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Seeking: Live-in, 24-7 TPE sub/slave. Contract and/or trial period negotiable with the right partner. Me: SWM, in MD, Educated, 6’0”, 190 lbs, HWP, Intelligent, 53 years old (always young at heart), Brown Hair, Blue Eyes, drug/disease free (expect same), smoker, sense of humor, very strict, not always completely fair, experienced (22 years in D/s), R/T only, high sex drive, financially stable You: 18-43, single (or otherwise able to accommodate a live-in TPE), any race, HWP, drug/disease free, R/T only, location unimportant (provided relocation is feasible at some point), bi-sexual or straight, R/T experience preferred but not required, absolute obedience mandatory, high sex drive Now that the obligatory vitals are out of the way, let me give you a better feel for my style starting with what I’m NOT looking for: NOT Seeking: A) Your money or trying to make money off of you B) Someone who wants me to visit another paysite for your ‘real’ profile/pics/etc. C) Anything illegal or underage D) Someone with major mental/physical selfabuse issues - substance abuse, suicidal, violent, etc. I don’t expect you to immediately drop to your knees and beg for a collar. I do expect you to be able to discuss what it is you are seeking to determine mutual compatibility. Limits….we all have them whether we admit it or not and I have mine. Mine are fairly standard - anything illegal, kids, animals, scarring or major injury, blood, scat, etc. I will respect any truly hard limits you have. I am seeking TPE however, so if its not a hard limit, love it or hate it it’s fair game. I am seeking 24-7, so this isn’t a scene with stops and starts…it’s on all the time. You will have more than a few rules to follow, a dress code when at home all of which will be strictly enforced. Major infractions will lead to punishments which will be within limits but won’t necessarily be something you enjoy either. In terms of fetish/sensual activities I have no real limits on my side. I have a wicked imagination and use it freely. I enjoy bondage play from light ropes/handcuffs to strict steel restraints with no movement possible. I enjoy micromanagement, uniforms, clothing choice, forced activities. I definitely have a toy fetish, so ben-wa balls, vibrators of all shapes and sizes (including remote control), clit stimulators etc. are fair game as is orgasm control. Finally, I enjoy various kinds of roleplay from age play to puppy/pet training. On the intense side, I’m more of the lighter to middle of the road variety. Spanking, paddles, crops, straps, whips, wax, ice, clamps/weights etc. are more my speed.. I do have experience with things like electricity (tens unit), etc. but heavy pain play is really not my preference. If you are still reading this and interested, then we should talk. I am real and am looking for the same. I don’t expect you to submit based on 1 or 2 emails or chats in a night, but I’m also not looking to wait 2 years to meet either. If you are interested, then send me an email here (sorry, java chat makes my computer cry) and we can take it from there.

Mack

One last thing... I do have picture(s) --vanilla-- I'm willing to exchange in return for the same but I will not post them here.

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2/23/2018 10:11:39 PM
Whoever keeps trying to video chat with me, my browser does not support that.

11/1/2016 1:07:07 AM
Also seeking female partner into MMOs like TSW, DCUO and SWTOR - D/s optional since I had a ton of fun with online games with a previous partner and I do miss having a friend to level with

9/24/2016 7:05:42 AM
I saw this on a profile and it was so droll and funny that I had to post it.  I'll credit the girl if she asks: 

"I might add that 50 Shades of Grey is about how great it is to find a good looking billionaire who would spank and fuck you, despite the fact that you are not very pretty."

Something in me found this very amusing!!

9/10/2016 7:52:50 PM
Anyone ever heard of the lovesense lush.   Apparently its a remote toy for control over any distance that can torment both the g-spot and clit.  I may be in love with this toy!

9/3/2016 5:49:22 AM
In response to a sort of dare and because I found it interesting:  You can ask me one question (TO MY INBOX ONLY!). Any question, anything, no matter how crazy, dirty or wrong it is. No catch. But I dare you to post this on your status and see what people ask you!...

5/30/2016 9:17:16 PM
Bonus point for any girl that can complete this poem....(I was inspired earlier):

Some say the world will end in fire, some say in ice

2/7/2016 9:46:34 PM
Chat once again doesn't work for me on here....error 2031 if anyone knows what the heck that is.  Probably because my java won't update for whatever reason.

