My Style of Domination
Speak softly and carry a big stick;
you will go far.
-Theodore Roosevelt
My style of domination is comprised almost entirely of intellectual stimulation and mental manipulation.
You will find that I command you with calm and poise, never with shouts and stomps. I still say ‘please’ and ‘thank you,’ and when I do so, I expect you to obey without question.
All subjects are expected to be service-oriented and useful to me. Usefulness is tangible; it is scrubbing the floor, massaging my feet, waiting on me at home, taking me out for dinner, or bringing me gifts, just to name a few things. Those who do not revel in devotional acts of usefulness are not welcome to serve.
CONSENSUAL SLAVERY
I prefer my subjects to in-person contacts, exceptions can be made for contacts nurtured online where the applicant proved exceptional. Online connections require extra effort on the part of the subject to maintain and nurture my interest in you. Technology has afforded us the means to be in touch despite border. A subject should know how to exploit online resources to maintain communication.
All contacts are geared toward long-term service and collaring. Those who are awarded my collar willingly offer themselves to me as genuine slaves. Training continues until I determine the subject is ready to make a long-term commitment. Collared subjects remain in my service until dismissed, upon the agreement of both parties.
BEHAVIORAL MODIFICATION
All males taken into my service begin as excellent subjects with an implicit desire to serve and please. Nevertheless, all subjects must be deprogrammed to remove residual undesirable traits. These traits vary among individuals, but are commonly related to willfulness and entitlement issues. Subjects will undergo individualized training to optimize attitude, obedience, fidelity, and devotion.
CORPORAL PUNISHMENT
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As Domina, I reserve the right to utilize corporal punishment as a form of correction, as a means to achieve behavioral modification, or according to my whims in any way I see fit. When I do so, punishment is severe, often creative, and designed to cause varying degrees of pain without permanent harm. However, physical ordeals are not my primary method of domination.
DOMESTIC SERVITUDE
Most typical forms of service I require are classified as domestic servitude. They might include household chores, running errands with or for me, or waiting on me hand and foot while I am at home. A domestic servant will be trained to perform household duties according to my exact specifications and will generally perform those duties under my supervision.
Note that although interactions tend to be domestic in nature, they do not constitute a typical “female lead relationship.” Subjects are not invited to live in my home, and they do not become my sexual or romantic partners.
CHASTITY
Chastity is required, in varying degrees, for all of my long-term subjects. For most subjects, simply refraining from sexual contact with others is sufficient to produce the desired level of devotion. I do not accept into my service any male who cannot be trusted to control his urges and be honest about his behavior. Therefore, most subjects will not require a chastity device.
Complete chastity is utilized in some instances according to need. Reasons for complete chastity could be to reduce frequency of compulsive masturbation, prevent instances of indiscretion, or as punishment. In such cases, a chastity device is to be utilized according to my specific protocol.
FINANCIAL DOMINATION
Financial domination is a natural extension of the total devotion that any collared subject must exhibit. When a man gives freely of himself, his entire being offered up to the service of his Domina, all of his resources are also at her disposal. It is natural for him to wish to serve her and provide for her in all ways, from offering his labor in service of her household, to contributing from his pocket to enhance her life whenever possible.
In some instances, a tithe schedule may be implemented in order to facilitate household contributions. However, in most cases, tributes are required only on a case by case basis.
ONLINE DOMINATION
Those who cannot serve in person as a result of distance and/or financial limitations nevertheless strive toward the highest form of servitude that can be expected. Lack of face-to-face contact generally does not result in a collared arrangement, although complete slavery may not be impossible in some cases. Exceptional candidates overseas can be placed in a structured arrangement, which may result to a collared ownership in the future.
Online domination is a viable option for exceptional candidates only. In such cases, more structured “sessions” are to be scheduled to ensure both parties availability, but they do not follow always end up into collaring, and are not paid hourly.
Typically, a tribute is collected for each online session to make that session serve some utility for me.