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My name is Johnny and I would hope to meet an awesome woman to get to know and nurture something healthy between us. I like to travel for fun, as well as archery, go to the gun range, paintball, and various other activities. While I am not a dancing machine I get out and cut a rug whenever I hear music regardless of gender. I currently work as a nurse and enjoy the freedom that the position gives me to not only enjoy my travels but, also help those that want to help themselves. While my schedule may sometimes be busy I will always make time for something healthy that nurtures not only my body, but my mind and heart also. Thanks for taking time out of your day to read my page I appreciate that tremendously. Have a fantastic day.

7/11/2017 7:20:14 PM Ladies please wise up. If he has time to play he has time to commit. I run across so many profiles about people claiming they want substance or other things but, are willing to play with anyone or other folks. You cannot want something but, not willing to sacrifice for it. Something worth having is worth sacrificing for so please stop complaining when you get garbage if all you do is hang around a dump.

6/27/2017 6:50:49 AM Ok, I am both sad and ashamed that it has to be said. I am a sadistic man. However, that level of sadism is really dependent upon my sub/slave relationship. I can be as extreme or gentle as I need to be. Simply, because I enjoy the pain and she enjoys receiving it does not mean that she is subject to what i think her tolerance is nor to what mine is. Through thoughtful, open, and honest communication we can reach an understanding that may encourage her to safely expand her tolerance and desire. Also, just as important as inflicting the pain is THE AFTERCARE. I cannot stress this enough aftercare is just as much a part of the experience and enhances the bonding process. So, please anyone who reads this and is either a sadist or knows one please advocate for after care. Whats the use of having something valuable (sub/slave) if you are not going to take care of it.

6/25/2017 12:35:47 PM I see a lot of profiles on here that tend to immediately list the things that they do not want or tolerate and it baffles me. Now, hard limits i can understand however, other things i think most should be a little flexible on. For, those that shun folks because of their age, distance, color, etc then go on to complain that most people are fakes you should really try opening your mind and embracing new things. It just may be someone out side the age range, color preference, or distance that you have secluded yourself into that may contribute most to your happiness. Just because you tried something once or twice with someone who did not deserve you does not mean it will always be that way. All that you will do in the end is end up frustrated and alone or settling for garbage when you are worth so much more.

6/18/2017 3:22:08 AM Ladies hopefully I can educate you without offending you. Most (98%) of the doms on here are really little boys who abuse the lifestyle for their own selfish ends because they lack people skills to seduce the mind. I have been running across a lot of profiles with under consideration of so and so. This is just a ploy to get all of the benefits without the work. After, getting to know each other if a dom/domme still does not know if they want you just walk away. That way I do not have to run across the bitter sub/slave profile. A real dom will only value you as much as you value yourself.

6/9/2017 6:45:15 PM Don't know why it still amazes me lol, I run across profiles that ask for people to be original and to write more than a hey or couple of word sentences. However, when you acknowledge and oblige their request they respond with a one word or couple word answer. This is confusing because just as you do not want them to contact you like that why reply that way? neither action propels communication and at the end of the day that is the foundation to knowing someone.

6/8/2017 7:14:00 PM Man this website seems to be full of scammers or lazy folks. 97% of the profiles in which the woman identifies as a domme is soliciting someone for money. they want a pay piggy or have a wish list or demand contribute for their time, I think these people are misrepresenting the lifestyle because they are just lazy. If you cannot support yourself or supplement your lifestyle on your own then why try to have a submissive/slave. The art of Domination should be a part of your being just as your heart is and come just as naturally as breathing. They seem to forget the fundamental fact that regardless of what a person identifies with they are basically human and have needs and desires. All this crap about its not about you its about me and you have no say is a load of crap. A true dom/master will not have to tell his/her submissive/slave that because once the true dynamic and connection is establish they will fulfill each others wants and desires. If you run across these profiles i implore you to run far away otherwise you will end up getting hurt. You as a submissive/slave should not have to pay anyone for your submission just as a domme/mistress should not be required to purchase it. If you are looking for something genuine then i promise you that is not the way to go. However, if you are looking for something quick, cheap, and dirty then by all means.

6/4/2017 6:30:59 PM == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Owner 100% Dominant 100% Degrader 100% Rigger 100% Sadist 100% Master/Mistress 100% Primal (Hunter) 80% Daddy/Mommy 60% Exhibitionist 50% Experimentalist 47% Vanilla 45% Voyeur 35% Non-monogamist 11% Ageplayer 1% Primal (Prey) 0% Rope bunny 0% Slave 0% Degradee 0% Brat 0% Boy/Girl 0% Submissive 0% Masochist 0% Pet 0% Switch

6/4/2017 5:28:41 AM So. I have run across some profiles on here including doms and dommes. What I notice is that 98% of the doms/masters subs/slaves have their definitions a little skewed about their roles. Being a sub/dom/slave/master/switch is not something that you do for the sake of attention or others. It is something that you just are an innate part of you no different than a heartbeat. Whatever, your role is you have to be fluid and evolving in it. A master may own his slave but, he should never stop nurturing her to grow. If, he/she cannot grow with their slave then the dynamic can't sustain. Regardless, of the degree of degradation you enjoy you have to first be and give respect to who you are to get to the best you for yourself and your partner. Man this website has a lot of shady characters on both sides of the equations.

6/4/2017 4:59:56 AM I honestly think men or women who use their subs/slaves to find other women are lazy, sorry, and crappy losers. As, the Dom/domme if you are wanting to add to your household it is up to you to find, break, mold, and nurture that new spirit. I feel so much heartache for those who have to recruit on their master/dom/domme's behalf.

5/29/2017 4:40:31 PM Hmm, why is it that people are so absorbed with what is in something for them. Haven't been on the profile a week and already have run across some tomfoolery. There is a such thing as friends and conversation that does not have to involve romantic or sexual interactions. Life is short and a lot of people can use great friends to navigate it with.