4/12/2018 9:57:12 PM: My limit list -fiore-: THE FOLLOWING LIST IS NOT ALL COMPREHENSIVE. MOST IS NOT SOMETHING I HAVE TO HAVE..NOT INTERESTED MAY NOT NECESSARY BE A HARD LIMIT. AS EVERYTHING IS NEGOTIABLE. I have put notes by items too, please look over tell me your thoughts, things you have done, or would like to try. X Not interested XX INTERESTED BUT NOT DONE IT OR SAMPLED IT ONCE XXX INTERESTED AND HAVE TRIED IT XXXX LIKES IT WOULD DO IT AGAIN XXXXX LOVES IT.. WANTS IT 24/7 Abrasion XX Age play X Anal sex XX –never had anal sex. Anal plugs (small) XXXX Anal plugs (large) XX Anal plug (public, under clothes) XXX Animal Roles X Arm & leg sleeves (arm binders) X Aromas X hyxiation X Ass eating X Auctioned for Charity XX -if it was for a good cause, example raise money for cancer.. Bathroom use control XX BDSM COMMUNITY AND MUNCHES XXXX Beating (soft) X Beating (Hard)X Beastiality X Bisexuality X Blindfolds XXXX BLOOD X Being serviced (sexual) XXX Being bitten XX Breast bondage XXX Breath control XXX Branding XX Boot worship X Bondage (light) XXXX Bondage (heavy) XXX Bondage (multi-day) XXX Bondage (public, under clothing)XXX Breast whipping XXX Brown Showers X Cages (locked inside of) XXX Caning X Catheterization XX Cells/Closets (locked inside of) XX Chains XXX Chastity belts XXX Chauffeuring X Choking XXX Chores (domestic service) XXX Clothespins XXX Cock worship XXXX Collars (worn in private) XXXXX Collars (worn in public) XXXXX Competitions with other subs X Contracts XX Corsets (wearing) XXX Corset training(waist reduction) XX – very interested in this. Crawling – XX It’s hard as I have a torn ACL. CROPS XXXX Cuffs (leather) XXX Cuffs (metal) XX Cutting X Dilation X Dildoes XXX Double penetration XXX DUNGEONS XXXX Drugs and Alcohol during play X Drugs anytime X im DD free Alcohol – very light drinker… hardly drink Electricity X ELECTRICAL PLAY XX Enforced chastity XXX Enema’s XX Erotic dance (public) X Examinations (physical) XXXX Exercise (forced/required) XX Exhibitionism (friends) XXXX Exhibitionism (strangers) XX Eye contact restrictions XXX Face slapping X Fantasy abandonment X Fantasy Rape XX Fantasy Gang Raped X Fear (being scared) X FIRE CUPPING XXXX FIRE MOUSSE XXXX FIRE WANDS XXXX Fire Drumming XX Fisting (anal) X Fisting (vaginal) XX FLOGGERS XXXXX Following orders XXXX Foot worship X Forced bedwetting X Forced Crossdressing X Forced homosexuality X Forced masturbation XXX Forced nudity (private) XXXX Forced nudity (around others) XXX Forced servitude XXXX Full head hoods XX Furs/feathers XX Gags (cloth) XX Gags (rubber) XXX Gags (tape) XX Gags(phallic) XX Gags(inflated) XX Garters/stockings XXX Gas masks X Gates of Hell (Male)X Genital sex XXXX Given away to Domme Dom (temp) X Given away to Domme Dom (Perm) X Golden showers XX Group sex X Hairbrush spankings XX Hair pulling XXX Hand jobs (giving) XXXX Hand jobs (receiving) N/A Harems (serving w/other subs) X Harnessing (leather) XX Harnessing (rope) XX Having food chosen for you XXX Having clothing chosen for you XXX Head (giving fellatio) XXX High heel worship X High heel wearing(forced) X Homage with tongue (non-sexual) NO CLUE WHAT THIS IS… Hoods XX Hot oils (on genitals) XXX Hot waxing XXX HOUSE PARTIES XXXX Housework (doing) XXXX Human Puppy Dog X Humiliation (private) XXX Humiliation (public) XX Hypnotism XX Ice cubes XXX Immobilization XX Impact Play XXXX Infantilism X Initiation rites X Injections X Interrogations X Japanese rope bondage X Kidnapping XX Kneeling – BAD KNEES. I NORMALLY SIT AT SOMEBODY’S FEET. KNIFE PLAY XXXX Leash/leader XXX Leather clothing XX Leather restraints XXX Lectures for misbehavior XX Licking (non-sexual) XXX Lingerie (wearing) XXX Manacles & Irons XX Manicures (giving) XX Massage (giving) XXX Massage (receiving) XXXX Medical scenes XX Modeling for erotic photos X Mouth bits XX Mummification XX NEEDLES X Nipple clamps XXX Nipple weights XXX NOTHING ILLEGAL.X HARD LIMIT Oral/anal play (rimming) XX Over-the-knee spanking XXX Orgasm denial XXXX Orgasm control XXXX Outdoor scenes XXX Outdoor sex XXX PADDLES XXXX Pain (severe) XX Pain (mild) XXXX Personal training XX Phone sex (serving Dom) XXX Phone sex (serving Dom's friends) X Phone sex (commercial) X Piercing (temporary) XX Piercing (permanent) XX Plastic surgery X Pony Play X Prison scenes X Prostitution(public pretend) X Public exposure XXX Punishment Scene XXX Pussy Cock whipping XXX Pussy worship X Riding crops XXXX Riding the horse (crotch tort.) XX Rituals XXXX Religious scenes X Restrictive rules on behavior XXX Rubber/latex clothing XX Rope body harness XXX Saran wrapping XXX SCAT X School girl XX Scratching - getting XXX Scratching - giving XXX Sensory deprivation XX Serving XXXX Serving as art XX Serving as an Ashtray X Serving as furniture X Serving as a maid XX Serving as toilet (urine) X Serving as waitress XXX Serving orally (sexual) XXX Serving others (supervised) XX Serving others (unsupervised) X Sexual deprivation (short term) XX Sexual deprivation (long term) X Shaving (body hair) XX Shaving (head hair) X SHOCK COLLARS XX Skinny dipping XXX Sleep Deprvation XX Sleep sacks XX Slutty clothing (private) XXXX Slutty clothing (public) XXX Spanking XXXX Spandex clothing XXXX Speech restrictions XX Speculums (Anal) XX Speculums (vaginal) XX Spreader bars XX Standing in corner XXX Stocks XX Straight jackets XX Strap-on-dildos (sucking on) XX Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by) XX Strap-on-dildos (wearing) X Strapping Full Body Beating X Suspension (upright) X – PANIC ATTACS BEING TIED AND SUSPENDED… TRYING TO OVERCOME THIS FEAR. Suspension (inverted) X Suspension (horizontal) X Supplying partners for Dom X Swallowing semen XXX Swallowing urine X Swapping (one other couple) X Swinging (multiple couples) X Tattooing XX Teasing XXX TENS UNIT XXX Threesome XX Tickling XX Topless Beaches XX Triple penetration XX Uniforms XX Including others XX Vaginal dildo XXXX Verbal humiliation XX Vibrator on genitals XXX Voyeurism (watching others) XXX Voyeurism (your Dom w/others) XX Video (watching others) XXX Video (recordings of you) X Voice training XX WATER BOARDING X WATERSPORTS XX Water Torture X Waxing (hair removal) XX WAX PLAY XXXX Wearing symbolic jewelry XXXX WHIPS XX Wrestling X Wooden paddles XXX

