I've found that traditional dating sites just don’t quite hit the mark for what I’m seeking, so here I am, hoping to find someone with a firm hand and who resonates more with my desires.

One thing I cherish is forming a genuine emotional connection before diving into the exciting world of kink or any sexual activity. Let’s take the time to get to know each other, share stories, ask interesting questions and see where that takes us!

As a non-binary queer person who uses they/them pronouns, I’m all about challenging traditional gender roles and embracing authenticity. I date Dom’s of all genders and am open to exploring the endless possibilities of connection and intimacy.

On the kink side, I bring years of experience as a sub with a hint of brattiness. From high protocol TPE experiences to the playful and nurturing dynamics of DDlg (minus the nappy/toilet play, please!), I’m eager to explore and grow with the right partner.

Besides my love of kink, I’m a curvy, curious and colourful person who loves engaging in deep and meaningful conversations. Whether we’re discussing consent, philosophy, or the latest hyperpop tunes, I’m all ears! I'm sociable, have a lovely network of friends I call family around me and like to take care and be taken care of with good company, food and conversation.

I’m seeking someone to share a primary relationship with, as my only Dominant. I've also been polyamorous for a few years now and would like a dynamic where we both also date other people. 

So if you're in the UK, under 60 and fancy how I sound just as much, if not more, than my thick and juicy derrière, craft a stellar first message and let's chat!

Looking forward to being on my best behaviour for you very soon xx