I was reading through someone's journal and there it was. The same old hateful troll garbage that I have seen in too many other peoples' journals. Some "dominant' decided to lash out with ignorance and abuse. And this guy responded the way most decent folks do, citing the troll in his journal for everyone else to see and leaving it pretty much at that. And I guess that's what we do. Keep tolerating the abusers until they evolve, or just try to politely ignore the ranting, threatening, disaffected, fuck-wit with an internet connection until they tire and go away or cross a line.
[Note to self: look at forum software this site uses and see if rating or voting features exist and can be extended to journals and email. Maybe a troll button kind of like the spam button my regular email has. And a no-trolls-filter as an opt-in checkbox]
It really disappoints me to see that kind of crap. Especially around here. I'm a sadistic mother fucker, make no mistake, giving pain gives me a raging hard on. Seeing my pet struggle and squirm, pushing her limits/obliterating her is my drug. And I need it. I know its twisted, but there it is.
Thing is I'm a sadist not a psychopath. What's the difference? I should think in a kink community that would be obvious. I'm not interested in having this conversation around the family table at Thanksgiving; the vanilla beans would have a hard time grasping the nuance and maybe that's why they stay away from the edge. Anyway, around here it should be a no-brainer. Safe, Sane and Consensual. Start with respect and whatever it is from there it is done with the interest of mutual enjoyment. Fortunately a masochist sense of enjoyment is complimentary to mine. Nature's funny that way. If the dom treats you like a person first, then they are either one of those TV psychopaths like Dexter (in which case you are really screwed) or possibly just a twisted mother fucker like myself looking for other twisted mothers with whom to peel back the skin on normal and tease the raw exposed pulsing muscle of our mutual sexuality till it bleeds just a little.
Anyway, the point I was wandering toward when I started this entry is that just like in the rest of life, the rules for getting along aren't all that complicated. And the benefits for it are really really great. You know.. people enjoy talking to you, beautiful submissives keep coming back for more, self respect echoed in the respect you get from others, beautiful subs, ...did I mention the girls?
These rules are kindergarten stuff. And dominance is about control, SELF-CONTROL.
Got that? That means control yourself. If you can't help but to lash out in email at total strangers how the fuck do you think you can even begin to cope with the responsibility of having that same or similar stranger completely helpless and at your sadistic whim?
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This rant was brought to you today by douche bags all over the internet and the world who remain unable to see beyond their own fear/ignorance/bruised ego/waning potency/.... and continue to try and put it on others.
Feel free to point out the hypocrisies if you actually read this far.
