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Hetero Male, 63, Marysville, Washington 
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mstrjx

Before I get started I wanted to let you all know that I feel very blessed at the friendships I’ve made here and the people I have touched (not THAT way, silly) either by my writings in the discussions or in personal conversations. That I have had these opportunities and the feedback I have gotten means so much to me.

 

Cheers, all. I’m a dominant male who is looking for a permanent, in-person relationship. I know unless you’re my next door neighbor this would necessarily means starting with online correspondence and chatting, but it is just a means to an end. I’m certainly willing to let things flow at your pace until you are comfortable, trusting, safe. That will always be my first priority before getting too deep into things. Once we get comfortable enough and feel the connection, I would be more than willing to voice verify or on cam. I hope you would be willing to do the same.

 

If this were a job interview, I would point out my intelligence and attention to detail, which would be good for short- and long-range planning. You would hopefully notice my leadership skills and see that I’m unafraid of taking the reins and making you comfortable, yet simultaneously vulnerable. I utilize a healthy dose of logic, which enables me to understand and get you to agree to the path we’re following. I have a lot of fun with psychological methods in order to get inside and stay inside your head while not doing irreparable harm. Unless you want to, them I’m fine with that, too. As you might have noticed, I wrap the package with humor which ‘can’ be a constant undercurrent of the adventures we might have. Humor is but one of the methods that I use for effective communication. I try to convey myself accurately through honesty, transparency, sharing. The stakes are too high for anything less, and I hope you feel the same.

 

As indicated just above, I try and let my honesty and what charm I muster shine through as quickly as possible. Back in the day, when dinosaurs still roamed the earth, men were chastised for being unemotional, lacking the desire or will to commit, being insensitive. Other than the fact that being insensitive might be a good trait to have in certain types of BDSM relationships, I have never seen myself having such male traits. I’m very desirous of a committed relationship and I have become far more in touch with feelings and emotions than perhaps I used to be.

 

I’ve been very active in BDSM relationships and activities since the early 1990’s and know that I won’t ever cross the line back over to the vanilla side. I enjoy many kinks and would most appreciate a partner who is open-minded, potentially uninhibited and willing to experiment. I don’t have a set style per se: I like to start with what makes my partner interested in this world and expand from there.

 

I’m not perfect. I don’t expect you to be. I’m fortunate in that I don’t have past baggage to deal with, and I don’t have any psychological issues that you need to be concerned about. I’m not a narcissist, nor a psychopath, nor disabled in any way. I’m older than I would like to be, and weigh more than I wish to, but this isn’t about me; it’s about what I can bring to your life in ways you haven’t experienced.

 

About the wolf stereotypes, the most important thing one needs to know is this: I don’t see myself Alpha enough to TAKE what I want, and I’m quite sure I wouldn’t want to be. That’s not who I am. But I AM plenty good enough to HAVE and to KEEP what I want. I do, however, qualify as a Sigma male, if that is meaningful to you.

 

If I don’t find you, please don’t hesitate to come find me. I know you could very well be shy. If you show a little courage, I’ll help with the rest.

 

Hey, I’ve got statistics, too:

 

== Results from bdsmtest.org == Taken September, 2023

100% Rigger

98% Dominant

97% Owner

94% Sadist

94% Master/Mistress

92% Rope bunny

92% Experimentalist

89% Degrader

83% Masochist

76% Degradee

67% Voyeur

66% Brat tamer

60% Switch

59% Submissive

44% Non-monogamist

31% Exhibitionist

19% Slave

18% Primal (Prey)

13% Daddy/Mommy

11% Pet

9% Primal (Hunter)

6% Brat

4% Vanilla

0% Boy/Girl

0% Ageplayer

 

4/9/2023 4:58:16 PM: I think it is easily possible that single dominant people are seen as inflexible and unyieldimg.  Set in their ways.  My way or the highway.  My interests are now your interests and there is nothing else to be said on the matter. I suppose that could be true for some people.  It is NOT true for me.  I was an only child, more or less, and as far as I can tell that is still true.  Due to reasons I will gladly discuss with individuals inquisitive enough to really want to know, I was a bit of a loner growing up.  That didn't bother me, and it still doesn't. Fast forward a thousand years and as a single person I live my life the way I see fit and do what interests me.  Having said that, I am here to meet people and develop relationships.  As I look around the CS landscape I suspect the same is true of most of you.  Being in a relationship and being single are two completely different things.  Within the framework of my relationship I expect to be dominant, but that does not mean that I expect to carry my single life along with me.  Good relationships are good because there is at least some level of learning of the other person, and compromise when it seems to be practical.   I would ask that people who look at profiles and interest lists and try to assume that the square peg is always going to be a square peg and will never be able to fit into a round hole to look in the mirror and ask themselves if that is even a safe assumption of themselves.

1/11/2023 3:27:08 PM: Let us play the Let's Pretend game.  (I love the Let's Pretend game!)   Let's pretend that the people typing these profiles and journals and adding pictures and stuff are REAL PEOPLE.  Yup, that might be a bigger ask than is possible.  But let's pretend that is the truth.  It certainly must be for some of us, yes?   Let's further pretend that those who can be defined as real people have been on this site or the predecessor for a while.  Some might have met someone and then UNmet that someone and are back.  Some of those are people who come here lurking but never connecting.  Let's even pretend that some people here are downright serious about all of this but are just having problems connecting with someone they feel is truly compatible.   At the end of the day, however, there is something that we cannot pretend about.  Those of us who are, are real people, with real feelings, and real ambition to eventually find what we want so we don't have to be here any more.  Please take some time to consider others.  Show some respect.  Don't make assumptions about who we are or why we are here.  It can be hard enough without the background noise.   None of us are perfect, and we all have one or two or dozens of flaws.  There is no pretending in the world that can make that not true.  We also have preferences.  Those preferences might very well exclude some these same people who are trying so hard to be right for SOMEONE.  I cannot ask anyone to turn their back on their beliefs or their flaws or their preferences, but what I CAN ask is that we show some kindness, some human dignity.  If anything from the past few years should have taught us is that not only are there trolls online, but many of them started being trolls in real life as well.  People have learned how not to be their best selves.   Be kind.  Be friendly.  MAYBE pretend to think outside the box a little bit.  MAYBE be a little more inclusive, or forgiving those flaws in others that seemed intolerable to you yesterday.  Make someone happy.   I don't want to be the last one here.  Do you?

12/8/2022 1:03:23 PM: Cheers, all.  If you would, please do me this courtesy.  If I send you an email, trust that it's not a simple sentence, but something substantial, heartfelt.  Something that took me a few minutes to compose and edit and make coherent.  If you read my email (and read this), please send me an email back, if only to tell me you are not interested.  I think I've been pretty consistent doing this in the past, and I hope you would as well.  Thanks, and that's all.

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