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| Finally feeling like Houston is really home. We've made some good friends, we are beginning to see our wild west influence on the play out here, and now we are hosting our very exclusive parties. It's going to be a good year.
A little about us:
We are a very kinky, very devoted married couple, currently playing with the idea of finding a girlfriend for both of us. We like to play with others, and we have a lot of intimate friends. We are both educated, professional, well travelled, very funny, and really interesting to know. We want to find someone who really fits us, someone we can have a relationship with. But we have plenty of room for more casual play-friends, too.
We are experienced and responsible players, fairly well known in the Phoenix (and now Houston) community, and we host small, intimate parties at a private dungeon facility . Honestly, we play like total badasses and the action is hot. You want to be at our parties - there's not a lot of waiting around for someone to do something.
While we are very sexual in our lives, we do not take ourselves and the whole BDSM thing too seriously. It's fun, we do it very well, and we also have lives to live in the rest of the world. Balance makes us better, and we like people with a similar outlook.
She is switch-y, but when it comes to playing with other girls, she is strictly dominant. Submissive and Switch women are always welcome, either alone or as a couple. Our main requirement is for the people we play with and welcome into our lives have to be responsible for themselves, understand and communicate their needs and limitations, and do NOT bring in unnecessary drama.
- T & L
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Brief update: have located two kinky people in my law school class. |
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Finally finishing my first year of law school. If there are kinky people in my class, they are well hidden. |
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At last, private dungeon party for kinky fuckers, scheduled for 3/18 at HEAT. If you don't know what/where that is, message me.
This party is a hard play - hard fuck kind of party. Couples who play well, play hard, and aren't afraid to share in their fun are invited... IF they are drama free, fun and creative, don't smoke (or at least can control it for a couple hours), and take reasonably good care of themselves physically speaking. Single girls can attend our parties - but they must wade in and play - no standing and watching just because you are hot. Play or get out.
This should cut out about 95% of the community, but those left standing are going to have an amazing time. Fortune rewards the bold.
- T. |
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Been a little while since I was involved with this site. Seems as though the southcoast is more involved with that other site.
But - a little update: WE ARE HOSTING PARTIES AGAIN. And the parties are bad-ass. It's a very different kind of party than the locals are used to seeing, but that's ok. Sometimes it's nice to mix it up.
Our parties are hard play, hard fuck, hard music. No food, no chit chat, and no waiting around until 3am for the good play to start.
If you think this is you, and you are in reasonably good physical shape, let us know.
- T. |
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Crap - we have to start the Moving Process. This is such a pain. |
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So the party last weekend was one of the weaker parties we've had at our home, and it was still pretty fucking hot. I think that says a lot about our circle - there was fucking and sucking, I did a 30 minute anal massage on a new girl who is curious about taking it up the ass, there was flogging and whipping on one end of the house and a hot young college student mummified in saran wrap at the other.
That's still hotter than most other parties I attend. We are looking for a weekend open in December, but it might not be possible - Hard S/M sex in Vegas first weekend, then it's Roy's invite only annual holiday party, then one free weekend, then the holidays, then the private New Years Eve thing...
Might not be till January.
- T. |
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Things continue to be good. I have a new job, the baby is fat and happy, the wife has never been more beautiful.
We had a party last night, and it was pretty much what I've come to expect: hot sex, dirty games, whipping and beating, anal play, partner swapping - all the fun things that make this marriage exceptional.
We've been talking about it for a while, but we are ready to start looking for a girlfriend. We had a candidate, a beautiful woman and good friend, but she just isn't ready for something like this. It's disappointing, mainly because I think it's her religion that's holding her back from what she wants.
We don't want a third person in the house just to have her, we don't identify as "Poly", which usually means they will take anyone to fill that third position. We want someone we can really love and trust, this is important.
I anticipate this taking a long time, but why not start here? Girl of our dreams, where are you? |
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Haven't updated in literally years. I'm in a whole new life, too much to update here. I'm married, expecting first child, own a home, and feel pretty good about things. |
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I suppose I should update this one, from time to time. I mostly keep all these details on my livejournal, but this is just to point out that I am alive, still loving where I live, enjoying my job, and having a rather nice social life.
Say hello to me, if we haven't met yet.
