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OK. This just doesn't seem to be working. I guess what I'm looking for just doesn't seem to exist. I'm looking for a kind of romance that just doesn't seem to exist. I want to find that special woman who can be my best friend, and a lover that creates the spark in my eyes that I create in hers as well. A very special kind of romance that goes far beyond the Vanilla, "normal" romance. I want to share things with "you", things that most people just don't get. Things that most people might never even imagine. Yes, I want to walk with you hand in hand through the parks, along the lakes, breathing in the fresh air, feeling the breeze and sun on us, smelling the freshness of summer. I want to sit in and watch a movie together and laugh (or, yes, even cry), and make fun snacks together (yes, that CAN be fun!). I want that special woman who will share and grow with me.

Am I asking for the moon here? I hope not. Because I KNOW she is out there. Are you her? I don't want this "dream woman" of mine to mis-interpret what I'm looking for here. In fact, I think if you are her, you understand what I'm saying. Does the thought of leather roses get your attention? Do you listen to Evanescence and FEEL what Amy is singing? Does Trent Reznor's music sync up with your thoughts as you're driving to work, at a job/career that you love/hate, but feel the drain of the morning and evening commute - using the music as an escape from the daily grind? And when you get home, do you find yourself wishing there was something more - something right out of the lyrics of either of those bands? Are you waiting (and actively but unsuccessfully) searching for that man who thinks like you do? Then message me here. And after we meet, you will likely receive that leather rose... And much, much more. Because I have a LOT to offer.

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Why should you be interested? Because I'm a kind, caring guy, who doesn't watch sports incessantly. I like to get out once in a while, for a casual drink (seriously, not a bar-fly, let me make that clear - just like to get out once in awhile so I don't go stir-crazy - I know a lot of you out there are leery of the bar-scene as much as I am). I'm funny to the point of side-splitting laughter, if that's your thing, and I hope it is! Laughter is the best medicine!

My ideal match? I don't think I can stereotype here more than 'if the chemistry is there'. She would have to understand that I have a 7 year old son, and I love him to death. I have him on weekends (which amounts to 24-48 hours every weekend), and one night a week - and if that's a turnoff, you're not the match for me. My son is the cutest little 'dude' you'll ever meet, and I want to meet that special woman who adores that. Someone who can enjoy time with me AND with me and my son doing 'kid stuff' once in awhile. That's the key to this. That's what makes this so hard. Finding that perfect symmetry. I guess that's why we're all here! ;-)

I'd really like to find a woman who doesn't mind playing the occasional video game - just started playing Xbox Live!, and though I'm 37, I love the occasional video game. Guess I'm still a kid at heart - or a juvenile delinquent - whichever... LOL! Honestly, would love to find that same blend in a woman - not necessary, but would be a DEFINITE plus! Need a bit of help decorating my apt here in Greenbrook apts in Greenfield.

That and the ability to have quiet nights at home, watching a movie or two. In the summer, doing things outdoors - the infrequent festival, fireworks on the 4th of July (happens to be my birthday so I never miss it!), camping (definitely want to start doing that more this summer!), and just enjoying the weather (because those nice spring/summer/fall nights are so rare here in Wisconsin!). Also, looking for a bit of a romantic, and a bit of an 'experimenter'. Not sure if that makes sense - Vanilla is great, but sometimes it's nice with some toppings for added pleasure...

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7/27/2008 2:53:24 PM
So, I'm finding that pretty much all the same people are on here all the time, and nobody new ever shows up. And of those regulars (aside from the very few I've had the pleasure to meet or exchange a few messages with), NOBODY on here seems to actually want to meet. I'm real, and I'm very serious about wanting to meet someone of similar mind-set, and this seems to be one of the few places worth trying to find that "someone" that I'm seeking. My schedule with work and being a "part-time" single parent (I have my son EVERY weekend, but still have every other Friday night to myself), makes it hard to meet up outside of these websites - then it's just a matter of setting up a time and place to meet that agrees with both of our schedules. BUT - it seems that nobody really ever wants to meet. Am I really that "unmeetable", or is it just the nature of these sites? Seriously, if you're local, and you're looking for someone with similar "tastes", who's down to earth, fun, funny, and VERY open to new things - get in touch! There must be SOMEONE out there that shares my lust who's actually interested in meeting in real-life... Right?

5/28/2006 10:53:38 AM
Still looking for that Perfect Match. A female Yin to my Yang. Someone with whom I can add to her life as she adds to mine, within and without the Lifestyle. Vanilla tastes good, too, sometimes...

Local is a must. Milwaukee area (Greenfield would be ideal, but I'm not very optimistic at finding someone living right next door - that would be TOOOOO much to ask for)... I'm finding it hard to believe there are any switches left out there who fit what I'm looking for. A sub would do nicely, too - and I wouldn't pass up on the opportunity to find a Domme (if she'd let me play at being top sometimes).

The true beauty in this lifestyle, I think, is being so at one with a partner, that top and bottom are part of the same whole. The ability to be interchangable in the roles - true equals. THAT is what I'm ultimately looking for. I know that many would say that there MUST be one Dom(me) and one sub, and that those roles are explicit. I do not, however,  subscribe to that theory. Not with myself at any rate. I know there are those in which the roles are set in stone (I have met some great people along this journey, and consider them my friends), but for me, I need the equality - the maleability of the relationship.

If she's out there - if she is you, and you are reading this, and this has sparked within you the 'deja vous' that you have thought these same thoughts - don't hesitate to contact me.

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slickjenna
 
 Mistress, Age:  24
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