9/6/2017 7:14:05 PM: Written 9/6/17. MESSAGE Just 1 name across the screen My heart leaps. The pounding of drums start to beat a slow steady pace My blood begins to boil sending an inferno fire within me Butterflies flap 1000 of flutters through uncharted territories within Goosebumps raise the little tiny theads of hair across my skin Toffee iris's shimmer in the lights of the room I hold my breath as I read his message, imagining His voice as I read his writing. Trembling waiting for His next reply.

8/15/2017 7:16:27 PM: Fake Dom's and sub frenzy I read on face book today all the red flags for a fake Dom..but yet there are no rules for a fake sub from what I could find. Everyone told me a fake Dom wants to collar you right away. But nobody says a fake sub wants to be collared.right away He Will ask you for a meeting to prove sex But could be same for a submissive as the girls are just as bad as the guys in making fake profiles, not wanting to talk via skype, kik text, either or could be married... He Is more concerned with his wants and needs then hers Everyone has wants and needs or we would not be here. We subs have posted what we were looking for in a Dom what we want what we need. He Doesn't respect your boundaries and pushes you to do things that are hard limits How do limits change then if not pushed or tried. Is that what safe words are for, trust and communication. Hard limits will remain hard limits and soft will remain soft unless they are pushed. You have to trust that the person has your best interest at heart. Want to be called Sir or Master upon first meeting Yet there are girls out there who want and need that and want to be called kitten or slave or slut upon first meeting He Doesn't want to be around you other then to have sex. There are girls who don't want a relationship and is only looking for kinky fuckery Will try to Dom you before the relationship even starts Girls want to submit before the relationship starts. So think long and hard. Why is it sub frenzy for girls and fake Dom's for guys. Why the double standards Yes there are guys out there who are just horny but why label them as fake. Some may be new to the life style and going through 'Dom Frenzy' Why the double standards. We were all new at one point and time. I now hate the term fake Dom's Maybe uneducated is a better term. Or maybe there are fake Dom's as much as there are fake subs.

7/2/2017 8:15:13 AM: 7/2/2017im not a maid, but i can clean.im not a chef, but i can cook.im not a musician, but i like musicim not a princess, but likes to be cared for. im not a dare devil, but love adventure. im not emotional, but i have feelings. im not a goddess, but love my curves.im not a pain slut, but love to shed tears. im not selfish, but i dont share what is mine. im not perfect, but i am perfect for ONE!im strong, im happy, im me, im free. 

5/23/2017 8:43:54 AM: Is there anybody real on these sites. I hear the same thing from men as I do from the ladies... bdsm is not all about sex, and it seems like most men are here either looking for a quick hook up or cyber. That's not me, that's not who I am... I am the girl I want my Mam to be prout of when we are out in public, holding hands, I know what I am to him at home in the bedroom. I want to be the one he takes home to meet his family. What I see though is a lot of boys and children on these sites, not just here but alt.com, POF, meetme, match .com. and the list goes on and on. How is a woman to look up to a Man and give Him respect when it's not earned. If He can't control is actions, and be respectable at first how can He Dominate or take control of another person's life. For those of you who are on here looking for a romp in the hay why list yourself as Dominant? You should list yourself as Primal as that is not what D/s is about. That's my rant. Looking for somebody real, real feelings and emotions, caring, considerate, but has His life together, knows what He wants and what Ds, really is. And not be afraid to take a chance on something that just might be great