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i am 39 male slave from Germany i always think how great it must be to live in a D/s relationship. TPE is a great thing and combined with dependency it sounds perfect to me. some things about me: i obey well, i am into many things. i would like to find my freedom in submission
i think a dominant person should have limits like blood letting, permanent harm and those other foolish things that someone would not survive, but its not important what i think in this matter. a slave or sub should not limit its owner
right now i am interested to make friends online and for real.

thanks for reading and your interest. some more thoughts i have are written in the journal, which is the more poetical part of this profile.



feel free to message me at anytime and no, You do not need to read to the end to message me, i will answer almost all messages :-)

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4/6/2012 6:47:22 AM

If You wonder why i am not online: i am in Las Vegas for vacation. Be back Mid of April!

Have fun!


2/15/2012 5:31:35 AM

I don´t understand why sadists look for masochists, if i would be a sadist i would want to torture someone who hates pain. Is it fun to give pain to someone who likes it? That´s like feeding a bone to the dog and telling the world what a cruel person i am, or giving a toy to a kid - how sadistic :-)

Well that is my thought about that, but i am happy to hear other thoughts and discuss and of course please correct me if i am wrong.


12/23/2011 7:15:46 AM

Cut a tree in the woods, when its dark i get it with the car...


2/10/2011 8:40:29 PM

guess i am outta vegas soon


12/9/2010 3:04:18 PM
Oh, Oh big ol' jet airliner: will be in Vegas again end of Jan

12/13/2009 7:54:21 AM
i started learning french and  would like to learn it online better, maybe if someone can help me i would love to mix this with sm and control, exercise vocabulary and obey and spell right, discipline online if interested.

would like to try that as an experiment. if interested please contact me! thank You.

6/5/2009 4:56:55 AM
Vacation time! be back soon

4/19/2009 2:46:05 AM
Warning: This week i was watching TV, they said that some rubbers or materials have phthalates inside, those make the rubber softer. Holding a hammer, which handle contains those, is like smoking 3500 cigarettes if compared with the danger to have cancer.
I thought well, i guess the sex toys sure have that too and did some research. For all who never thought about that things better read and google it! It´s shokking.
Google: Phthalates, Sex Toys

2/14/2009 11:03:07 PM
Viva Las Vegas
just arrived

1/5/2009 4:19:18 AM
Vacation!
Will be away soon. Booked already my flights, hoping US customs let me in :-) See you in Vegas!

10/2/2008 10:20:14 AM
#10 The Smartass

Never point out failures or mistakes of your Domme/Dom. She/He might allow You to correct Her/Him in a very respectful way, but never be plumb and act like an idiot or smartass. Think always three times. She/He might not made an mistake, maybe it was only a misunderstanding or wanted. Learn to trust and learn that She/He is always right. Ask before correcting your Domme/Dom.

10/1/2008 12:17:56 PM
#9 When will we meet?

Talking 2 minutes to a Domme/Dom does not mean automatically that She/He wants to meet you. And if that´s untrue She/He sure will tell you. So allow your new met Domme/Dom to interview you and decide when and if to meet.

9/29/2008 12:06:30 PM
#8 Insults

If you get no response or no attention some realy can become a pest. Beeing called fake or worse is common. But as in live: The one who is shouting loudest is the one who is not right. Well thanks for the inventor of the ignore button! Think before you write, online its so easy!

9/27/2008 1:59:43 PM
#7 Offerings

Unwanted cam-invitations can be nerving. Maybe She/He does not want to view your cam. And maybe She/He can´t watch your cam because there is no privacy in the room or for other reasons. Don´t keep asking and trying to make Her/Him view you. If the Domme/Dom wants to see you there She/He sure will tell you and not the other way round.

9/24/2008 12:11:41 PM
#6 One sentence?

Many people think one sentence is enough to think. One liners realy are nerving. If you have to say something why don´t you take time to think about it and articulate it in a way someone enjoys reading it.
Write correct and structure your sentences. It´s much easier to read it.

9/23/2008 12:22:47 PM
#5 Thank You

Politeness is a very important thing. Some people forget it and think its not needed online. It never wrong to show politeness. Never forget to thank Your Domme/Dom. Don´t take as acts and beeing for granted.

9/22/2008 12:10:48 PM
#4 Mistress or Ma'am?

One of the mistakes many subs do is addressing a Domme/Dom correctly. One say Mistress, Ma'am, Sir, Goddess, etc. But maybe She/He does not want to be titled and named that way. It`s always good to clear those things first. Some prefer formal and some informal addressings.

9/21/2008 8:25:29 AM
#3 Keep in Touch

Out of sight - out of mind. If you found an interesting Domme/Dom try to keep in touch. You want something from Her/Him. Even if She/He is not always online write a message or email. It´s always nice to get those and shows your interest. If you only mail when She/He is there it could be seen as lack of interest.

