometimes it has been with me like an annoying itch, other times it has been more similar to the sun following me on a pleasant summers day at the beach.

In my earlier years, I eschewed my kinkiness and felt quite guilty for feeling the things that I did. In the last few years I have begun to fully embrace it as a part of me that will never go away. If its going to be with me until the day I die, I might as well enjoy it right?

This awakening, if you will, has progressed through a few different stages thus far. First I started off topping, because social norms conditioned me to believe that this was the natural thing for a man to do men are dominant, women are submissive. As I learned more about myself, kink, and the people who participate in it, well, I learned that was a load of shit.

I began to explore my submissive side in a lovely relationship with a beautiful woman beginning to explore her dominance. We explored FLR, femdom, Ds, and what it means to show lovedevotion in alternative ways. While I am no longer with this person, this incredible experience kindled new kinks and a part of me that I did not know existed.

These experiences have morphed me into what might be classified as a bottom-leaning switch. While I still thoroughly enjoy taking a beautiful woman from behind as I pull her hair (who wouldnt?), and would most likely not turn down that opportunity, nothing is as awe-inspiring, and sexy, than a powerful woman who knows what she wants.

While I have nothing against men who freely throw their submission out to any domme, this is most definitely not who I am. I am not a groveller or the worthless worm archetype. Im an incredibly determined, strong person with high self-esteem. Im confident in how awesome I am, and I hold my submission as something to be earned. I personally believe there is no greater display of manliness and inner-strength than wilful submission to a strong woman who is deserving of it.

What Im looking for on this site
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1) To meet kinky people of all orientations, genders, shapes, sizes, etc.
2) To build quality relationships with said kinky people
3) To play with people having similar kinksinterests... and a sense of humour!
4) To find that special person.

Contacting Me
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Im rather laissez-faire when it comes to communicating via fet, text, anything digital. Im an old soul. I dont do the social media thing and Im terrible at responding to messages due to being quite busy with vanilla life. However, please feel free to shoot me a message and Ill reply as soon as I get around to checking my inbox. I am in this to meet people after all, so I encourage reaching out. I would love to meet you

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lilymistress
 
 Age: 35
 Near IAD, Virginia