I have several decades of BDSM and D/s experience.  Today it is more about the relationship and less about expanding my experience (or yours).

I am married to a very aware, very supportive spouse.  Our relationship started as Master/slave and has morphed over several years.  We are a couple; but we are also polyamorous.  There is absolutely no drama here.

I believe in and adhere to SANE, SAFE and CONSENSUAL. 

While I tend toward the sensual, I am also as strict as the situation warrants.  A cathartic flogging or caning can be wonderful -- but various other D/s elements may come into play.  D/s is sexual for me (just fair warning).

I am always interested in meeting others that might be interested in friendship.  I am long-term oriented in my relationships and thus the connection and chemistry are important.  I recognize that a connection is established over time (just like Trust)...

PLEASE BE LOCAL.  I find that long distance relationships frustrate most people (particularly me) and are counter-productive to building a vibrant, lasting relationship. 

I am a genuinely nice person and seek someone(s) with a similar demeanor - one can be a good Dom AND care about others.   I am open to a relationship with a lady or a couple.  I think I am a great partner -- I am more of a "giver" and less of "taker" in a relationship.

I am sometimes vegan, socially aware, an animal lover (no not THAT way...sheeesh) and most find me warm and caring.   I am the male half of a Dom/Domme couple (and she is my slave girl....it isn't as complicated as it sounds!). 

I would enjoy hearing from you if some of the above captured your interest.  And if you made it the end of this profile, I suspect you may have some masochistic tendencies....no worries, I can help you with that!