Pretty simple, really... I'm looking for what my profile name implies. Above all, I need interaction, banter, give-and-take, passion, intensity, depth, and a brain that engages. I wont try to change you. I want you in the raw, visceral, honest state that's really you. And thats why we need to explore.

At the beginning and at the end, it's a relationship. It's complicated by the fact its kinky and intense, and power exchange is a trust issue like no other. But its still a relationship. So we need to confirm that we can relate.

It's also 105 percent between the ears. It has to work there no matter what. The rest we'll create and craft to fit us.

Its going to take time to find someone who fits my idiosyncrasies and vise versa. A lot to learn about you, and you about me we have to be friends first (and vanilla first, at least a little bit...)

So if youre in a hurry, we probably wont work. You need to want to invest the time and energy, correspondence and chat, and email and talk, and digging deep, knowing that the exploration itself will be passionate and intense and make us both smile, and the resulting relationship will have passion, intensity and laughter, too. What else is there?

What I need from you is that you're confident, smart, and creative; that you have a life outside the Internet, and interests and passions and curiosities that you cherish. And you take care of yourself physically and mentally, and don't smoke.

Please read this carefully look at my interests, extrapolate and mold them on to you. If it feels like you, write me. If you fit at all, I will write you. Ask what you need to ask. Tell me what you think I need to know.

Discretion Its important. What does that mean? It means that a lot of the world doesn't understand what we do here, and I really like my profession, my lifestyle, my career, and I wont jeopardize it. You shouldn't, either.

If you're not willing to do what you say, when you say, and if you don't have the decency to tell me, then dont bother writing. Its impolite and annoying.

Last thing... Real life is always going to be nuts. But there is time for this.

If you are interested, lets talk. No men, TG, CD etc. Thank you for reading if you got down this far. Whatever you do, I wish you well.