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In terms of vanilla interests, Im an artist relearning his art, I have a passion and Im slowly gaining back my drive to go through it. It has been a great, even if slow, learning experience, and I have a long road ahead of me. I love crafting and creating things in my ideal image. Im pretty shy but enjoy chatting, its a bit of a problem honestly. I enjoy video games, anime, music, and art. For anime, i usually prefer slower stuff, but can watch action stuff if it has the right feel. For music i enjoy electronic music, some jpop, metalcore, and various soundtracks. In videogames, i can pretty much play anything but prefer games with role playing and fantasy elements. also looking for decent overwatch players to group up with. If all this sounds nice and fun, feel free to message me if youre curious or just want to talk.
In terms of kink, I mostly enjoy it for the control and power. Im not a huge fan of things like physical bondage and beatings, I prefer mental bondage and more psychological and mental bdsm. Im guess Im looking for a canvas to explore and test my own interests and ideas on. I search for someone that enjoy me using them for my own entertainment and purposes
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I'm still not 100% sure what i am as a "dom" exactly, as I'm sure there are many kinds. However i have learned that, at least for me, lust is not something that should be a driving force. It should be a carrot. You use the lust of your sub to slowly drive them into what you want them to be. You use those feelings inside of them to slowly peel back layers that they've created over their lives to cope with being different than they feel they should be. You take them and you use their desires to strip away the doubt, insecurity, nervousness, and illusions they've created to turn them into the slutty, dirty, depraved pervert that they are inside, and you take that and you use them exactly like they want to be used. You aren't "creating a new person", you aren't "forcing them", you're doing exactly what they've wanted all along, and you're using that as a spring board to push them further. |
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Honestly, I see a big part of a d/s relationship being respect. Respect for your dominant, and respect for yourself for your dominant. I see so many "subs" on here who clearly have no respect for the men they're looking for. I also see plenty of doms who have zero respect for the subs and slaves on here. Even if you are a sub, you should still hold yourself to a standard for your future dom or master. |
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| Age: 29 |
| Pasadena,
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