- T. |
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Nope. Moved near Papago park. Love the new place - but the playspace needs a little work. I suppose that's what a job is for: funding the toys. |
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I think I might be moving to North Phoenix. I don't know much about that side of town, so I have some research to do, it seems. |
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Honestly, my current sex life leaves me without complaint. I have, through various means, found some nice girls for a little consistent, yet casual fun. Despite this fun I am having, I can’t help but feel that there is a lack of deeper connection.
I have a good job, enough disposable income, and the car still runs. Things are comfortable now. Maybe it was the act of turning 34 that has me wondering how long it’s going to be a solo journey.
What I have found, is that the kinky sites are full of girls who are not looking for serious commitment, and the vanilla sites are full of girls who are not looking to be tied down, spanked, interrogated, and forced to confess their dirtiest sins. This puts me in the middle, it seems.
Ah, well – it almost sounds as if I am looking for a flaw in the system. Most guys would envy my position in life right now, and I have to remember that.
T. |
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New home, new job. Still in Phoenix, but I feel a little more located now. Things are still in disarray, but coming together. Now I finally have a place to display the small-but-growing collection of whips and other ways to spend too much money.
T. |
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This weekend is the Arizona fetish ball, and I have made the decision not to attend. The band will be great, as will the demos, the costumes, the party - all of it. I am simply tired of going to interesting places all alone. Particularly a place that is all about showing off the couple (or triad, or multiplex).
So... movie?
T. |
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Long weekend.
I am finding that I enjoy the weeks much more than the weekend, and that is demented and sad. Here’s why: Sometime in the last couple years, all my friends got married. Every single one of them. I am happy for them, but now, all their parties and gatherings are couple parties, all about home ownership and babies. I feel like I just don't fit into that little world.
I don’t know how it ended up that I don’t know any single people, but it just happened one day when I wasn’t looking. Even the local kink group are all mostly unavailable / otherwise attached girls. Still a nice group for community involvement and education, but lousy dating ground.
I know there are an endless supply of single people near ASU, but I am 33, and I am looking for something a little more specific; a girl who has lived enough to know what she really wants.
I know there are single people in my age bracket in this city, but where are they? I am still finding my way around here, and it’s a far different place than when I lived here last. If anyone from Arizona reads this and has some suggestions, I am all ears.
T. |
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I am settling into life here in Arizona, although it's a slow process. My hope is that this place (finally) be my permanent home after 5 years of living all over the country, and other parts of the world. I love travel, but I want a permanent address for a change. I think this is it.
Arizona has been the distant star around which my comet orbits. I moved here with my father in Junior high so long ago, then left in the middle of high school. I came back to graduate high school and went into the army. Returned from the army to attend ASU, then left again for a career in Southern California, Texas, and Chicago. Returned to help my father's business in 2003, then left for a year in the Philippines - and now I am back, yet again. I suppose that there is no escape, so I might as well settle in.
Kink-wise, it's always been there. I can tell you what I did to my girlfriend when I was fifteen and my parents were gone for the weekend... but I'd hate to throw you the good stories so soon. I'll suffice it to say that it started shortly after my first sexual experience, and hasn't left.
That said - I live in the real world. Kink is part of sex, part of intimacy, and in a small way, it's part of life for me. But when fantasy and reality collide, reality tends to win. I don't have unrealistic expectations and demands. I don't play cyber, or do long distance ownership - this is interaction between people, and you need presence to do it right. Also, I don't demand immediate submission when I meet someone. Think about it - if she'll kneel before anyone who demands it, then there is nothing really special about me, is there? I'd rather feel like it's given after some consideration, treat it as a serious decision. Some submissives like to call anyone in leather pants, "Sir"; that's ok if it's being done for their comfort, but I know it's a meaningless title, until it comes from the heart.
Is this sounding like the ad, or merely talking about the philosophy of kink? Ultimately, is there a difference? I don't know. I do know that when I have gotten seriously involved with vanilla girls, the relationship has failed, largely on sexual grounds, sad as that is. You want to believe that love is all that matters, but for long term happiness, you gotta have lust, too. My lust comes with a kink, and if she doesn't have that, too - then it just won't work.
I have a whole journal on another site, but won't link to it here. It's in depth regarding all aspects of life, not just the search for a nice girl to play with. No need to repeat it here. This is about dating, finding a partner, and what's here in Arizona. Let's see if this works.
T. |
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