9/20/2008 3:24:04 AM
#2 Listen

Some subs realy don´t listen. They seem like an train, going on and on. No left no right. Listening to the person You talk to is important. Let Her/Him lead the way of the conversation. Your issues and topics have to wait.

9/19/2008 7:02:13 AM
Here are some mistakes subs make when dealing with a Domme/Dom:

#1 Willy and his pictures
When writing a Domme/Dom don´t think she is only interest to see your genitals. Reading a mail where first sight is your penis any words are wasted. A first impression counts. And if She/He ever asks to see your Wiener make sure its not such a unesthetic one.

9/18/2008 9:50:58 AM
#6 Things you don´t like...

are unimportant. Think about what your Domme/Dom likes. You chose to serve Her/Him, so do not waste time thinking about your likes. Think about Her/His likes.

9/17/2008 9:26:38 AM
#5 Curiosity killed the cat

Don´t annoy your Domme/Dom with silly questions about everything. If the time is right She or He will sure tell You. And if not it is sure not important for you to know. If you can´t surpress the curiosity make sure you ask at least if you are allowed to ask a question. Then She or He can still decide to say "no".

9/16/2008 8:59:00 AM
#4 Patience

Patience is very important. Don´t be a attentionwhore and start asking every second to be replied or to be noticed. If your Domme or Dom is making you wait it´s not a sign that She/He does not enjoy or like you.

9/15/2008 12:28:56 PM
#3 Don´t PM without permission

You shouldn't privately message (MSG, whisper, PM) any Domme/Dom in channel without first seeking permission in the open channel.

9/14/2008 2:14:05 AM
#2 Better not think twice:
Getting an order you do not understand can happen. But don´t think too much about the reasons, there are some and thats enough to know.The Domme/Dom sure had a reason to make you do that. Don´t waste time, don´t hesitate, do it.

9/13/2008 11:05:56 AM
Subadvice #1:
If you speak to a Domme or Dom online ask Her/Him before you take a phone call, leave to open the door etc. It´s a kind of politeness to do so. Do never make Him/Her wait but be ready and thankful to wait for Her/Him. Always think about what you would do if you would be real with Her/Him, act simular.

9/13/2008 8:22:38 AM
Daily Advice from sub to subs

Why not write something for other unowned subs here and maybe some can use a hint from an equal. Is there a sub-manual, a book where all the rules are, i am not sure and heard of none. Talking about that i got a task from a kind Mistress i know for a long time:

Each time i come online i will be writing a new advice from me for all the other subs.

Maybe some are silly and not applicable for you but lets discuss those. Feel feel free to comment.

6/21/2008 3:40:22 PM
I will keep Your car clean inside and out.
I will keep Your house clean inside and out.
I will write You sweet letters.
I will never argue with You.
I do the dishes.
I vacuum when You are out of the house.
I make Your bed.
I make Your breakfast.
I make You coffee, lots of cream & sugar.
I will shave Your legs when You shower.
I always do Your laundry, handwash if required.
I keep Your shoes spotless.
I work hard for You and pay all the bills.
I give You massages when You are stressed.
I will take out your frustrations and stress out by doing sweet things for You.
I will let You use my body whenever, however it pleases You.
I will always have something interesting or sweet to say, or at least be able to say it with a glance & no words.
I will absorb every genuine smile You give me.
I will enjoy how You fully intend to frustrate the hell out of me in every aspect.
I will take care of all Your scheduling & appointments.
I will draw You a bath every evening with a glass of wine & either bubbles or bathsalts... include candles or dim lighting.
I will be able to handle every and any random thing I throw at you.
I will never stop thinking of You.
I will be a gentleman.
I won't give up.
I will bee patient.
I will be persistent.
I will be yours.
I know that Your presence is a gift and a reward.

4/4/2007 12:19:43 AM
Here are some things i can already and/or could be a basis to learn more:

- cooking
- cleaning (wet and dry)
- washing dishes
- washing clothes
- general housework including technical things
- garden work including vegetable garden

I need more practice or need to learn:
- ironing

If i forgot something on the list - please forgive me, if you have suggestions or questions please feel free to ask.

12/16/2006 4:42:53 PM
in the past weeks i thought more about how i can make myself useful to a domme. how i could be a good houseboy and servant one day. to take away as many unpleasant and stupid duties as possible from her. i think women have so much to think and do even without those things like cleaning, laundry,... i think i would be very happy to see her sitting in a comfortable chair and watching tv, chatting, reading or relaxing from the stress modern times bring along while i am useful and clean the bathroom or whatever. i would have learned what to do next and would not need to disturb her until i am done and could ask her to control what i have done and listen to her tips of how i can do it better or in different ways the next times. in ways that pleases her most.

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