1/13/2015 7:41:36 AM
This isn't mine, but I did think it was a good quote:

*** The Master's Creed ***
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I  am your Master, and you are my Slave.


Because,

I Dominate, you Submit.
I Command, you Obey.
I Lead, you  Follow.


Though,

I will be Unwavering in my Protection.
I will be Careful with my  Strength.
I will be Wise with my Guidance.
I will be Fair with my  Discipline.
I will be True with my Nurturing.
I will be Unceasing with my  Love.

Yet at times,

My Actions may seem Strange.
My Motives may seem Unclear.
My Orders  may seem Frightening

But,

Trust in me to know what's best.
Trust in me to look out for  you.
Trust in me to never betray you.
Just trust in me and Obey

Because,

I am your Master, and you are my Slave.

8/30/2013 7:54:24 AM

Another wise quote; this time from rachelbrat. 

 

"Respect the woman, desire the slut and cherish the little girl. Then you have the mind, body and soul."


6/25/2013 10:16:15 PM

And a rather tame but heartfelt Happy Birthday to me!


6/23/2013 9:05:01 PM

I wanted to add a quote from LynnySubPet because in spite of her young age, she said something very wise about actually living D/s vs. playing at it:

 

"Dom’s help you become the person that you wanna be in a healthy way. They don’t tell you not to eat because you want to loose weight. They push you to run, or eat fruits instead of chocolates. They don’t make you do stuff you don’t want to do. They accept your limits, and respect your boundaries. They don’t ignore you either. If you are mad, or sad, they listen, They hug you (or text you sweet things) while you rant. They protect you too. If someone is harassing you, or bullying you, they’ll come running. If you’re sick, they’ll pour you orange juice give you medication, and snuggle with you. When you’re happy S/He’ll play video games with you, let you draw or read, knit or sleep.  They’ll stand up for you, They’ll care for you, and They respect you."

 

 

 Hard to say it much more clear than that!


1/5/2013 8:35:57 AM

Had my computer hacked recently so I'm still in the process of changing passwords, accounts, etc.  You just gotta love the internet, huh?


11/18/2012 11:28:05 AM

Ok, in the mood for a bit of a rant or perhaps more accurately a philosophy observation.  It occurs to me that one of the 'communication' glitches on here is that people think of D/s as a single community or lifestyle.  If by community, they mean it very broadly as a group of people whose mores go beyond the vanilla, then it might even be true.  The problem is folks tend to think of it in the singular, when in fact there is a whole range of people out there looking for something.  You have your Daddy Doms/daughters, Poly families, TPE slaves, bedroom only slaves, rough sex seekers, puppy/pony lifestylers, Gorean, 50's lifestyle, blackmail slaves, financial Dommes, hard luck folks (who really don't care about the experience, but need a home, money or other support)....well, the list goes on and on.  Every one of these has a totally different set of rules and expectations.  It occurs to me in the end that the 'lifestyle' really comes down to what mutual choices are made by two (or more perhaps) individuals on how they want to define a relationship.

 

Ok...rant over...I now return you to endless ad surfing


11/15/2012 12:31:59 AM

Its late and I'm a bit under the weather, so I thought I'd compose a few tips for spotting fake profiles on here. By fakes I'm generally referring to scammers (folks just looking for money) as opposed to anything else. Once you've read enough ads (yes, some folks actually read ads) then you can see a good # of general trends:

 

1) Ok, this is a gimee, but a good number of the ones from africa fall in this catagory. While that hot blonde in Ghana might be real, odds are they are not.

 

2) A lot of ads from southeast asia also fall in the africa catagory.

 

3) Ads were the user claims to be 'native american' which I suppose some people overseas don't realize that the term does not refer to a blond from Texas. The same ads often list their weight in lbs but its obvious they think in kg...like 55 lbs for example.

 

4) Ads were the user lists their phone or y hoo screen name. I mean really, if its not simply a scam account, who does that?

 

5) Ads were the city is actually written out all in CAPS and the rest is normal text.

