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I am a sub male once looking for ownership, I guess -- burned once, still desiring it, and cautious. I keep trying to resist my desire to be submissive, but it wells up every time I try to push it down.
I am gay but I uninspired by vanilla sex, and what actually turns me on is man-to-man power exchange. I can play the top, but I prefer to submit. The things that turn me on are bondage, sadism, hypnosis, muscles, chastity, and the notion of total power exchange. I like to see a hot man get assfucked or facefucked in a sling, bound in place, nipples clamped, dick caged, balls covered in icy-hot, and flogged -- but best of all if he is crying or struggling, acting like he does not want to be there.

I am troubled by that last part, because it sounds so unethical and felonious. So there has to be a place for consent, but alas, consent makes it less sexy. It is the violation and physical degradation that turn my crank, though. If the sub were begging for cock and he were just loving getting facefucked, that is still pretty cool, but it is not a peak experience. Ideally Sir is not just getting pleasure, He is subjugating.

I struggle with submission and the idea of a collared life. I am educated, sensible, creative, and I like getting to make choices. I like to live a green, simple lifestyle and I would be unhappy if I lost all of that all at once. I realize that ownership means important choices are lost that once were mine. Also, I accept that my Owner gets both to make and to update the rules, and the norms of my life are subject to His changes.

I really dislike feminization, adult-baby play, scat, bloodletting, major body-modification, or law-breaking. I never want to put my mouth on an anus, no matter whose. I also dislike piss play and verbal degradation, but if Master likes it, then it is tolerable. I am pretty neutral about feet, puppy play, rubber, gas masks, sports gear -- they are all cool, and I am happy to play along, but I do not pursue them on my own.

I am fairly masculine and active, though not that big or strong. My profile photo with the baseball cap is from 2010, and I am a bit thicker now, and my belly is not as flat. All other photos are 4 years old or less. But they all show that I am fairly fit and slim. I love weightlifting and exercise, and if You owned me, You could expect me to keep myself fit enthusiastically, if You feed me a good diet.

Skills: All the usual ones. I am a responsible grownup, I pay taxes and my bills. I am emotionally very stable. I cook and clean. I have a great FT job currently. I do not use illegal drugs or smoke (no judgement on those who do). My health is great, except for a serious allergy to cats. No criminal record, no debt, some savings. I am honest. If I were a collared slave, I could be an effective housekeeper, indoors and out. Or I could hold a job -- I have worked retail and other various jobs. I might be able to find work-from-home too. My training relates to technology, but that is as specific as I want to get.

One wish is for access to a gym, either a neighborhood one or a home gym with a squat rack and barbells. I would also wish for an Owner who valued a physically fit slave, which I would strive to be. Another wish is for access to books or internet or some kind of reading material.

My ideal Owner is strong and likes to physically dominate a man, but is not super into verbal insults. He has no hesitation to bind and confine, and to use physical pain both for conditioning as well as for His entertainment. Ideally He enjoys hypnosis and would take an interest in shaping my mind. Further, I hope He is confident, has a robust ego, and knows how to relax and enjoy the non-kink side of life. Ideally He takes decent care of Himself too.

About full-time: I have taken the plunge once before, and it worked out pretty badly. I was sent to a trainer for 3 months, and he was an honorable and fair person, while keeping me in a cage at night and making me work during the day. Ask me if you want to know more. But during my training, the buyer got cold feet and welched on his promises, and then the broker broke his word too. So that ruined most of 2018 for me. I am still submissive and hoping to scratch my sub itches, but (FYI) I am more wary now of flaky dominants.

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9/8/2022 6:17:54 PM

Turn ons: good spelling and grammar, "your" instead of "ur," and a notion of what you, the prospective owner, have to offer.

More on that last point. Your profile should somehow answer the question, "How will I make the slave's life better than it is now?" This site has slaves who are considering voluntary slavery, so you must make a pitch that would make them want to choose you. So many focus on their wish list: "You must be totally devoted to serving me, and have a job, and have no limits." Often that's the entire profile, though perhaps it ends with, "Contact me to learn more." How will you get a quality slave with a pitch like that? What will life with you be like? Can you make the case that you're worthy of trust? That your words are believable? Will life with you be in some way enriching? If you are unfamiliar, look up Maslow's Pyramid in Wikipedia. Is the slave's life with you going to provide more of the pyramid than they have now? If not, why would they it give up?


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NatalieDominate
 
 Submissive, Age:  26
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