 

6) Ads mentioning immediate relocation or relocation asap.

 

7) Ads with a single picture...always decent looking, little or no text and simply a list of generic activities (never anything D/s related) in their favorites.

 

8) There's actually one individual that has a two paragraph long text going into some very generic things she enjoys and what she wants out of life. It usually has 1 picture and generic activities checked. Nothing weird on the surface, except I've probably read that same paragraph 50 times on different accounts scattered across the nation.

 

9) Ads where the city name is a country...usually indicating that person isn't in the US (or UK or whereever), but still wants to show up on a search default.

 

10) Ads where the subs previously owner has 'died' for any reason. If I went by what I read on here, the mortality rate among Doms/Masters must be terrifying. I'll grant its not impossible for death to occur, but I so rarely read that anyone was released because of mutual incompatibility, or they got tired of the relation or even divorce all of which must be much more common that death.

 

11) Ads where they claim to be American/Canadian/English but clearly its a second language at best to them. A lot of times they leave out pronouns altogether. "Am a good experienced slave" is not actually a sentence.

 

I'm not including the picture or story collectors among the fakes catagory. They may not be after what their ad claims, but they aren't looking to make money either. Same with financial Dommes, who are looking to make money, but are upfront about it. Never understood the impulse to send cash myself, but that between them and theirs. Doubt many will read this, but any who do might learn from the examples. I'm sure there are exceptions...I haven't found any to the above list yet (other than 7 once), but they are good general rules to follow.


10/10/2011 6:41:30 PM

Interestingly enough they tried again....but it was fun to string them along this time.   I would have been bored otherwise


10/10/2011 4:26:30 PM

Ok....time for a short rant here.  I was talking with someone today who I thought I might actually have clicked with but I was up rather early for me and after 8 hours or so I ended up taking a nap...ok...that part is my bad...I was tired and didn't let the other party know.    Still, I get up and find an email in my box saying she was a fake, but nah nah gets the last word in and blocking me.  Now I'll admit to being in the wrong for falling asleep but doesn't that seem like a bit of an overreaction...even for a fake???  Being pissed at me I get...the email and block I really don't since in that circumstance I'd likely just delete unread and the like.  Too bad too..thought we had a chance of clicking...sigh


9/21/2009 10:10:20 AM
Well, the search continues, but I'm at loose ends at the moment so I thought I'd leave a few pointers for those who actually bother to read these ads!

1) If you've written me, but haven't taken the time to bother the 2 seconds it takes to pull up my profile, I'm likely not going to reply

2) I like younger (legal thank you) partners, but I always check for age range and location preferences in your ad, so if I've actually sent you a mail, odds are you either didn't have those mentioned or are fine with my age.  Still, I've found of people don't mention those which is sad since it saves a lot of time on both sides.

3) I too have a preferred age range in my ad, so if you fall outside of that chances are I won't reply.

4) I won't respond to any ad or email from an ad from Africa....be you a native or simply visiting for whatever reason.  Sadly, there is a whole racket set up over there to scam people through personals and while you may be the 1/1000 person that is real, I am not going to test the odds.

5) If your email and/or ad contains 52 words that are spelled wrong and poor grammar, but you claim to have been born and bred in Kansas, then you likely won't get a reply from me.

6) If your ad has nothing but a description and picture in it, again I'd be unlikely to write.  People who respond to ads usually like to be able to say something at least and no information means nothing for them to say.  Its hard to strike a conversation up about your height.

7) If I see a cute or funny or even well thought out ad, I might write just to say hi or thank you for the laugh.  Doesn't mean I'm trying to hit on you...take it at face value.

8) Lastly I guess I will comment on pictures.  It always amuses me when someone states they want a 'well established' 'respectable' partner and then states that they won't reply to those without pictures posted.  I could be mistaken, but I strongly suspect most 'well established' folks have the type of jobs where posting their real picture on the internet is simply a bad idea.  But then those same folks lament they don't get real people writing them..imagine that!

Oh well, enough of a rant for today.  The search continues, but perhaps the above will help someone out whether they are on the giving or receiving end.

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SassyStrawberry
 
 Age: 30
 Chicago, Illinois